Curious & Experiences

[CuriousGuyVa]

The question is, when is the best time to have experienced that moment? When you are younger or when you are older?

That's probably a question that has to be answered individually, depending on individual situations and circumstances...

 

[wizard59]

I guess some guys want to have experiences but wait and hope someone will come along, some are lucky to have that opportunity fall in their laps, and others who actively seek out another guy. I'm in that second category. A guy I knew socially pretty much approached me.

Let's hear how the rest of you started out, or what are you hoping to happen.

That trusted special friend is difficult to find even in todays climate.

 

[Bi_Guy50]

That trusted special friend is difficult to find even in todays climate.

I agree... I likened it to trying to find a unicorn.
That trusted friend can be someone you just met or could be someone you already know... you would never know unless some hint is dropped to open a door.

 

[wizard59]

Very true. The ones I have met only want to be in total secret, that in n my opinion makes it hard to keep secret. Becoming real friends makes it easier to hide a secret side.

 

[Spurtulator]

Very true. The ones I have met only want to be in total secret, that in n my opinion makes it hard to keep secret. Becoming real friends makes it easier to hide a secret side.

Why do you think it makes it hard to keep it secret?

 

[wizard59]

Why do you think it makes it hard to keep it secret?

Always sneaking around is like lying something always goes wrong.

 

[Spurtulator]

Always sneaking around is like lying something always goes wrong.

Gotcha. Keeping it discreet can probably work for the short-term. I guess it depends on if you are in a relationship and doing it on the side or if you are totally single and just meeting up for discreet fun. I'm single and not looking for a relationship, so.....

 

[wizard59]

Yeah I agree. I am like you but those I have met are in relationships and cheating when possible. Not my style.

 

[seniorrehaber]

This may have already been done before, but if I don't ask...

I'm interested in chatting with other guys who are curious and wanting to take the plunge, and those who already have had some experiences and especially how they finally took that step.

I'm curious myself but haven't done anything, a little nerves and a little waiting to to find a regular buddy (safe and discrete) for some JO and perhaps later some oral.

This may have already been done before, but if I don't ask...

I'm interested in chatting with other guys who are curious and wanting to take the plunge, and those who already have had some experiences and especially how they finally took that step.

I'm curious myself but haven't done anything, a little nerves and a little waiting to to find a regular buddy (safe and discrete) for some JO and perhaps later some oral.

love to chat long distance mwm 74 - experiences at 50 dream about another - would show

 

[TrailerHitch]

I don't have to sneak or hide anything. My wife knows and supports my Bi side and my adventures with men. Sneaking and hiding and cheating always ends up in a shit storm that isn't worth it.

 

[seniorrehaber]

great your wife is your support - you are very lucky. for alot of reasons many must stay closeted. and many survive on fantasy - you seem to appreciate what you have - i would not jeopardize my relationship and of course i don't really consider masturbating to be cheating. but some probably do. it is a continuum of experiences. we are all somewhere on that. Regards

 

[TrailerHitch]

great your wife is your support - you are very lucky. for alot of reasons many must stay closeted. and many survive on fantasy - you seem to appreciate what you have - i would not jeopardize my relationship and of course i don't really consider masturbating to be cheating. but some probably do. it is a continuum of experiences. we are all somewhere on that. Regards

I very much appreciate what I have. We have an open marriage and she has her playmates and I have mine too. Since we have each other's permission there is no cheating or sneaking or worrying about getting caught.

 

[Southernscot21]

I myself have already had my dick sucked by a guy and fucked a guy but I’m curious as to kiss/make out with another guy, especially while we have sex. Would love to find another guy like me in the south ATL area

 

[Bi_Guy50]

great your wife is your support - you are very lucky. for alot of reasons many must stay closeted. and many survive on fantasy - you seem to appreciate what you have - i would not jeopardize my relationship and of course i don't really consider masturbating to be cheating. but some probably do. it is a continuum of experiences. we are all somewhere on that. Regards

I agree with what you said. There is a spectrum that people fall into when it comes to relationships... it reminds me of the old song by Garth Brooks "Standing outside the Fire". Morality and ethics aside, there isn't a cookie-cutter right or wrong, but what individually works. It comes down to a choice between reality and fantasy, and the acceptance of any consequences that is attached.

 

[ds00712572]

Okay, I've made the jump from bi-curious to bi-golly-I-like-this. Earlier this year, after a couple years of thinking about it, I contacted a man who had expressed a similar situation and disposition towards having a JO bud. First time was super-awkward but hot. Very much on the downlow btw. Second time, several weeks later, was less awkward and hotter! Another few weeks and we met again, traded blowjobs and WOW! I was addicted to cocksucking. Except I haven't had the opportunity to meet again and I don't want to be addicted to cocksucking. Hmmm, it is a hinky spot for me, not sure I want to continue because of my extreme enjoyment (might go off the deep end) or just call it an experience and cut off all contact.

You tell me, guys, how does that sound? Where are y'all at?

Side cocksucking

 

[Spurtulator]

Side cocksucking

Does that mean you suck guys from the side?

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I agree with what you said. There is a spectrum that people fall into when it comes to relationships... it reminds me of the old song by Garth Brooks "Standing outside the Fire". Morality and ethics aside, there isn't a cookie-cutter right or wrong, but what individually works. It comes down to a choice between reality and fantasy, and the acceptance of any consequences that is attached.

Great post... that about sums up my feelings too...

 

[Bi_Guy50]

I'm found it enjoyable reading others take on what they want being curious or bi, and what got them started here and in the PM's. There plenty of guys who do have more or less the same interests... only wish there were one or two close by.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I'm found it enjoyable reading others take on what they want being curious or bi, and what got them started here and in the PM's. There plenty of guys who do have more or less the same interests... only wish there were one or two close by.

That was the purpose of this thread... and there seems to be many experienced and curious guys sharing their thoughts and desires.

 

[FLman1966]

I'm found it enjoyable reading others take on what they want being curious or bi, and what got them started here and in the PM's. There plenty of guys who do have more or less the same interests... only wish there were one or two close by.

Where are you located?

 

[Bi_Guy50]

PA

 

[sandybrooke]

I don't have to sneak or hide anything. My wife knows and supports my Bi side and my adventures with men. Sneaking and hiding and cheating always ends up in a shit storm that isn't worth it.

My wife knew of my cock sucking desire and encouraged me to "just do it and get it out of your system" . When I did she wanted every dirty detail and wanted to watch next time. She loved watching me suck cock!

 

[SWR101]

My wife knew of my cock sucking desire and encouraged me to "just do it and get it out of your system" . When I did she wanted every dirty detail and wanted to watch next time. She loved watching me suck cock!

I’m at the first part of that, my wife has said I have a green light to try a few things and get it over with. We’ll see what happens after I do.

 

[sandybrooke]

I’m at the first part of that, my wife has said I have a green light to try a few things and get it over with. We’ll see what happens after I do.

I got lucky and met a married guy that wanted to play. We became friends and had other interests other than sucking cock. He transferred to another city for work so that ended that.

 

[SWR101]

I got lucky and met a married guy that wanted to play. We became friends and had other interests other than sucking cock. He transferred to another city for work so that ended that.

That’s cool, minus the moving