Dealing with a foreskin!

[KerrBear85]

You do NOT need surgery to correct this. They make a lotion that contains steroids that helps stretch the skin. All he needs is a doc visit and a prescription. No surgery, no cutting. A non-retractable foreskin happens when the foreskin was repeatedly forced back before it naturally separated. They tell you in hospitals in the US to force your son's foreskin back by the age of 1 years old, but foreskins commonly do not separate from the glands of the head until puberty. Besides, it's really weird and difficult when you are having to hold your son down while he's wailing in pain as you force his foreskin back. NEVER force your sons foreskin back. He will do it on his own when it is comfortable for him to do it.

Well, I've never fucked an uncut guy, but I'd assume you'd have to be more gentle with the head of his cock just like how a many women's clits are extra sensitive from being shielded from the world. Of course, if the foreskin is really tight to the point that you can't expose the head, he might have to have surgery to correct it. Afterall, a lot of the nerves are in that first inch of cock, so you might have a hard time getting him off if you can't get at them.

 

[infinity706]

Very few guys need surgery, but from what I've heard, there are some extremely tight ones that don't retract at all. I didn't know about the steroid thing, but it's been years since I did any reading on forskins, anyway. It's not like I had to deal with one.

 

[KerrBear85]

One of my ex's was like this. I never did see the head of his penis because the skin was so tight around the head. He called it "The goat", because it wasn't very attractive. The opening in the foreskin was literally the size of a dime. There was no pulling back for him, no matter how much he tried. The cream would help but he refuses to go into the hospital for it. It's an ego thing, I think. But you'd think he'd feel sooo much happier once his cock was normal.

Very few guys need surgery, but from what I've heard, there are some extremely tight ones that don't retract at all. I didn't know about the steroid thing, but it's been years since I did any reading on forskins, anyway. It's not like I had to deal with one.

 

[SweetErika]

Very few guys need surgery, but from what I've heard, there are some extremely tight ones that don't retract at all. I didn't know about the steroid thing, but it's been years since I did any reading on forskins, anyway. It's not like I had to deal with one.

If the steroid cream and stretching doesn't work on a foreskin that is too tight, 90+% of the time a very minor surgical procedure in the doctor's office w/ local anesthetic will fix it up just fine. Yeah, no cutting down there seems minor, and it'll probably be sore for a few days, but that's a hell of a lot better than dealing with weeks and even months of pain from circumcision and losing so much sensitivity.

I think I read that circumcision is only necessary in <5% of the cases where there's a problem with the foreskin. For the vast majority of natural men, the cream, stretching or office procedure does the job perfectly well.

 

[In Anticipation]

One of my ex's was like this. I never did see the head of his penis because the skin was so tight around the head. He called it "The goat", because it wasn't very attractive. The opening in the foreskin was literally the size of a dime. There was no pulling back for him, no matter how much he tried. The cream would help but he refuses to go into the hospital for it. It's an ego thing, I think. But you'd think he'd feel sooo much happier once his cock was normal.

There is no such thing as normal. However unless it is uncomfortable or leading to infection I can't see any need for medical procedures.

 

[infinity706]

There is no such thing as normal. However unless it is uncomfortable or leading to infection I can't see any need for medical procedures.

Well, from what I've heard, some guys can't get off at all. It's not that surprising, though. The most sensitive parts of the cock would be covered up.

If the steroid cream and stretching doesn't work on a foreskin that is too tight, 90+% of the time a very minor surgical procedure in the doctor's office w/ local anesthetic will fix it up just fine. Yeah, no cutting down there seems minor, and it'll probably be sore for a few days, but that's a hell of a lot better than dealing with weeks and even months of pain from circumcision and losing so much sensitivity.

I think I read that circumcision is only necessary in <5% of the cases where there's a problem with the foreskin. For the vast majority of natural men, the cream, stretching or office procedure does the job perfectly well.

Exactly what I was saying only more detailed.

