Do lesbian/bi women have "gaydar"?

[Xectxny19X]

*ponders* This all is starting to sound too hard for me. *smiles*

 

[spread]

I, personally, do not have any type of gaydar at my disposal, but I'm not shy about talking to women who don't seem to swing my way. I'm sure that a few of the more straightly inclined ones may find it 'gross' or something, but that's their loss.

edit: I forgot a word. whoops!

 

[Soulfiregirl]

I meet lots of wonderfully sexy gay ladies at the local feminist bookstore...

You know, that's a good idea! I forgot about feminist bookstores. I haven't been to one in ages.

I don't know what it is about grocery stores, but I'm always seeing hotties there. (I don't always hit on women at grocery stores, sometimes I just like to "people watch")

There's a female cashier at a grocery store that I go to every week and I swear she "eyes" me when I come in. I just get that "vibe" from her. I even make it a point to go to her checkout lane so that I can smile and say hello to her. But, being a grocery store, she's busy so she has to smile at everyone. *sigh* So frustrating. She's so damn cute.

There was a girl at work who I thought might be "gayish" but then her boyfriend walked in the one day and she was gushing all over him. So, apparently, I have no female gaydar at all. LOL.

I'd go to clubs but I have asthma, so I'm limited as far as places that have cigarette smoke.

Here's how desperate I've gotten. I posted an ad in the lesbian section of Yahoo Personals. Yes, I know..... I gave up on the other "alternative" sites I had ads on because all I got was replies from couples. I never got just replies from just women. I think it's because I mentioned I'm bi. If I'm not looking for something exclusive, that turns them off. So, in my Yahoo ad ...I mentioned that even though I'm bi, I'm ONLY looking to date a woman at this time and see if that improves my chances. If not, then I guess I'll have to keep searching websites. Ugh.

I have met a guy for two dates so far. (he saw my ad on here) and he knows I'm bi but he's pretty open sexually. That's the nice thing about guys. They don't care. Women are so darn uptight whether gay or straight. LOL. (well, not you guys, the women on this board seem pretty damn cool...you guys rock) Anyway, my guy friend is probably going to just be a "friend with benefits" because I told him I'm still looking to meet a woman to date. I want to be honest with any women that reply to my ad and tell them that I also happen to be kind of seeing a guy but I'm afraid that the minute I do, that will scare them away. So, I'm keeping that on the down low for now. (don't worry, I'm very careful as far as STD's so I'd never risk exposing someone I sleep with to any of that...I am STD free and plan on staying that way!)

I'm glad you guys have had better luck then me. Gives me a little bit of hope.