Curious & Experiences

Yes. I found I was not alone with these thoughts and desires. Literotica, SilverDaddies and Fetlife have normalized many things that were initially dark and scary
I guess the trick is to find someone near by who share those thoughts and desires... but you are right, online does seem to "normalize" things
 
This may have already been done before, but if I don't ask...

I'm interested in chatting with other guys who are curious and wanting to take the plunge, and those who already have had some experiences and especially how they finally took that step.

I'm curious myself but haven't done anything, a little nerves and a little waiting to to find a regular buddy (safe and discrete) for some JO and perhaps later some oral.
I’m in the same boat. Want to but nervous to take the plunge and also don’t know how to go about it.
 
Bathhouse experience

Bathernaked,

your story sounds a little like mine. I am married, to a woman, and wondered what the other side looked like. Some of my Detroit bathhouse experiences have been outstanding, others have been embarrassing. I have found that it depends on many factors. What time of day, what your expectations are, what the group at the time is like. My favorite bathhouse was in Columbus. If anyone would like to hear some of my experiences there, just ask!
I would love to hear your experiences, best times to go and what to expect.
 
Okay, I've made the jump from bi-curious to bi-golly-I-like-this. Earlier this year, after a couple years of thinking about it, I contacted a man who had expressed a similar situation and disposition towards having a JO bud. First time was super-awkward but hot. Very much on the downlow btw. Second time, several weeks later, was less awkward and hotter! Another few weeks and we met again, traded blowjobs and WOW! I was addicted to cocksucking. Except I haven't had the opportunity to meet again and I don't want to be addicted to cocksucking. Hmmm, it is a hinky spot for me, not sure I want to continue because of my extreme enjoyment (might go off the deep end) or just call it an experience and cut off all contact.

You tell me, guys, how does that sound? Where are y'all at?
I know where you are at, trying to get the taste again but hard to figure out how find a regular bud
 
This may have already been done before, but if I don't ask...

I'm interested in chatting with other guys who are curious and wanting to take the plunge, and those who already have had some experiences and especially how they finally took that step.

I'm curious myself but haven't done anything, a little nerves and a little waiting to to find a regular buddy (safe and discrete) for some JO and perhaps later some oral.
I took the plunge and loved it and have been wanting more but have not found the right guy yet for it. Not into the video store or bathhouse or cruising spots. Would like to know the dick I am sucking and who is sucking mine or cumming in my ass please!
 
I took the plunge and loved it and have been wanting more but have not found the right guy yet for it. Not into the video store or bathhouse or cruising spots. Would like to know the dick I am sucking and who is sucking mine or cumming in my ass please!
Where are you located
 
I took the plunge and loved it and have been wanting more but have not found the right guy yet for it. Not into the video store or bathhouse or cruising spots. Would like to know the dick I am sucking and who is sucking mine or cumming in my ass please!
I have some experience in all this. For me the solution was to establish an online connection with a local guy, make sure both of us want the same thing, and then meet up somewhere public to talk in person. If that all checks out, take the plunge and hope it meets both sets of expectations. If not, try, try again.
 
Okay, I've made the jump from bi-curious to bi-golly-I-like-this. Earlier this year, after a couple years of thinking about it, I contacted a man who had expressed a similar situation and disposition towards having a JO bud. First time was super-awkward but hot. Very much on the downlow btw. Second time, several weeks later, was less awkward and hotter! Another few weeks and we met again, traded blowjobs and WOW! I was addicted to cocksucking. Except I haven't had the opportunity to meet again and I don't want to be addicted to cocksucking. Hmmm, it is a hinky spot for me, not sure I want to continue because of my extreme enjoyment (might go off the deep end) or just call it an experience and cut off all contact.

You tell me, guys, how does that sound? Where are y'all at?
I've also taken the plunge, but less safely than you. I went the anonymous route of "adult" establishments until I realized I could significantly reduce the health risk by starting online. Fortunately I never caught anything (routinely tested) but I consider myself lucky. Plus, I discovered that the act itself is much more satisfying when you know your partner. BTW, I never worried about going off the deep end as you put it. Despite my newly discovered thirst for giving blowjobs and eagerly swallowing the results, I still love everything about pussies and their owners.
 
This may have already been done before, but if I don't ask...

I'm interested in chatting with other guys who are curious and wanting to take the plunge, and those who already have had some experiences and especially how they finally took that step.

I'm curious myself but haven't done anything, a little nerves and a little waiting to to find a regular buddy (safe and discrete) for some JO and perhaps later some oral.
Congratulations - quite a long-running thread.
 
I've also taken the plunge, but less safely than you. I went the anonymous route of "adult" establishments until I realized I could significantly reduce the health risk by starting online. Fortunately I never caught anything (routinely tested) but I consider myself lucky. Plus, I discovered that the act itself is much more satisfying when you know your partner. BTW, I never worried about going off the deep end as you put it. Despite my newly discovered thirst for giving blowjobs and eagerly swallowing the results, I still love everything about pussies and their owners.
Thanks for the insight.
 
Also open to new experiences. As I get older, the more turned on I am by a hard cock. I'm not crazy experienced, but have some. Feeling a soft dick grow hard in your mouth is erotic af. 50 wm here.
I was 70 before I finally asked a man to come to my place to suck my cock. I shot my load over my head. It was increddible. Now I wish I could find a regular sucker. Of course it is also just a unique feeling to feel a cock against your cock. Does not happen often but it is always enjoyable.
 
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Also open to new experiences. As I get older, the more turned on I am by a hard cock. I'm not crazy experienced, but have some. Feeling a soft dick grow hard in your mouth is erotic af. 50 wm here.
Poet: I can totally relate to your comments. I was never homophobic (or vicious as some really insecure guys can be), I just never thought much about MM interactions. I thought guys that had sex with each other were just wired a little differently than I was. Until I tried it myself. And the thing about a cock getting hard in your mouth - wow. I now know why some women (certainly not all women) love giving blowjobs as much as they do. Those dicks go from soft and cute, to chubby and sexy, to hard and needy, to unbreakable and desperate, and then they reward you with spurts of warm love jam. All that is accompanied with squirming, moaning, twitching, crying out, and sometimes screaming. That's feedback, folks. It says "Job well done."
 
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