Cruising, who does it

[S73PHPVFC]

I recently started cruising for sex with men.

I’m not gay, but more likely bi sexual.

Anyway, I find women way more attractive than men, but it is easier to find men to have sex with.

I cruise a local public toilet where I get various levels of luck / success when it comes to giving and receiving pleasure.

Do you cruise and what do you like about it the most?

 

[romand]

The excitement, the risk (well in the old days), the relief. If in the mood for it not much else hits the spot.

 

[martinfs]

Way too nervous to do it, especially where I live. But I do enjoy a good gay sauna

 

[Happyandgay]

The summer I turned 18, I became a regular at the abs, easily twice a week. Never did the outdoor cruising thing much. Gay sauna? Oh lord yes! I miss the two we had here, didn’t survive Covid. It was at a gay sauna that I realized I love getting pounded hard with an audience.

 

[Britva415]

I wouldn't say I cruise, but I have arranged to meet guys at cruising spots.

On the other hand, there have been a few times I found myself at what was clearly a cruising spot, and, had a look around.

 

[Biguy77578]

The summer I turned 18, I became a regular at the abs, easily twice a week. Never did the outdoor cruising thing much. Gay sauna? Oh lord yes! I miss the two we had here, didn’t survive Covid. It was at a gay sauna that I realized I love getting pounded hard with an audience.

I was married and bisexual in 1972 when I discovered abs's and became a cruiser. That expanded into cruising anyplace with the potential for finding a man to have sex with. It was exciting knowing that around every dark corner in an abs, behind the next tree in a park was a potential blowjob or 'cock to suck.

 

[DCRyanB]

I recently started cruising for sex with men.

I’m not gay, but more likely bi sexual.

Anyway, I find women way more attractive than men, but it is easier to find men to have sex with.

I cruise a local public toilet where I get various levels of luck / success when it comes to giving and receiving pleasure.

Do you cruise and what do you like about it the most?

I cruise several times a month. Part of the attraction is the slight risk of being caught or outed. But I also get off on the raunchiness of it. Being on my knees in a bathroom giving head, or lying on the bathroom floor with my ass in the air as I lay under the partition of the bathroom stall getting my ass pounded. Or frotting with a guy on a trail, or sucking a guy off in his car in the local mall parking lot. I can almost orgasm just from the mental aspect of being so submissive I allow myself to be degraded and used like a piece of meat. I love it!!

 

[remington123691]

We gave a park on a river with a boat launch and dog run. I have cruised there a few times with mixed results. I've blown two guys in their cars. What I like most is the excitement of figuring out who's interested and who are there for other recreation. Also it's free. You can go through a lot of cash feeding the arcade at a glory hole!

 

[Uncut1969]

Wish their was more signs of
Who is looking! So intimidating sometimes I wonder if I got the sign as I stroke off and go back and he is gone!

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I travel for work and I leave Sniffies open when I'm driving. I also try to look a little obvious so guys hit me up. I also love to cruise gyms, parks, video stores wherever.

 

[remington123691]

I travel for work and I leave Sniffies open when I'm driving. I also try to look a little obvious so guys hit me up. I also love to cruise gyms, parks, video stores wherever.

I used sniffles at the park and it does help.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

It's awesome. Can see whos close and meet them somewhere.

 

[DCRyanB]

I travel for work and I leave Sniffies open when I'm driving. I also try to look a little obvious so guys hit me up. I also love to cruise gyms, parks, video stores wherever.

Yesss, I always use Sniffies, from anonymous though, to see who’s in my area and to see where good cruising spots are at

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Yesss, I always use Sniffies, from anonymous though, to see who’s in my area and to see where good cruising spots are at

Oh I have a pic of my ass in a red thong, along with what I am looking for, so horny guys can hit me up and tell me where to meet them. It's hot driving down the interstate and getting a message that says something like "I'm at this truckstop come suck my cock."
I do like it for finding cruising spots though. When Im in a new city I always look for the spots. I really love just old school cruising and getting picked up.

 

[DCRyanB]

Oh I have a pic of my ass in a red thong, along with what I am looking for, so horny guys can hit me up and tell me where to meet them. It's hot driving down the interstate and getting a message that says something like "I'm at this truckstop come suck my cock."
I do like it for finding cruising spots though. When Im in a new city I always look for the spots. I really love just old school cruising and getting picked up.

Omg! Yessss, I’ve done the same thing!!! Giving head at a truck stop or getting plowed at one is the best! And what’s great about Sniffies, you know you’re getting lucky cause they’re there. I mean… for the most part. I have flaked out or been the victim of being flaked on. But most times it works well.

 

[Britva415]

Wish their was more signs of
Who is looking! So intimidating sometimes I wonder if I got the sign as I stroke off and go back and he is gone!

If it's a known cruising spot, probably everyone is looking.

Beyond that, there was a thread around here about how to spot the ones who are. Eye contact is by far the single biggest giveaway. If there is a man at a known cruising spot and he is making direct eye contact with you, he's looking.