 

[HelveticaBold]

Ha ha ha..... feedback is not all that exciting as it turned out.
I found that by the time we met again I was not so interested in him... felt rather distanced and less attracted. He was very young and on other levels there was not sufficient connection I think. Not from lack of us trying but ya know... 22 is 22 ... and as my 23 year old daughter says - there are reasons why 22 year old guys are only suitable for 17 year old girls! Lol! She exaggerates of course but there is some basis to what she says.
However, as he had driven 3 hours to stay with me and as there was no reason not to make the most of the opportunity we had created we did just that. Had a good night of fun and play but I didn't go any further than we had done before... so no oral from me. But I was much more confident in my handling of him, taking into account what everyone has said and I believe it worked for him.
So there you have it. And of course I still need to be prepared for any future foreskin challenges so am very grateful for the help.
My next challenge is to manage an orgasm - by any means whatsover - whilst with a new guy. I find I do have to work for them, whether doing it myself or with my previous partner's help, and it doesn't happen when I'm with someone new. Too tense and stressed by wondering ...will it, won't it happen...means it just isn't going to happen.
Will take a look at some other threads on this topic.

 

[In Anticipation]

Ha ha ha..... feedback is not all that exciting as it turned out.
I found that by the time we met again I was not so interested in him... felt rather distanced and less attracted. He was very young and on other levels there was not sufficient connection I think. Not from lack of us trying but ya know... 22 is 22 ... and as my 23 year old daughter says - there are reasons why 22 year old guys are only suitable for 17 year old girls! Lol! She exaggerates of course but there is some basis to what she says.
However, as he had driven 3 hours to stay with me and as there was no reason not to make the most of the opportunity we had created we did just that. Had a good night of fun and play but I didn't go any further than we had done before... so no oral from me. But I was much more confident in my handling of him, taking into account what everyone has said and I believe it worked for him.
So there you have it. And of course I still need to be prepared for any future foreskin challenges so am very grateful for the help.
My next challenge is to manage an orgasm - by any means whatsover - whilst with a new guy. I find I do have to work for them, whether doing it myself or with my previous partner's help, and it doesn't happen when I'm with someone new. Too tense and stressed by wondering ...will it, won't it happen...means it just isn't going to happen.
Will take a look at some other threads on this topic.

Good to hear your feedback and I suspect your daughter is right. I could be biased though!

The answer to the second is a lot of patience and the desire to take things slowly on both sides. Of course you're not going to get that from someone under 35, and older is better. I'm sure I've stirred things up now but I'm sure you know where I'm coming from.

 

[HelveticaBold]

Could be right about the under 35....or some such age anyhow. It's a funny area altogether ...this orgasm business. Well in fact sex is a funny area, don't you think? lol
Any other skill and there are classes at night school! :-D I know you can go on workshops and stuff to learn about sensuality but they are so expensive and not sure how much 'practical' there is. Lol!
It is a stressy area for me, though, producing an orgasm to order. On only 2 occasions...ever... have I experienced such intensity of sensation that the orgasm was inevitable and urgent and I would have had no chance of stopping it. That was not anything to do with my partner but seemed to be something different in me. A higher level of libido altogether.. but for that occasion only. No idea why that was.
All other times it is something to work for, to create by my own efforts it seems. Anyway I will research on other threads as this is now off topic.
Nice to get your response.
Not sure of your cryptic remarks. You offering some tuition? Lol!

 

[In Anticipation]

Could be right about the under 35....or some such age anyhow. It's a funny area altogether ...this orgasm business. Well in fact sex is a funny area, don't you think? lol
Any other skill and there are classes at night school! :-D I know you can go on workshops and stuff to learn about sensuality but they are so expensive and not sure how much 'practical' there is. Lol!
It is a stressy area for me, though, producing an orgasm to order. On only 2 occasions...ever... have I experienced such intensity of sensation that the orgasm was inevitable and urgent and I would have had no chance of stopping it. That was not anything to do with my partner but seemed to be something different in me. A higher level of libido altogether.. but for that occasion only. No idea why that was.
All other times it is something to work for, to create by my own efforts it seems. Anyway I will research on other threads as this is now off topic.
Nice to get your response.
Not sure of your cryptic remarks. You offering some tuition? Lol!

Tuition? Well, it's an interesting subject we've started on and some mutual research might be fruitful one way or another.

How are you doing with the other threads?

