Deal breakers...what are yours?

Lack of hygiene. Unfortunately, there are people who have had sorry parents and haven't been taught good/proper hygiene practices, and I truly feel sorry for those folks. However, if someone doesn't have good hygiene, that's a deal breaker for me
 
Lack of hygiene. Unfortunately, there are people who have had sorry parents and haven't been taught good/proper hygiene practices, and I truly feel sorry for those folks. However, if someone doesn't have good hygiene, that's a deal breaker for me
So you’re not into farts? Noted.
 
  • Poor personal hygiene
  • Offendable-ready (deliberately interpreting everything in a light the will offend them, I just do not have that energy.)
  • LOUD people (See me.. NO SEE ME!! Look at me! Listen to me.. -no thank you.)
  • Unable to listen to others, without having to "one up" the other person's story. (Oh, you just lost your job, house and your eyesight.. oh, I am sorry, BUT!! I know EXACTLY how you feel, yesterday.. blah blah... - no thanks, I am out.)
The list is quite long, so I am just going to stop it here. 😊
 
Reflecting on a recent instinct...

If I'm a dirty little secret of yours, then yeah, I'm out. I don't care about public fawning etc, but if you pretend I don't exist on the threads but are all nicey nicey in pm's... that's a deal breaker.
See that’s why have an empty emotional cup is important. Because when the girl you are talking moves on it hurts way less.
 
See that’s why have an empty emotional cup is important. Because when the girl you are talking moves on it hurts way less.
That's an interesting interpretation of my words. I wasn't referring to being emotionally involved or about people moving on. I was referring to respecting the friendship as it is in the moment. To be blunt: if I'm going to e-bone someone, I expect them to at least acknowledge me in public when our paths cross on the threads. And I'm not talking public displays of affection either. Emotional cups are not my issue.
 
That's an interesting interpretation of my words. I wasn't referring to being emotionally involved or about people moving on. I was referring to respecting the friendship as it is in the moment. To be blunt: if I'm going to e-bone someone, I expect them to at least acknowledge me in public when our paths cross on the threads. And I'm not talking public displays of affection either. Emotional cups are not my issue.
While we haven’t eboned, I’m happy to acknowledge all over your … posts.
 
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