As far as what is he looking for goes, tops put their hand at their crotch and look at your mouth. Bottoms lick their lips and look at your crotch.

That's not very much of an oversimplification. Things can be more complex or a little less obvious than that. But not by much. You can always clear things up by talking out loud about what you're looking for or asking what he wants.

 

[Britva415]

Yesss, I always use Sniffies, from anonymous though, to see who’s in my area and to see where good cruising spots are at

Anonymous Sniffies users can only see cruising spots when another Sniffies user is checked-in at that location. So it's easy to not be aware of some spots. Creating a registered Sniffies account, and using it, lets you see the cruising spots even if a Sniffies user isn't there at the time.

And it's really no big deal to register and to use the account.

 

[DCRyanB]

Anonymous Sniffies users can only see cruising spots when another Sniffies user is checked-in at that location. So it's easy to not be aware of some spots. Creating a registered Sniffies account, and using it, lets you see the cruising spots even if a Sniffies user isn't there at the time.

And it's really no big deal to register and to use the account.

Thank you for the advice

 

[remington123691]

Sometimes you just have to say "what the fuck" and take a chance. I was at the park where I cruise and sniffles only showed one other cruiser. He messaged me asking if I wanted a BJ...great...another bottom! I told him I was looking to also give one so no go. I parked at the edge if the parking area and continued waiting for another sniffles cruiser. After a few minutes a truck backs in a couple of spaces from me. His windows were tinted so I couldn't make eye contact. He didn't appear on sniffies so I waited a few minutes and when he didn't make a move I decided to go for it.

I got out of my car and walked to the passenger side of his truck and he motioned me to open the door. I asked if he was interested in playing and he replied what have you got in mind. I told him that I was on my way home from work and was looking to suck some cock. He says back, that sounds good but my truck is so full of stuff (it was) I'll have to get in your car. I said, no problem.

We got in my car and he unzipped and slid his jeans down revealing a nice smooth shaved cock and balls. I reached over with my hand and started stroking his his cock. After commenting on how I liked the smooth look I leaned over and took him in my mouth. He got harder and harder. Within a few minutes I heard a loud moan and he flooded my tongue with his cum. It was a nice tasty load.

I guess the moral (or lack thereof...lol) of the story is sometimes to just throw caution in the wind...;-)

 

[Watusi581]

Local park a mile down the road next to retirement community. Always older men there who will take care of me. Close to automatic

 

[Hitchiker69]

I used to cruise Fitzroy Gardens in Sydney. I scored there several times, but never had sex there. We always walked to his place or mine and had great sex

 

[Biguy77578]

Sometimes you just have to say "what the fuck" and take a chance. I was at the park where I cruise and sniffles only showed one other cruiser. He messaged me asking if I wanted a BJ...great...another bottom! I told him I was looking to also give one so no go. I parked at the edge if the parking area and continued waiting for another sniffles cruiser. After a few minutes a truck backs in a couple of spaces from me. His windows were tinted so I couldn't make eye contact. He didn't appear on sniffies so I waited a few minutes and when he didn't make a move I decided to go for it.

I got out of my car and walked to the passenger side of his truck and he motioned me to open the door. I asked if he was interested in playing and he replied what have you got in mind. I told him that I was on my way home from work and was looking to suck some cock. He says back, that sounds good but my truck is so full of stuff (it was) I'll have to get in your car. I said, no problem.

We got in my car and he unzipped and slid his jeans down revealing a nice smooth shaved cock and balls. I reached over with my hand and started stroking his his cock. After commenting on how I liked the smooth look I leaned over and took him in my mouth. He got harder and harder. Within a few minutes I heard a loud moan and he flooded my tongue with his cum. It was a nice tasty load.

I guess the moral (or lack thereof...lol) of the story is sometimes to just throw caution in the wind...;-)

Ive been thinking of trying Sniffies!

 

[Rchaz]

Ive been thinking of trying Sniffies!

For locals it OK, like anything else there are no shows, I fouund that telling it like it is, is best

 

[Rodd121]

Indeed have cruised known parks and roadside lay-bys, though found it hit or miss and a hassle too great for the reward. It also didn’t help my libido one time, while mounted and pounding on a guy, his legs spread wide as he laid back on the bonnet of his convertible corvette, as a cop car cruised past in the distance.

I luv anonymous sex with men, so these days getting my fill cruising Bathhouse’s/Gay Sauna’s.
Sure there’s a cost, however if you time your visit wisely you’ll get a plethora of choice and be able check out what a guy’s got on offer, allowing an informed decision to play or not.

In addition you’re pretty certain the guy’s showered and squeaky clean, confidently allowing mouth and tongue exploration in the most pleasurable and intimate places on both players.

 

[remington123691]

Ive been thinking of trying Sniffies!

I'm two for three using sniffles at the cruising park but did suck cock all three times.