...deal with break-ups

[tvashorny]

Well, if some of you read my previous message, the one about dealing with a girlfriend who had gotten a bit cold, well, I realized the reason: She just didn't think of me in that way anymore. I guess we just grew apart... but we just broke up, and I'm not sure what to do ATM, i haven't done this in years =( any advice/suggestions would be helpful.

 

[borisk]

get together with friends, hang out and have fun!

 

[interfacial]

Unfortunately I've never really had big expectations about my relationships in the first place, so I don't really know how to properly empathize with anyone who just got out of a real serious relationship. I just hope that you can at least look back on the good times and be glad you had her as long as you had her. People get married for 20 years just to decide they hate each other because they refused to quit when staying together was false, just because they were just too scared. Just do your best, take the time you need, then try to charish the good times you have ahead of you, becasue even if you screw up, you can always afford to joke about it later.

 

[Chicklet]

Well, if some of you read my previous message, the one about dealing with a girlfriend who had gotten a bit cold, well, I realized the reason: She just didn't think of me in that way anymore. I guess we just grew apart... but we just broke up, and I'm not sure what to do ATM, i haven't done this in years =( any advice/suggestions would be helpful.

I just went through a painful breakup a few weeks ago. I didn't think I'd get over it, it hurt so much. I'd never been single in my adult life and it sort of drove me nuts ><

I suggest, like previously mentioned, going out and doing stuff with friends. Don't let yourself be alone and miserable. Surround yourself with the people who care about you.

Don't drink alone.

Think about the goals you'd like to accomplish in the next year, goals that have nothing to do with your S.O. Write them down on a piece of paper and figure out what needs to be done to achieve them. Then start doing the things that need to happen to accomplish them.

Exersize, it's a great way to help fight depression. Go for some bike rides. Go running. Work out at the gym.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

I just went through a painful breakup a few weeks ago. I didn't think I'd get over it, it hurt so much. I'd never been single in my adult life and it sort of drove me nuts ><

I suggest, like previously mentioned, going out and doing stuff with friends. Don't let yourself be alone and miserable. Surround yourself with the people who care about you.

Don't drink alone.

Think about the goals you'd like to accomplish in the next year, goals that have nothing to do with your S.O. Write them down on a piece of paper and figure out what needs to be done to achieve them. Then start doing the things that need to happen to accomplish them.

Exersize, it's a great way to help fight depression. Go for some bike rides. Go running. Work out at the gym.

 

[VampireD]

Get a membership at a gym. Go to the beach, go eat some ice cream... Get a pussy pocket... Find a new hobby to take up time

 

[human_male]

Phone her up and ask her if you can have the numbers of some of her single friends.

 

[tvashorny]

Get a membership at a gym. Go to the beach, go eat some ice cream... Get a pussy pocket... Find a new hobby to take up time

Thanks for the helpful suggestions, I plan on taking many of them to heart, as for these ones, done, done, got one because of the lack of sex, and I think i'm going to take up astronomy again =D