Do Family, Friends, Co-Workers know you're into BDSM?

[Mrs_and_mr]

I have no family and really no coworkers. Most of our friends know to some degree.

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

I think almost everyone that knows us is aware that we are both bi, both sub, and I’m a full cuckold very into being tied, used, forced, and watched. My wife is into tied naked and helpless, used and watched, but not as much as I am.

 

[Vivian251]

No, they have no idea, and I've never let them find out about my toys.

 

[Phatfeet]

My immediate family knows and are rather indifferent to it.

 

[Peppadance]

Nobody knows about the things I’m into; part of me would love to be free of the secret while the other part of me enjoys the fact that they’d never suspect it.

So much alike… I’m glad you are out east…

 

[Erosfan]

I was wondering if anyone close to you knows that you are into bdsm? How did they find out? Do you share your experiences with them?

Once upon a time I was at a convention with a female business associate who happens to be vanilla in nature. Somehow the topic of handcuffs with sex came up and she asked me if I ever did that? Then I shared with her my life as a domme. I told her about a few of my subs who are into it. We then talked and joked about some of the stories I shared.

Kindly feel free to share yours.

The only people that know what I'm into are my SO, and people on Lit.

 

[Erosfan]

No one knows I love being submissive to my wife, and others online. I'm masculine in all aspects of my life. Not that being submissive is unmasculine, just can be perceived as such from ignorance.

I was submissive to my late wife. We had a very special relationship. I am masculine and very much in charge in my professional life. I am not a cuck and she wasn't interested in that. What we had was a very loving relationship where we both enjoyed her taking charge in our sex lives, where I was hers to do with as she wished. We never directly involved others, like friends, although we discussed this at length. She did make sure I was seen under her control on occasion and I loved it. She did tell an aunt and one of our daughters about our interests. Our daughter said "oh mom, that's so normal." I don't know how her aunt reacted, but I'm sure she would have been into it. She is kind of sex freak anyway.

 

[lil_jenni]

Only Hubby, a handful of RL friends, and people here. Oh, a few guys I hooked up with in college know a little too, but I don't have contact with any of them.

 

[abusedsoccermom]

Pretty sure everyone knows... even though I try to pretend it's not true

 

[fma20fma]

no body except my partner knows