cyber sex

[Midazolam]

Cyber vs Phone

Hmmm...both can be great fun! However, I would have to say that I prefer phone over cyber. Now, I must admit that I've never had the pleasure of cyber with cams -- that sounds like an amazing prospect.

And, real people over the phone tends to be waaaaay better than pay-for phone. I've tried both...THE BEST was those couple of times my wife had enough vino in her that I got her on an extension and we had a three-way by phone!

 

[thedirtypoet]

IMHO

Erotic e-mails are okay....

Cyber is quite fun....

Phone sex is awesome though.... I love having a wank, talking dirty to a woman and listening to her orgasm.

I had a gr8 net pal (girlie) who I started a phone thing with and it was great... most nights we would have fone fun. I bought a cordless phone just for that reason. She reckoned I had the sexiest voice ever.

I felt that fone sex wasn't being faithful to my ex and so stopped. It was a shame I couldn't get my ex into phone sex but she was awesome when it came to sex in every other way.

Now I'm single would love to hook up with a kinky dirty female aged 20 ~ 30 UK based who wants some fun and has no limits. (If you fancy the idea PM me.)

E

 

[Cyberhound]

how to?

Ok, so all you experienced boffs,
where does one pick up a girl for cybersex?

 

[SexyChele]

Cybersex was fun for, oh, about 4 days or so. Got really burned out on it when I was typing to 5 different men all at once - so much work, and I wasn't even gettin' paid for it! Now, IF I cyber, I only do so with men I know very well. I will bring in another woman I hardly know, though, to spice things up a bit now and then.

Phone sex is truly wonderful - with the right person. And it is tougher to get me to have phone sex than to cyber, so y'all figure that out. I really got into the whole phone thing last summer, but it truly lost its appeal when guys have to hang up because wives or g/fs - who they neglected to tell you they had - come into the room unexpectedly. Also, and this is the worse, men who are about 3 secs from cumming call you, give themselves 3 strokes, get off, and then just hang up. No "good-bye", "that was good", or "go to hell". Yeah, and thanks for making a person feel cheap, buddy. (Those are the ones I warn other women about in chat, though, so I suppose I get my revenge)

Doing the cam thing is wonderful! Voice AND you are able to see the other person! Or, just to know the other person is watching you! Of course, cam is even more rare for me than phone.



Cyberhound, just go into any chatroom - such as here at Lit - and check out the scene. But try to be a gentleman. Guys who come into a room with "Looking for slut to get off with" rarely get taken seriously.

 

[StevenWill]

give themselves 3 strokes, get off

I have never tried this quote thing, so who knows. Yes, three strokes and you're out!!! I have only had phone sex a few times, but it think the key to do what works in person and treat the other with the same respect. Talking dirty can be kind of start without being able to see the person's expressions and feel them close. So a nice slow build up is always great. When we get in relationships, we tend to get too fast. All that delicious kissing with our clothes on goes away and we hop into being sexual very fast. Jumping into phone sex fast can be disappointing, same for cyber sex. In the college sex class I teach, suggest that they kiss and talk with their clothes on until they feel like they can't stand to wait any longer. I had phone sex with one woman where we were not allowed to touch each other until the feelings became irrestibly urgent. Of course, you don't really know, so the honor system applies here. There is something powerfully erotic to hear someone literally beg to touch themselves or beg you to unzip your pants. It can spark some very tawdry teasing and begging and confessions of desire. And, yes, Sexy Chele, you can't hang up immediately. There is still a person on the line and treating them as useless after your desire has been met is not very nice. You can review what you just did, talk about your day, act interested in them as a person. If you can have phone sex, you can have phone cuddling. Just as being totally sexual with someone can build imtimacy, being warm and affectionate is important to human beings too. Same goes for cyber sex.

My two cents.

Dr. Steve

 

[juicylips]

Originally posted by StevenWill
<snip>
Jumping into phone sex fast can be disappointing,

Not always. Instant spontaneous lust has been known to happen.

Trust me.

JL

 

[miles]

Not always. Instant spontaneous lust has been known to happen.

Trust me.

JL

I trust you.

 

[Lust Engine]

Not always. Instant spontaneous lust has been known to happen.

Trust me.

JL

Coming from a lusty person like you dearest Juicy? We believe you! We believe!!!!

 

[HardGeorge]

I enjoy cyber also.

These days it seems hard (no pun intended) to find a partner.

Chat rooms are overcrowded and controlled by a few members.

Oh well maybe again soon.

HG

 

[lorddragonwolf]

cybering can be fun just remember to watch your messangers or you can find yourself typing the wrong thing to the wrong person.

 

[Luminary]

Cyber sex

Cyber sex is O.K.
If you have a metal connection with that person !!
I have a friend I met here...
And sometimes we yahoo !!!
And gets really hot !!!
And sometimes we leave each other long stories and messages that are quite beautiful.
I think it's just who you connect to , and how!!!!

