Cumming Too Soon

[Silver_Arrow]

I often have the complete opposite problem. Delayed or no orgasam can seem fun until your partner is begging for it and you literally can't give it to them.

 

[purvis2]

Prejac happens to nearly all of us at some point. We had already had a very erotic encounter with great sex and I couldn’t wait to get inside her. I guess my anticipation was a little too high as I began to cum almost immediately, and it was a lot, so I couldn’t pretend it wasn’t happening. I could hear the disappointment in her voice. I felt so inadequate but as I held her and began to kiss and fondle her, plan b came to mind. I’d never gone down on a woman after sex but I was desperate to make amends. I devoured her and our juices too! She came hard, moaning and calling my name.
That is one way to fix it. Telling her she’s just too damn hot is another way.
What’s your story?

I guy I went to HS told a story how he cummed while putting on the condom he was so excited.

 

[stargame]

To the disappointment of several... I cum too quickly. One girl even made fun of me.

 

[stargame]

Guys coming too soon, especially when still wearing his clothes, is one of my strange fetishes that I rarely see even in BDSM porn. I know for him it may be mortifying but for ME I guarantee you I will think about it for years afterwards. It happened to me about 4 times in my life and I remember every single time. His shame is probably a big reason why I love it, but it's also the sudden loss of control, the sudden uncontrolled pleasure that tore through his helpless body. Yes, yes, yes.

I don't have advice other than SOME women would appreciate your trigger happy self. And pleasuring her afterwards is the way to go, so you did well.

Very fun

 

[shewantsmore]

my husband had that problem, he has the best mouth ever but when it mattered he would shoot in cpl mins, we tried lots of techniques but nothing really cured it, i said its ok it dont matter still love you but at times it did matter it wasnt ok but never said anything. I think his insecurity about it led to his idea of me finding others,swinging,so i could enjoy someone better in his words, ,i did in the end

 

[Beth_Anne90]

Oh my!! Don't let that prejac problem get you down, especially on that first time. I think most women will understand and be patient with you. I've experienced it with more than one guy and I managed to get him back in the groove a while later and they performed quite well!
Another thing that's problematic is when a guy thinks just because I didn't orgasm that I didn't enjoy sex with him. Rome wasn't built in a day! If it was enjoyable for both of us perhaps we will do it again tomorrow!

 

[Sarge9mm]

my husband had that problem, he has the best mouth ever but when it mattered he would shoot in cpl mins, we tried lots of techniques but nothing really cured it, i said its ok it dont matter still love you but at times it did matter it wasnt ok but never said anything. I think his insecurity about it led to his idea of me finding others,swinging,so i could enjoy someone better in his words, ,i did in the end

I had this issue when a kidney stone went horribly bad and the Dr treatment hurt me badly. I am told really good with oral so made sure an orgasm came from that. Then we got into toys. Even cock sleeves. I kinda liked them still do. But worked thru it. Happy and learned things like and adding things as we go

 

[htobeme5]

my husband had that problem, he has the best mouth ever but when it mattered he would shoot in cpl mins, we tried lots of techniques but nothing really cured it, i said its ok it dont matter still love you but at times it did matter it wasnt ok but never said anything. I think his insecurity about it led to his idea of me finding others,swinging,so i could enjoy someone better in his words, ,i did in the end

 

[Mtnmike]

I often have the complete opposite problem. Delayed or no orgasam can seem fun until your partner is begging for it and you literally can't give it to them.

Yup I have the same problem, wife has said many time's that is one of the biggest reasons she gave up sex with me, go figure, I can't

 

[Plain_Vanilla]

Oh my!! Don't let that prejac problem get you down, especially on that first time. I think most women will understand and be patient with you. I've experienced it with more than one guy and I managed to get him back in the groove a while later and they performed quite well!
Another thing that's problematic is when a guy thinks just because I didn't orgasm that I didn't enjoy sex with him. Rome wasn't built in a day! If it was enjoyable for both of us perhaps we will do it again tomorrow!

Unless the new partner is inexperienced, they should understand and give you a pass. If they don't, if they make you feel awkward or self conscious, then I would consider the future of the relationship as unpromising.

 

[MichelleSwan]

Guys coming too soon, especially when still wearing his clothes, is one of my strange fetishes that I rarely see even in BDSM porn. I know for him it may be mortifying but for ME I guarantee you I will think about it for years afterwards. It happened to me about 4 times in my life and I remember every single time. His shame is probably a big reason why I love it, but it's also the sudden loss of control, the sudden uncontrolled pleasure that tore through his helpless body. Yes, yes, yes.

I don't have advice other than SOME women would appreciate your trigger happy self. And pleasuring her afterwards is the way to go, so you did well.

My mother confessed this fetish to me after my honeymoon. She took great pleasure in the honor.

 

[staylate]

My mother confessed this fetish to me after my honeymoon. She took great pleasure in the honor.

She had a pre-ejaculation fetish?

 

[Sarge9mm]

She had a pre-ejaculation fetish?

I knew a couple of women, don't know if it was a fetish but she liked guys that would please them but not last too long. That way they .

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

The ky gel or spray (slightly better) desensitized does the trick for me. I could usually last 3-4 minutes without worrying,

But a drop or spritz on the underside of the glans gives me the power to go to pound town for 10 minutes or more. It doesn’t dull the physical enjoyment that much as it just takes off that rapid peak..and certainly the slight reduction in sensation is worth the feeling of control and the power to let go in fully.

Best thing about the desensitizer is that it’s not a fixed dosage of medication like a pill. So you can adjust how much you use and where you place it to match your needs and physiology.

 

[Sarge9mm]

The ky gel or spray (slightly better) desensitized does the trick for me. I could usually last 3-4 minutes without worrying,

But a drop or spritz on the underside of the glans gives me the power to go to pound town for 10 minutes or more. It doesn’t dull the physical enjoyment that much as it just takes off that rapid peak..and certainly the slight reduction in sensation is worth the feeling of control and the power to let go in fully.

Best thing about the desensitizer is that it’s not a fixed dosage of medication like a pill. So you can adjust how much you use and where you place it to match your needs and physiology.

Would love to hear more about it. Any info. PM me