Cuckolding

Lukyluck

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I read somewhere that most men excited by their woman being with other men were cuckolded at a young age. Like late teens, early twenties. Not sure if that affirmation is based on studies or serious reviews but I do find the concept interesting.

For men turned on by cuckolding: has this been your experience?
 
I don't consider myself a cuckold rather someone who gets off on someone else fucking my wife. We did the swinging thing for a few years and I was way into what my wife was doing than fucking their wives. I guess the first time I realized I got off on that sort of thing was when I watched my very recent ex getting fucked. I was hard as a rock and ended up jerking off.
 
Maybe I shouldn't have used the word "cuckolding" in the title. I am now worried it will lead to endless discussions about definitions and variations on similar dynamic.

Let's call this "Men who get hard when their lover act like a "bad girl" with other men." :)

When I was about 20 I was devastated, mad, angry when my GF spent a night with another man. Fast forward 10 years later, when coming back from a short trip this other GF told me that the night before she fucked someone else. I was initially not happy but, a few hours later I was fucking her with enthusiasm while she described in colorful details her previous night adventures.

Since then, nothing turns me on as much as my lover "misbehaving".
 
In my first marriage I enjoyed seeing my wife with other men, or hearing about it after. When I had male lovers some enjoyed seeing me with other men, particularly me orally pleasuring or getting fucked. With men this would have started in teens/early 20s so perhaps correct.

I've never seen it as cuckolding, just fun. When did we start using this term anyway? I don't remember hearing it in the 80s/90s.
 
In my first marriage I enjoyed seeing my wife with other men, or hearing about it after. When I had male lovers some enjoyed seeing me with other men, particularly me orally pleasuring or getting fucked. With men this would have started in teens/early 20s so perhaps correct.

I've never seen it as cuckolding, just fun. When did we start using this term anyway? I don't remember hearing it in the 80s/90s.

I think that term is much older… maybe it became used as a term for the kink in the 80s90s though.

@Lukyluck there might be a relationship in there; it fits I mean I can trace some of my kinks waaaay back.

i knew a guy who **loved** being cuckolded. He used to hide in a closet looking through a crack in the door whilst his partner got it on with someone.

I remember this because he was a big tough dude, not at all what you’d expect, and one time he somehow fell out of the closet and him and his missus had to convince the other guy that everything was alright 🤣

Imagine it - you’re banging away and then this big gangster looking dude crashes out of a closet 🤣 poor guy probably thought he was about to buy the farm
 
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