 

[Spurious Scribe]

I've had it a few times and it was fun, but got old fast. To me it is just somebody typing in a story while read it and play with myself. Then the same for the other persons turn.

When I am in a instant message conversation with someone, I like to talk about sex, but not cybersex.

You know, I think I have been coming to feel somewhat this way about cybersex too. I enjoy teasing and flirting in IM more than the actual cybersex aspect of it. Sometimes if a guy indicates to me that he is playing with himself already or all but tells me he wants to masturbate while we are IMing, I may provide him with enough one way converstaion to allow him to get off.

I'm not going to fire up a web camera and spread myself for him, but if I like him and he indicates a desire or need to cum, sometimes I'll willingly do my best with the written word (and often get turned on myself in the process).

 

[Bandit58]

I got into cyber this year and found it a great way to start getting rid of my inhibitions. I was married for a long time and I hated sex with him, so I totally switched off With cyber I gave myself permission to feel again, I had a 4 month relationship with a 30 year old guy which graduated to phone as well, another way of getting rid of more inhibitions!

I finally left my husband 5 months ago, and was so lonely I did the cyber thing a lot....which was probably fate because I then met the love of my life 3 weeks later. I now find that I have no need to cyber with anyone else.....we are mostly online and phone at the moment because we live 5 hours drive away from each other, but we've been together a couple of times and it's just lovely. However due to being repressed for so long I have to learn how to feel again. I can reach orgasm through masturbating and over the phone, but can't quite let go enough with him.....I guess that will come (so to speak!) with more time together. I do enjoy holding kissing and touching...I get aroused, and I love to give him pleasure......

He's only the second partner I've had.....in my 43 years of living

 

[SweetKelly69]

I just can't get into cyber. I like my hands free

 

[Midazolam]

SweetKelly

Hmmmm...why do you like your hands free? LMAO! I guess that means you prefer using the phone or real life? Me too!


Midaz

 

[tonyzee23]

have had cyber sex, phone sex and sent an erotic emails. perfer the real thing

^----
what he said

 

[Foeh]

Cyber! hell yes

I like cyber.. though phone sex is better because i can hear someone moan, and cum..
but in cyber, i can become more creative, hold back, and stuff like that, play my fantasy, tease and many more.. role play and moreeeeeee..
In phone sex, to hear someone moaning and cum, is wonderful, do that sometimes with my friends..

Cyberin, sometimes but i hope i'll find someone in here, who like it also
i've done erotic emails too, and love it too.

so i pick.. cyber sex then..

 

[wicked woman]

I like cyber.. though phone sex is better because i can hear someone moan, and cum..
but in cyber, i can become more creative, hold back, and stuff like that, play my fantasy, tease and many more.. role play and moreeeeeee..
In phone sex, to hear someone moaning and cum, is wonderful, do that sometimes with my friends..

Cyberin, sometimes but i hope i'll find someone in here, who like it also
i've done erotic emails too, and love it too.

so i pick.. cyber sex then..

Welcome to Lit Foeh...oh my this is an old thread...almost 3 years old!! *groan* you certainly were doing some 'research' on Lit, weren't you? but please check the dates on threads....trust me there would have been a few more current ones advocating phone/cyber sex...this is like a blast from the past...

 

[Foeh]

Lol. yeah, it's 3 years ago.. just realize it now.
thanks, will research some more , lol

 

[JoopKnoop]

Hi all!

For my cyber is almost as good as the real thing. I had a couple of cybers where we exchanged photos, e-mails and "played" with eachother by using webcams and i can tell you that, if you cannot BE together, it's the best thing out there. Better than phone because, again, you have your hands free.
MSN Messenger is great in video and audio. Picture quality is good and you can talk about everything, from your little bird that sits with you to showing off how wet or how hard it is. Even cumming is great.

It's a pity that 70% of the people on the internet are guys and 28% are guys pretending to be girls. That makes 98% of no-audience. I wonder why that is. Can anybody lighten me up on that one?

I'm off now to the personals section to see if there are any women on this board that are willing to have a regular cyber with a regular guy who is willing to chat, exchange pics and cam from time to time.

Cya all!

Dick.

 

[trojan999]

Have tried cyber & it just felt very odd, was too wierd trying to type when wanting to masturbate, also it's a bit of a bugger falling off the keyboard and just don't ask where the mouse got stuck LOL

Tried phone sex and that just felt strange too, it just felt really false.

I just prefer doing it for real.

 

[fantasylover]

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[argentSS]

If both parties have GOOD voice over IP, then it doesn't have to be an either/or thing. I really like cyber for all the word play and setting the scene but then the phone takes priority for the moans and cumming.

 

[sexyass111]

delete

 

[iamhorny]

i'd bloody love to but i wouldnt know where to look. most girls tell me to piss off lol but im not looking in the right places. i really want some action lol seeing as im still a virgin