Advice needed about older dominant woman.

[LonesomeSparrow]

I’m a male 45 in Uk. Recently I met an older lady who looks great. Id guess she’s 65-70 but I don’t really know. We met through mutual friends and were chatting at a dinner party innocently enough.
After a few drinks the conversation turned to topics such as mild bdsm and I mentioned I’d never tried anything but would maybe like to one day.
She was telling me she’s quite experienced and even has a little ‘dungeon’ room and would show me. To my mind the tone was innocent and I thought she was just genuinely being nice, especially given the age gap.
After the party she showed me the room ( she was the host) where she did indeed have a small room designed for bdsm.
She talked me through some things , her cross, straps, canes, restraints etc with some tips. All very civil.

Anyway she slowly escalated things to try stuff and was soon gently spanking me , tying me up and having me kiss her feet and caress her stockings and legs .

She laid me on a bed and strapped my arms and legs to each corner . She then sat on my face and crudely pulled her underwear aside and made me give her oral sex. She was very forceful and demanded I go harder and faster as she pushed into my face , at times I could barely breath.
She came after a while really loudly and said I was good at it. Then she kind of kicked me out.
In truth i loved and i was so turned on.

Now she’s messaged me to come around again, I want to but am so nervous as she’s so dominant and confident.

My question is any tips or advice for an older dominant lady like this? Things I shouldn’t do or say? She obviously likes to be in charge I’m just don’t want to blow it by doing or saying the wrong thing. I’m also married so it needs to stay a secret.

Thanks!

 

[BillyWalrus]

I’m a male 45 in Uk. Recently I met an older lady who looks great. Id guess she’s 65-70 but I don’t really know. We met through mutual friends and were chatting at a dinner party innocently enough.
After a few drinks the conversation turned to topics such as mild bdsm and I mentioned I’d never tried anything but would maybe like to one day.
She was telling me she’s quite experienced and even has a little ‘dungeon’ room and would show me. To my mind the tone was innocent and I thought she was just genuinely being nice, especially given the age gap.
After the party she showed me the room ( she was the host) where she did indeed have a small room designed for bdsm.
She talked me through some things , her cross, straps, canes, restraints etc with some tips. All very civil.

Anyway she slowly escalated things to try stuff and was soon gently spanking me , tying me up and having me kiss her feet and caress her stockings and legs .

She laid me on a bed and strapped my arms and legs to each corner . She then sat on my face and crudely pulled her underwear aside and made me give her oral sex. She was very forceful and demanded I go harder and faster as she pushed into my face , at times I could barely breath.
She came after a while really loudly and said I was good at it. Then she kind of kicked me out.
In truth i loved and i was so turned on.

Now she’s messaged me to come around again, I want to but am so nervous as she’s so dominant and confident.

My question is any tips or advice for an older dominant lady like this? Things I shouldn’t do or say? She obviously likes to be in charge I’m just don’t want to blow it by doing or saying the wrong thing. I’m also married so it needs to stay a secret.

Thanks!

Jesus, dude, it sounds like you are doing well enough on your own without any advice from us. With someone like her who wants to be in charge, you just have to show up and cooperate (or not if that's what she wants!). Enjoy the ride!

 

[slavejason]

I’d say what part of the UK? As I’ll go if you don’t want to!

 

[Boat1]

I’m a male 45 in Uk. Recently I met an older lady who looks great. Id guess she’s 65-70 but I don’t really know. We met through mutual friends and were chatting at a dinner party innocently enough.
After a few drinks the conversation turned to topics such as mild bdsm and I mentioned I’d never tried anything but would maybe like to one day.
She was telling me she’s quite experienced and even has a little ‘dungeon’ room and would show me. To my mind the tone was innocent and I thought she was just genuinely being nice, especially given the age gap.
After the party she showed me the room ( she was the host) where she did indeed have a small room designed for bdsm.
She talked me through some things , her cross, straps, canes, restraints etc with some tips. All very civil.

Anyway she slowly escalated things to try stuff and was soon gently spanking me , tying me up and having me kiss her feet and caress her stockings and legs .

She laid me on a bed and strapped my arms and legs to each corner . She then sat on my face and crudely pulled her underwear aside and made me give her oral sex. She was very forceful and demanded I go harder and faster as she pushed into my face , at times I could barely breath.
She came after a while really loudly and said I was good at it. Then she kind of kicked me out.
In truth i loved and i was so turned on.

Now she’s messaged me to come around again, I want to but am so nervous as she’s so dominant and confident.

My question is any tips or advice for an older dominant lady like this? Things I shouldn’t do or say? She obviously likes to be in charge I’m just don’t want to blow it by doing or saying the wrong thing. I’m also married so it needs to stay a secret.

Thanks!

You just hit the Powerball!

