Deal breakers...what are yours?

[bikerbonez]

unwashed

 

[Tallulah82]

While we haven’t eboned, I’m happy to acknowledge all over your … posts.

It's my experience that it's the men whom I haven't e-boned who are more chatty on the threads. I'd think there was something wrong with me, but that's bullshit. I'm fucking awesome.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Wait? I thought all e-boning was banned?

 

[Tallulah82]

Wait? I thought all e-boning was banned?

I did not get that memo.

 

[TongueLust]

Reflecting on a recent instinct...

If I'm a dirty little secret of yours, then yeah, I'm out. I don't care about public fawning etc, but if you pretend I don't exist on the threads but are all nicey nicey in pm's... that's a deal breaker.

Reality check.

 

[TongueLust]

That's an interesting interpretation of my words. I wasn't referring to being emotionally involved or about people moving on. I was referring to respecting the friendship as it is in the moment. To be blunt: if I'm going to e-bone someone, I expect them to at least acknowledge me in public when our paths cross on the threads. And I'm not talking public displays of affection either. Emotional cups are not my issue.

Girl! ^

 

[Pad_Foot]

Hi Tallulah!!
Our paths have crossed though our thoughts have not been traded along the lines you are worried about !
I acknowledge that shit happens. I further apologize, if I am guilty of having done this to anyone.
@Tallulah82

 

[Taegul]

Angry, miserable Karens.

 

[sallysparrow23]

No communication.

 

[BadAmy]

Promises of communication.

 

[Razzyricho]

People having ‘deal breakers’
Everyone is unique, we should respect diversity and be willing to understand various human perspectives.
Have empathy, be outwardly kind and respectful to each and all, it’s not hard.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

People having ‘deal breakers’
Everyone is unique, we should respect diversity and be willing to understand various human perspectives.
Have empathy, be outwardly kind and respectful to each and all, it’s not hard.

I agree with almost all of that. The world could use a lot more kindness, empathy, and seeking to understand different perspectives. I think many of the deal breakers mentioned in this thread are exaggerated for humor’s sake.

On the other hand, there are definitely things that are awful enough in my book to constitute a valid deal breaker.

 

[BadAmy]

People having ‘deal breakers’
Everyone is unique, we should respect diversity and be willing to understand various human perspectives.
Have empathy, be outwardly kind and respectful to each and all, it’s not hard.

It is hard to maintain that position when people take advantage of you.
Also, the another perspective of a deal breaker is "established boundaries".
What's your stance on that?

Also, don't tell me what to do.

 

[BadAmy]

Virtue signalers.
That's a deal breaker.

 

[Tallulah82]

It is hard to maintain that position when people take advantage of you.
Also, the another perspective of a deal breaker is "established boundaries".
What's your stance on that?

Also, don't tell me what to do.

Fucking A.

 

[Cwtchseeker]

Lack of an emotional connection, avoiding communication, not respecting each others established boundaries and finally expecting the other to fall into line with their wishes/wants constantly.

A relationship should always be a balance, and a healthy one if at all possible.

I’ve got better at it, but wish had followed my own advice sooner. Like many, I suppose they’ve been learned the hard way.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

A lack of @Lonelywife1205 in my Lit experience is a deal breaker.
You are on notice, Literotica!

C’mere and let me give you a very long and very squishy boob hug.

 

[Roleplay_LouiseUk]

‘you can ask me anything’ or ‘tell me something about you’

For me if there’s a connection then the conversation will be easy and natural. When these are said it jus feels like it’s not natural and do not click

 

[StillRain]

People who have to have the last word.

 

[Darkrhytm]

People who have to have the last word.

I agree

Normative thinkers

 

[LickableWallpaper]

Dishonesty and not being able to admit they are wrong or that something bothers them.

 

[Paguy8641]

A jealous husband. I don’t need those. Just be happy for her.

 

[TomTeacher19]

Selfishness. Dishonesty.

 

[English_guy_bkk]

The last crisp in the bag .. either you want or you don't. Yes I iron the bedsheets and make them smell like a spring sunset

 

[English_guy_bkk]

The last crisp in the bag .. either you want or you don't. Yes I iron the bedsheets and make them smell like a spring sunset

I'm British so please excuse my outburst