 

[_waldorf_]

if i'm going to give my two cents... with a foreskin it hurts to pull it back far while erect. not a huge problem while flacid but when erect, you don't want someone pulling it back far. especially while wanking because it would be being done at some speed.

my advice to anyone giving wristies to a guy with a foreskin is to grab somewhere between the middle and head of his penis and your first motion should be away towards the head.

 

[guypleasure]

Hi all,
Well through 2 marriages and a few other relationships I have never had to handle a foreskin.
And now it appears everyone I meet has one....!!!!!!!!!

So I now find my usual techniques don't work quite the same and I'm not feeling so confident.

Would welcome help from either sex... ladies what are your best tricks and guys what do you like?

Helvetica

Pretty much do what you've done before I guess. But you can roll it back and then you have the shiny head you are used to, just more to play with.

 

[EasyDoesIt]

Helvetica...you sound like a very considerate lover. Not sure a lot of people would bother to ask the question that you posed. Hope you find a slow, considerate, erotic lover to meet your needs.

 

[HelveticaBold]

Well...Christmas intervened...young men with foreskins were not in great evidence....orgasms have only been available by my own hand.....so, forgot about this site for a while. :-D

My other threads? Not much interest or useful in my posting on orgasms. Maybe no-one knows how to 'do it' or 'not do it'. Nice guy suggested forgetting about it did it for him but it's quite a skill that...forgetting about something that's an issue. Oh ...if only! Lol!

Tuition? Mmm! Intriguing idea....something different about a tutoring session to a normal getting it together session, eh? Don't mean in fantasy terms, mean in real deal terms.

xx

 

[HelveticaBold]

Well you know it's seeming difficult just now to find a lover at all!!!!!! Not that there aren't volunteers.. no, no, there are plenty. But one to my taste, that's different.
But I'm not sure I am being considerate for the benefit of my lover. I think my main drive is to feel confident in what I'm doing ....and that's for me, isn't it? Ha ha.
Of course I want my lover to be having the same great time I'm having but it's not all altruistic.
Anyway I'm off to Ireland at the weekend to stay with a friend and there is talk of her brother being exceedingly interested in us meeting...and apparently exceedingly interesting in the bedroom stakes too. So could be a delightful experience all round. I'm hoping so. :-D

I haven't enquired about the possession of a foreskin....ha ha ha!

xx

 

[jcallny]

just approch the situation as this. It does not really matter if the guy is uncut or not. We all feel the same amount of sensitivity. Some argue that cut is less than uncut but the verdit is still out there.

So go down on the guy when is is fully erect you can still pull down some foreskin and lick. If you pull it down all the way it may be hard to get it back up but there may be an added bounus. If it is rolled down there will be something like a speedbump to deal with when he penetrates you. Dependin on how wet you get it may go back it may not. I dont think any guy will complain about a blow job. Most guys are so happ getting one that they will never care if it is your first time or your 200th.

Some of do care and if we are, we will tell you what works best.

 

[Samuelx]

just approch the situation as this. It does not really matter if the guy is uncut or not. We all feel the same amount of sensitivity. Some argue that cut is less than uncut but the verdit is still out there.

So go down on the guy when is is fully erect you can still pull down some foreskin and lick. If you pull it down all the way it may be hard to get it back up but there may be an added bounus. If it is rolled down there will be something like a speedbump to deal with when he penetrates you. Dependin on how wet you get it may go back it may not. I dont think any guy will complain about a blow job. Most guys are so happ getting one that they will never care if it is your first time or your 200th.

Some of do care and if we are, we will tell you what works best.

Nothing wrong with having foreskin. I'm an uncut man and proud of it. I know plenty of uncut gay, heterosexual and bisexual men who are very neat and have no problems.

 

[In Anticipation]

Well...Christmas intervened...young men with foreskins were not in great evidence....orgasms have only been available by my own hand.....so, forgot about this site for a while. :-D

My other threads? Not much interest or useful in my posting on orgasms. Maybe no-one knows how to 'do it' or 'not do it'. Nice guy suggested forgetting about it did it for him but it's quite a skill that...forgetting about something that's an issue. Oh ...if only! Lol!

Tuition? Mmm! Intriguing idea....something different about a tutoring session to a normal getting it together session, eh? Don't mean in fantasy terms, mean in real deal terms.

xx

Good to see you back, send me a PM maybe?