Dildo and interracial

[DarkLover]

One of my wife's fantasies--which we'll never act out for real--is to have sex with a black man. (We're both white.)

I thought maybe I could approximate this fantasy for her by getting her a black dildo and playing with it. I've tried to find realistic, dark-colored dildos on line, and they are expensive.

Does anyone here have any suggestions about where to buy a dildo for a decent price?

DarkLover

 

[bisexplicit]

What is a "decent" price?

 

[DarkLover]

What is a "decent" price?

Good question. I guess I was figuring not more than $20-30.

Dark Lover

 

[bisexplicit]

Doing a search on literotica's toy section, there were a few different ones that may be interesting to you:

Black Velvet 6.25 inch veined dildo for $16

8.5 inch veined life-like chubby dildo for $13.50 (The product is out of stock, but they can email you when its in stock.)

Manhandler Black "15 x 1.5 inch realistic black rubber dong with thick veins on a police baton type handle. There is 10 inches of insertable length." $26.50

 

[DarkLover]

Oh, thanks, bi...I'll definitely check those out!

Dark Lover

 

[Layne]

Fyi

and for what it is worth, I have bought my share of dildos, and have found that you do in fact get what you pay for. Just my 2 cents.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Amazon.com seems to have good prices on toys.

 

[KarenDee]

Amazon.com seems to have good prices on toys.

And fast delivery too! I ordered something through them and it came 2 days later! How can you beat that for service?

 

[CorsetLvr]

And fast delivery too! I ordered something through them and it came 2 days later! How can you beat that for service?

Not bad, especially when you are in the middle of a dildo crisis. I'll keep that in mind for my next crisis.

 

[CorsetLvr]

One of my wife's fantasies--which we'll never act out for real--is to have sex with a black man. (We're both white.)

I thought maybe I could approximate this fantasy for her by getting her a black dildo and playing with it. I've tried to find realistic, dark-colored dildos on line, and they are expensive.

Does anyone here have any suggestions about where to buy a dildo for a decent price?

DarkLover

Personally I don't think the color of the dick is what she is fantasizing about. I don't know, maybe if she has a really good imagination. Speaking for myself, it wouldn't do the trick for me.

 

[Donna_Ann]

One of my wife's fantasies--which we'll never act out for real--is to have sex with a black man. (We're both white.)

I thought maybe I could approximate this fantasy for her by getting her a black dildo and playing with it. I've tried to find realistic, dark-colored dildos on line, and they are expensive.

Does anyone here have any suggestions about where to buy a dildo for a decent price?

DarkLover

If her heart was really set on having a diamond, would you expect her to be happy with a cubic zirconia? Just something to think about.

 

[bisexplicit]

While we're on the subject, anyone care to explain the fascination with interracial sex?

For me, a person is hot and fuckable if they're hot and fuckable, and being of a different race doesn't determine that.

Is it the myths or stereotypes that people so enjoy (e.g. black men will have a large penis, asian women will be submissive)?

 

[CorsetLvr]

While we're on the subject, anyone care to explain the fascination with interracial sex?

For me, a person is hot and fuckable if they're hot and fuckable, and being of a different race doesn't determine that.

Is it the myths or stereotypes that people so enjoy (e.g. black men will have a large penis, asian women will be submissive)?

I think its just a matter of the taboo nature of interracial sex. The turn on is from it being taboo, not from the fact that a black man is necessarily a better lover.

 

[bisexplicit]

I think its just a matter of the taboo nature of interracial sex. The turn on is from it being taboo, not from the fact that a black man is necessarily a better lover.

Perhaps its just my generation then - I don't see anything taboo about it.

 

[CorsetLvr]

Perhaps its just my generation then - I don't see anything taboo about it.

That's true. I can remember a time when I was younger when seeing an interracial couple was something very unusual. Now its an almost everyday event. I suppose it has a lot to do with when and where and how you were raised.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Manhandler Black "15 x 1.5 inch realistic black rubber dong with thick veins on a police baton type handle. There is 10 inches of insertable length." $26.50

I think I'd have a hard time buying a toy for my wife called the "Manhandler" which is built on a police baton. Not because of the competition, but because I'd be afraid she'd try to turn it on me!