 

[Boat1]

I’m a male 45 in Uk. Recently I met an older lady who looks great. Id guess she’s 65-70 but I don’t really know. We met through mutual friends and were chatting at a dinner party innocently enough.
After a few drinks the conversation turned to topics such as mild bdsm and I mentioned I’d never tried anything but would maybe like to one day.
She was telling me she’s quite experienced and even has a little ‘dungeon’ room and would show me. To my mind the tone was innocent and I thought she was just genuinely being nice, especially given the age gap.
After the party she showed me the room ( she was the host) where she did indeed have a small room designed for bdsm.
She talked me through some things , her cross, straps, canes, restraints etc with some tips. All very civil.

Anyway she slowly escalated things to try stuff and was soon gently spanking me , tying me up and having me kiss her feet and caress her stockings and legs .

She laid me on a bed and strapped my arms and legs to each corner . She then sat on my face and crudely pulled her underwear aside and made me give her oral sex. She was very forceful and demanded I go harder and faster as she pushed into my face , at times I could barely breath.
She came after a while really loudly and said I was good at it. Then she kind of kicked me out.
In truth i loved and i was so turned on.

Now she’s messaged me to come around again, I want to but am so nervous as she’s so dominant and confident.

My question is any tips or advice for an older dominant lady like this? Things I shouldn’t do or say? She obviously likes to be in charge I’m just don’t want to blow it by doing or saying the wrong thing. I’m also married so it needs to stay a secret.

Thanks!

My Goddess Wife turns 65 this spring and is SEXY AF!
She is absolutely PERFECT and I wouldn't trade Her for 5 young ones and all the gold in the world....
Flat fact, I wouldn't exist without Her.

 

[DirtyGranpa66]

I’m a male 45 in Uk. Recently I met an older lady who looks great. Id guess she’s 65-70 but I don’t really know. We met through mutual friends and were chatting at a dinner party innocently enough.
After a few drinks the conversation turned to topics such as mild bdsm and I mentioned I’d never tried anything but would maybe like to one day.
She was telling me she’s quite experienced and even has a little ‘dungeon’ room and would show me. To my mind the tone was innocent and I thought she was just genuinely being nice, especially given the age gap.
After the party she showed me the room ( she was the host) where she did indeed have a small room designed for bdsm.
She talked me through some things , her cross, straps, canes, restraints etc with some tips. All very civil.

Anyway she slowly escalated things to try stuff and was soon gently spanking me , tying me up and having me kiss her feet and caress her stockings and legs .

She laid me on a bed and strapped my arms and legs to each corner . She then sat on my face and crudely pulled her underwear aside and made me give her oral sex. She was very forceful and demanded I go harder and faster as she pushed into my face , at times I could barely breath.
She came after a while really loudly and said I was good at it. Then she kind of kicked me out.
In truth i loved and i was so turned on.

Now she’s messaged me to come around again, I want to but am so nervous as she’s so dominant and confident.

My question is any tips or advice for an older dominant lady like this? Things I shouldn’t do or say? She obviously likes to be in charge I’m just don’t want to blow it by doing or saying the wrong thing. I’m also married so it needs to stay a secret.

Thanks!

Go for it
She will let you know what she wants needs

 

[Acloudycd]

Go for it
She will let you know what she wants needs

Do what she says and beg and beg with your soul.

 

[NancyPan]

Thank Herfor the privilege of serving Her. When you next see Her, drop to your knees and kiss Her feet as soon as you enter Her home to demonstrate that you accept Her dominance. You didn’t mention if She allowed you to ejaculate in Her presence. I assume then that She did not. At some point you might humble yourself to beg for Her permission to spurt.

 

[Acloudycd]

Thank you for taking the time please accept my apologies and I beg you to please allow me to show devotion to serving for your pleasure

 

[Acloudycd]

I’m a male 45 in Uk. Recently I met an older lady who looks great. Id guess she’s 65-70 but I don’t really know. We met through mutual friends and were chatting at a dinner party innocently enough.
After a few drinks the conversation turned to topics such as mild bdsm and I mentioned I’d never tried anything but would maybe like to one day.
She was telling me she’s quite experienced and even has a little ‘dungeon’ room and would show me. To my mind the tone was innocent and I thought she was just genuinely being nice, especially given the age gap.
After the party she showed me the room ( she was the host) where she did indeed have a small room designed for bdsm.
She talked me through some things , her cross, straps, canes, restraints etc with some tips. All very civil.

Anyway she slowly escalated things to try stuff and was soon gently spanking me , tying me up and having me kiss her feet and caress her stockings and legs .

She laid me on a bed and strapped my arms and legs to each corner . She then sat on my face and crudely pulled her underwear aside and made me give her oral sex. She was very forceful and demanded I go harder and faster as she pushed into my face , at times I could barely breath.
She came after a while really loudly and said I was good at it. Then she kind of kicked me out.
In truth i loved and i was so turned on.

Now she’s messaged me to come around again, I want to but am so nervous as she’s so dominant and confident.

My question is any tips or advice for an older dominant lady like this? Things I shouldn’t do or say? She obviously likes to be in charge I’m just don’t want to blow it by doing or saying the wrong thing. I’m also married so it needs to stay a secret.

Thanks!

