Cyber Sex--How to?

A little off subject, but humor me. Just how many of these "ladies" in chatrooms are really men? I mean, what would you guys guess? Ive heard ppl say that. Ive even been quizzed about my pantyhose size in one room to prove that I was a woman. Hell, it was a TV that quizzed me!!
Anyhow, I just wondered how often ppl are fooled. What is the purpose in a man doing that? Satisfying his curiosities?
Wow...do I sound naive here or what? LOL
 
_Milky_Whites_ said:
A little off subject, but humor me. Just how many of these "ladies" in chatrooms are really men? I mean, what would you guys guess? Ive heard ppl say that. Ive even been quizzed about my pantyhose size in one room to prove that I was a woman. Hell, it was a TV that quizzed me!!
Anyhow, I just wondered how often ppl are fooled. What is the purpose in a man doing that? Satisfying his curiosities?
Wow...do I sound naive here or what? LOL

If you are just text only cybering, I'm sure the percentage is a lot higher than anyone expects. But its harder to hide that kind of thing with voice and video cybering.

The funny thing is, just the other day I was wondering just how hard it would be to take a video feed, capture it, then save it for sending as a bogus cam feed. As far as I know, there isn't any software that allows this, but sooner or later someone will think it up I'm sure.
 
_Milky_Whites_ said:
A little off subject, but humor me. Just how many of these "ladies" in chatrooms are really men? I mean, what would you guys guess? Ive heard ppl say that. Ive even been quizzed about my pantyhose size in one room to prove that I was a woman. Hell, it was a TV that quizzed me!!
Anyhow, I just wondered how often ppl are fooled. What is the purpose in a man doing that? Satisfying his curiosities?
Wow...do I sound naive here or what? LOL

Way more than people suspect, I would say. When I was into the cyber scene, I knew of a few guys who had alias' that were "female". One used to come into the room as a totally nasty bitch, warning men to stay away until "she" told them they could approach her. "She" had more men wanting to cyber with her than she could keep up with! Why did he do that? One, because he would get bored, and two, he was exploring his thoughts on bi-sexuality. Normally, he would pick men who were very submissive and make them jump through hoops. As far as I know, he never left anyone unsatisfied, even though it really did nothing for him.

Most men will tell you it is very difficult to get any "action" as a man in a chatroom. But log on a woman with some "hey come fuck me" line and he will be overwhelmed. It's not necessarily that the action be taking place to them, but that there is a sort of on the spot storytelling about having sex that will get a man off.

On a similar note, I once created a male persona here at Lit. (I only used it 2 or 3 times, however) Made myself out to be a very mysterious "bad boy" who wanted to "own a bitch" for the night. Each time I logged on with that ID I would get at least 3 women come onto me. How many of those were really men? I've not idea. But it made me laugh. (Of course, this was towards the end of my cyber run)
 
In the past when I cybered, I'd usually end up calling her or she'd call me. Other than being face to face, a phone call is better than IM's. Who wants to take the time to sit and type when you can being talking to each other while both of you are working yourselves to a climax/cum?!!! Of course the next step would be face to face which I've done a number of times, with some turning out good and others not so good (they can talk the talk but they can't walk the walk!) if you get what I mean.
 
Cyber sex? Been there done that.....nothing beats the real thing. However, I will share my tricks of the trade.

When I'm in a Cyber sex chat, I create an image in my mind, and I'm as descriptive as possible. Don't go too fast.......yet don't drag out the story either. If it should escalate to the phone, be as polite as possible and first get to know the person on the other end a little before you jump into the Phone sex.
 
I wanted to post this in response to a lot of the comments made about the lack of joy to be found in a text conversation, this is a real conversation with her name and comments removed.

I hope you like it and find that text can be little move fun that you thought it might be.