 

[bisexplicit]

I think I'd have a hard time buying a toy for my wife called the "Manhandler" which is built on a police baton. Not because of the competition, but because I'd be afraid she'd try to turn it on me!

*laughs* I thought that one was the most...interesting...

Mostly because of the handle. You have to wonder why they feel it needs a handle.

 

[TBKahuna123]

*laughs* I thought that one was the most...interesting...

Mostly because of the handle. You have to wonder why they feel it needs a handle.

Does it have a warning sticker? "You must be this high to ride this dildo"?

 

[Likes_Them_Kinky]

And fast delivery too! I ordered something through them and it came 2 days later! How can you beat that for service?

Sorry I didn't get it there sooner... One of the women is shipping was amazed at what you bought... It took us forever to get it away from her

 

[DarkLover]

While we're on the subject, anyone care to explain the fascination with interracial sex?

For me, a person is hot and fuckable if they're hot and fuckable, and being of a different race doesn't determine that.

Is it the myths or stereotypes that people so enjoy (e.g. black men will have a large penis, asian women will be submissive)?

I don't know if I can put a finger on it, but let me try.

First, it's not the taboo as someone else suggested here. Not being a racist, I have no objections to mixed-race couples. (And I wasn't implying that anyone else here is a racist, so keep the flames to yourself.)

I think it's just the idea of having something different. If you eat steak every day, chicken sounds good for a change of pace and vice-versa. Being a white male living in Midwest America, I see nothing new about a blonde-haired, blue-eyed woman no matter how pretty she is. But show me a long-haired asian with dark hair down to her waist and a petite body and I'm powerless.

I think this works both ways too. It's not unusual for Japanese men to have a fetish for our blonde-haired, big-busted American ladies (or so I'm told).

The fascination has nothing to do with stereotypes, at least not for me. It's more that the person of the other race is so different that I can't take my eyes off her.

Dark Lover

 

[TBKahuna123]

I think you just hit it Dark Lover. It's exotic. Exotic is basically anything that is out of the norm for your life. For example, we see the tropics as an exotic place, but for someone in Bermuda, the snowy mountains are exotic.

 

[Quint]

Yeah it is hard to explain. The black men I lust after are tall, well-built, very physically intimidating, and thus in my eyes the perfect lustable male. Much like I'm attracted to very petite, adorable asian girls. I know they don't only come in one shape and type, and I know that other races can also be in those builds (yes when I find a big muscular white guy with a shaved head, big dick, and impassive eyes, I'm humping his leg.), but that is the attraction to me in those particular races and they do seem to be more common than in others. A black dildo would probably not be enough to win my heart; it's got to have the rest of the package, no pun intended.

 

[KarenDee]

Sorry I didn't get it there sooner... One of the women is shipping was amazed at what you bought... It took us forever to get it away from her

LOL...well tell her if she needs a recommendation from a satisfied user...I'm always ready to please!

 

[blondi84]

Personally I don't think the color of the dick is what she is fantasizing about. I don't know, maybe if she has a really good imagination. Speaking for myself, it wouldn't do the trick for me.

I was going to say something along those lines myself. Having the same fantasy, it was very erotic for me to see the constrast of his hands on my body, and everything else. I am about as white as they come with blond hair blue eyes medium skin tone, and it was more than just the size or width of his penis. BTW this was long before I was married, so not much help for your situation. Maybe this would be a good suggestion for you, dim the lights quite a bit, have your wife lay on her stomach so she cannot see you, and begin giving her a massage. Ask her to imagine that you are the man in her fantasy, to imagine the contrast of her skin, and so on. After she is aroused, and well into her fantasy, you could start massaging her pussy, and use a large dildo on her. That would probably be enough to put me over the edge, as long as it was something you were comfortable doing.

 

[3sum4fun]

Why not explore the real deal? Having a threesome with a black guy could really spice things up-- even just giving her permission can accomplish the same thing. If you are both emotionally ready for it, why play around with plastic?

I'm not suggesting that you rush into things, but rather keep talking about it, observe how both of your bodies react to the thought. Keep taking it further verbally. You'll know if the time is right for the real thing.

I've never understood people who were afraid to act out their fantasies...