Tell how much you were turned on amd never beg to teach you the right to pleasure her. Say I beg to allow me to be your loyal servant

 

[Acloudycd]

Thank Herfor the privilege of serving Her. When you next see Her, drop to your knees and kiss Her feet as soon as you enter Her home to demonstrate that you accept Her dominance. You didn’t mention if She allowed you to ejaculate in Her presence. I assume then that She did not. At some point you might humble yourself to beg for Her permission to spurt.

Thank Herfor the privilege of serving Her. When you next see Her, drop to your knees and kiss Her feet as soon as you enter Her home to demonstrate that you accept Her dominance. You didn’t mention if She allowed you to ejaculate in Her presence. I assume then that She did not. At some point you might humble yourself to beg for Her permission to spurt.

What mame do i use to address you properly. Ive served and seen such a gorgeous lady. I see what goddess looks like the moment I saw you

 

[LoneMilf]

Or... maybe give a thought to your wife and consider getting a divorce before you indulge yourself. If you don't want it to be found out, you probably shouldn't be doing it..

 

[Dimented]

Or... maybe give a thought to your wife and consider getting a divorce before you indulge yourself. If you don't want it to be found out, you probably shouldn't be doing it..

True, open and honestly be yourself and enjoy life.

 

[Oldswan81]

I’m a male 45 in Uk. Recently I met an older lady who looks great. Id guess she’s 65-70 but I don’t really know. We met through mutual friends and were chatting at a dinner party innocently enough.
After a few drinks the conversation turned to topics such as mild bdsm and I mentioned I’d never tried anything but would maybe like to one day.
She was telling me she’s quite experienced and even has a little ‘dungeon’ room and would show me. To my mind the tone was innocent and I thought she was just genuinely being nice, especially given the age gap.
After the party she showed me the room ( she was the host) where she did indeed have a small room designed for bdsm.
She talked me through some things , her cross, straps, canes, restraints etc with some tips. All very civil.

Anyway she slowly escalated things to try stuff and was soon gently spanking me , tying me up and having me kiss her feet and caress her stockings and legs .

She laid me on a bed and strapped my arms and legs to each corner . She then sat on my face and crudely pulled her underwear aside and made me give her oral sex. She was very forceful and demanded I go harder and faster as she pushed into my face , at times I could barely breath.
She came after a while really loudly and said I was good at it. Then she kind of kicked me out.
In truth i loved and i was so turned on.

Now she’s messaged me to come around again, I want to but am so nervous as she’s so dominant and confident.

My question is any tips or advice for an older dominant lady like this? Things I shouldn’t do or say? She obviously likes to be in charge I’m just don’t want to blow it by doing or saying the wrong thing. I’m also married so it needs to stay a secret.

Thanks!

Go and enjoy or give her my details x

 

[DirtyGranpa66]

Go and enjoy or give her my details x

And mine

 

[LFM90]

I’m a male 45 in Uk. Recently I met an older lady who looks great. Id guess she’s 65-70 but I don’t really know. We met through mutual friends and were chatting at a dinner party innocently enough.
After a few drinks the conversation turned to topics such as mild bdsm and I mentioned I’d never tried anything but would maybe like to one day.
She was telling me she’s quite experienced and even has a little ‘dungeon’ room and would show me. To my mind the tone was innocent and I thought she was just genuinely being nice, especially given the age gap.
After the party she showed me the room ( she was the host) where she did indeed have a small room designed for bdsm.
She talked me through some things , her cross, straps, canes, restraints etc with some tips. All very civil.

Anyway she slowly escalated things to try stuff and was soon gently spanking me , tying me up and having me kiss her feet and caress her stockings and legs .

She laid me on a bed and strapped my arms and legs to each corner . She then sat on my face and crudely pulled her underwear aside and made me give her oral sex. She was very forceful and demanded I go harder and faster as she pushed into my face , at times I could barely breath.
She came after a while really loudly and said I was good at it. Then she kind of kicked me out.
In truth i loved and i was so turned on.

Now she’s messaged me to come around again, I want to but am so nervous as she’s so dominant and confident.

My question is any tips or advice for an older dominant lady like this? Things I shouldn’t do or say? She obviously likes to be in charge I’m just don’t want to blow it by doing or saying the wrong thing. I’m also married so it needs to stay a secret.

Thanks!

Sounds like my dream girl older and forceful. I’d love to have a girl force her pussy down on my face. Was she slim??

 

[average_red]

dude, you are in the sub position. you don't have to worry about figuring out how to behave, that's on her to guide you.

If you want to make it a regular thing just figure out what you want and don't want, bring it up and go from there.

 

[MeekMaster]

Jesus, dude, it sounds like you are doing well enough on your own without any advice from us. With someone like her who wants to be in charge, you just have to show up and cooperate (or not if that's what she wants!). Enjoy the ride!

Introduce us?

 

[BillyWalrus]

Introduce us?

????

 

[MeekMaster]

I would like to be dominated by an older woman or anyone who could intrduce me to BDSM. I am open to fantasizing.