(11:48:13) pa_heys: think of me behind you, my arms around you as I hold you against me, sliding in deeply from behind until you feel the tip of my cock pushing against your cervix, feeling it bump each time you push back to take me as we move
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(11:49:37) pa_heys: my hand under you against your neck lifting you up and back to kiss me
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(11:51:30) pa_heys: I move my mouth to your shoulder and lightly nip it as I move harder against you
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(11:52:29) pa_heys: mmmmmm soft nips at first, my teeth against your skin so you can feel them but nothing harder,,,, yet
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(11:54:25) pa_heys: moving over and trailing the tip of my tongue down your spine, tasting the salty sweat on your skin as I push hard into you, holding my hips still as I feel my cock against your cervix, pushed up tight against you I move my hips side to side slowly
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(11:56:20) pa_heys: my hand under you, feeling the slick sweat between your breasts as I move my mouth back up to whisper in your ear how wonderful you feel around me, pushing my hips tight against your body as my arm wraps around you
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(11:56:28) pa_heys:
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(11:58:24) pa_heys: mmmmm I push agianst you guiding you to lay down on the bed more, your hips up some as I lay on top of you, my cock pushing downward more now as I thrust against your ass
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(12:00:26) pa_heys: I slowly roll on to my side pulling you with me, my arm under your head as I kiss the side of your neck just under your ear, my arm curled about you to tease your nipples as you feel the muscles in my upper arm move under your cheek as you lay back against me
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(12:04:03) pa_heys: I nip the side of your neck as I kiss you, feeling your heart beat under my lips I groan softly as I begin to move again, my other hand on your hip pulling you tight against me as I do, sliding it up and down your thigh as I move my mouth down to your shoulder, biting a little harder then, my hand on your breast squeezing your nipple as I roll my hips against you, whispering to you how good it feels when you cum, milking and caressing my cock with your body
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(12:10:52) pa_heys: feeling you as you cum around me again I roll over onto my back pulling you with me again, you are laying ontop of me now facing up, my hands moving up and down your body as I kiss your neck, moving down I slide them between your legs, rubbing your lips where I enter you, gently touching your clit again, rubbing it gently as I rock my hips under you
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(12:14:48) pa_heys: my hand rubbing your clit as I move my other one up to your mouth, trailing my wet fingers over your skin on the way, rubbing them on your lips then moving them quickly to mine to taste you, sucking the wetness from my fingers as I move inside you slowly
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(12:18:30) pa_heys: imagine a song coming on the radio, my voice singing along low and deep, feeling my voice as much as you hear it moving my hand back down I move the other up to your mouth now, sliding my fingers between your lips, moving them in slow gently thrusts to match my hips as I softly sing to you
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(12:22:41) pa_heys: I whisper in your ear, ride me darling, as I guide you to sit up on top of me, pulling us both back so I am sitting up partially as well against the headboard, my hands on your shoulder, massaging the muscles as you ride up and down on my hard cock, trailing down to your hips once in a while to hold you against me hard where I can feel you tight around me
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(12:28:35) pa_heys: I roll forward with you again, now back in the same position as when we started, this time my hips being moving with more urgency as I stay upright on my knees, holding your hips you feel me begin to thrust harder now, my hips slapping against the backs of your thighs as I thrust deep and hard now, you feel my fingers tighten down on you as I begin to move faster, my breath a ragged gasp as I tell you that I am about to cum inside you
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(12:31:45) pa_heys: I push deep inside you with one last hard thrust holding my hips tight against you, you feel the tip of my cock pushed against your cervix deep inside you as you feel me suddenly swell inside you, throbbing as you feel the first jet spraying deep inside you, the heat of it flooding you around me as I begin to move again, an almost frantic sexual thrusting, taking you as mine as I explode
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(12:34:12) pa_heys: I collapse down against you, my breath cooling your wet skin as you feel my arms wrapping around you again now almost falling to our sides as I hold you, kissing and tasting you skin between breaths
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(12:37:37) pa_heys: mmm I roll back to give you room to roll over in my arms, meeting your lips on mine as I slide my hand along your side, my smile soft and gently as I kiss your eyelids and cheeks

The comments below were given to me by the woman I was talking with during the conversation. I removed her name and comments due to my wanting to respect her privacy.

the responses have been removed...but that they were minimal due to the orgasmic responses they created
 
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oh my! oh my! Yes that would do it for me too :D You do have a way with words Carnus. Absolutely love words...my imagination plays with them and my body just automatically responds.
 
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