Do people actually have sex during female periods?

That's why God invented black towels.

Ha Ha!

For me, the watershed moment was when I moved into a place where I had a washing machine of my very own and a supply of dark brown towels and sheets. Menstrual sex went from being a major hassle to a minor inconvenience (really no inconvenience at all from a laundry standpoint).
 
This would have been my post as well. I know they make cups that are reusable. Mine is disposable and so it is very thin.
Oh.. and I might not have used the term "salami" ;)

She uses a reusable "Diva cup".
When her flow is high, it is really high, and she had to change tampons and/or towels constantly, and was distracted by the risk of bleeding through.
Just for the experiment, I bought her the first cup, and she has been using that solution ever since.
Even during the high tide, she has volume for half a day now before overflowing.

I actually smiled at "drop the salami in the box." That was quite unexpected. :)

I know I really get turned on easily during my period, but it makes me self conscious. So, we've only had intercourse if the flow is very light. Otherwise, oral for him it is.


Lady C insist that I should talk about and treat "The Honorable Rod" with due respect! But she is not the one lugging it around, and I have great fun in being respectless about it.

There are no protest when she decides that it is "oral for me" instead.
:D
 
That's why God invented black towels.


This!

Seriously though I'm ready to go more than usual and that is saying something during this time. I met a man once that knew this going in and it was a "slow" day but he said he went "soft" once he was inside and thinking about it. We were in the dark so he couldn't see anything. Seriously dude? I'm generally shy etc but had to say if he was man enough to start he should be man enough to finish :eek: Jerk :mad: I shouldn't be punished for something I can't help nor should I be shunned.
 
Have done it before. No real biggie, just a quick wash up after.

First time I fucked my gf she had her period. Problem was solved by fucking her tight, slippery willing arse. Awesome :)
 
If you don't want a mess use a natural sea sponge.

You can buy them for use on the face or for babies delicate skin - they are completely natural sponges and won't cause any irritation.

Just dampen them a little so they become soft and insert. The sponge will sit in the vagina and absorb the menstrual blood like a tampon , but because they are sponges they are very flexible ..... And you can have full sex without any problems.

If you've been very vigorous during sex they can be a little tricky to reach to remove - and I have panicked thinking it was stuck..... But just have a bath so it absorbs some water and squat and you'll be able to get it out easily.
 
If you don't want a mess use a natural sea sponge.

You can buy them for use on the face or for babies delicate skin - they are completely natural sponges and won't cause any irritation.

Just dampen them a little so they become soft and insert. The sponge will sit in the vagina and absorb the menstrual blood like a tampon , but because they are sponges they are very flexible ..... And you can have full sex without any problems.

If you've been very vigorous during sex they can be a little tricky to reach to remove - and I have panicked thinking it was stuck..... But just have a bath so it absorbs some water and squat and you'll be able to get it out easily.

I wasn't aware of this method but it seems like a great way to manage a cycle with or without the sexual activity.. thanks
 
there's nothing wrong with it. it would be terrible if people let body fluids get in the way of sex.
 
Indian men seem to find the idea of sex during the period disgusting. I think its cultural because you're generally treated like a pariah during those days (sleep in a separate room, not allowed to enter any place of worship, not allowed to cook etc) but I've not had that problem with any of the non-Indian men I dated.

If you're worried about the mess then put down some dark towels or stick to the bathroom.
 
A couple of gf's have said orgasm reduces cramps. Likewise some have said they feel hornier during their periods, but are put off doing anything about is for fear of what the guy's reaction might be. It's never been an issue with me, although I've noticed that "It's fine, I'm not due on for a few days yet" is the girlie equivalent of "Don't worry, I promise not to come in your mouth" :)
 
in newlywed days, wifey used to say, hey do you want to throw down a towel? which was a polite heads up, but expressing an interest in closeness was how it felt at the time...

As excuses started to be made over the years that was an easy one if a person (who shall remain nameless) was in a passive aggressive snit and was wanting to avoid it...one could hint at it and avoid it for long periods of time ...pardon the pun.

Single..I used to only have time to socialize at specific days and after driving 150-180 miles...so...a steady relationship didn't seem worth maintaining and I had a stated goal of avoiding meeting Mrs. Query II, preferring to take a decade or two and meet the congenial Mrs. Query III in say a nursing home...

On more than one occasion, I seemed to be making headway on finding a suitable companion and she would blush and say something about having just started, not quite finished, or (more often) worried they MIGHT start. Most were relieved when I suggested, hey showers are fun, or...well the hotel has a fine laundry facility...

Turns out I am ONLY attractive to women who are either ovulating of just about to dispense with that last egg.

I think it's my kids..I am a breeder of distinction... I sense that they all want one of their very own.
 
I have no problem with it (it's not like there weren't going to be fluids involved anyway), but my ex refused to let me anywhere near her when she had a period, even though it was when she was horniest..... *sigh*
 
the first time I asked fwb for his thoughts on this subject, his reply was,

"Makes good lube."

Neither of us has a problem with it. :D
 
I've never been with a woman who was okay with it. Never bothered me one bit, had a few times where their time started when we were making love, it felt like victory, "A HA! I HAVE INVADED THE NO TOUCHY TIME!"

Sometimes small victories are important.
 
My ex never wanted me to go near her or even think of sex during her period. If she thought I needed it to get to sleep, I might get a cursory handjob, but she didn't want me anywhere near her- she kept claiming that I'd get her pregnant. I offered condoms, spermicide, dark towels, and that I wasn't turned off by it.

She still refused- I accepted it, but let her know that if she wanted to try it, I was open to it. It's a pretty big block to get past.
 
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