Do we all lie about sex?

[ericred50]

I read an artical in a newpaper the other day, saying that "We all lie, and thats the truth", The art of lying is an essential part of life, some people they say lie up to 200 times a day. And get this Men lie more than women, because they find it difficult to cope with reality.

This proffesor says that"Society is tougher for men, especially now they have to face competition from women. They lie out of fear and weakness" This european expert has carried out research and written a book. He claims that everbody lies, and any anybody who says they don't is a liar. Lying he says is as essential to life as air is to water.

So have you lied about how good you are at sex?

 

[SexyThang]

I don't need to lie. I AM that good

 

[Isolde]

I will lie to spare my partner's feelings during sex. I know men are sensitive about things like that so, even if it wasnt great for me, I will try to make them feel good about it.

 

[bluntforcemama]

I was watching something on the Discovery channel about microemotions... very odd thing, but if you videotape someone telling a lie, you can almost always catch them! Just look closely and you can see that they turn their eyes away from you, or make a little snarl that you wouldn't catch unless you paused the tape. Weirdest thing I ever saw! Nonetheless, only 5% of the population was able to lie successfully in the test... pretty weird if you ask me, why people would lie when they're so bad at it. I lie about sex sometimes, saying that it was good, or that it was incredible... usually it wasn't.

 

[Ally C]

I lie during sex, sometimes I stand up too. Afterwards I lie some more - it's something we're all prone to do ...

 

[ericred50]

Type of lies I had in mind, where size of prick, size of tits. Are all you guys 6ft tall with 10 inch dicks, and are the women, all blonde, 38+ DD?

 

[Starfish]

Nope, I have red hair and 38DD's I can prove it too, so no I don't lie.....about that!

 

[Mistress]

Yeah I dont have to lie, I'm know I'm good, I take pride in my skills!

 

[Gnufi Poppets]

I am like the Ally C being for the all kinds of sex happy positions that are! It is all of the good, yahs?

 

[Roll-One]

Never lie about sex, don't have to.

I lie for only one reason, and thats not to hurt anyone's feelings. There is certain questions you ladies ask that i would always lie. Hell i'm not stupid, well maybe i am, but thats beside the point.

Just one example:

Lady: Am I gaining weight?

Me: Hell no honey, why would you say that?

 

[Mistress]

LOL! Only one problem with that Sweet Cakes, we ladies always know you guys say stuff like that to get off the hook!

 

[Roll-One]

LMAO

Sweet Cakes, <smiles>


You ladies may already know, BUTTTTTT I'm going to lie everytime...LOL

 

[Gnufi Poppets]

Nope, I have red hair and 38DD's I can prove it too, so no I don't lie.....about that!

I am now having the lusting for your big DD's! They are for the hot sex squeezing I am liking with the babes like the you are! The red hair that you are having too I am knowing is the wild babes who are the even more the crazed for the big penis Gnufi! You are now doing the proving for Gnufi?

 

[Jade]

Does faking an orgasm count as lying?

 

[nitengale]

No need to lie here. I am damn good, and he knows it. Why else would he stay with me for 25 years? It sure isn't my kitchen skills. =)

 

[nitengale]

Does faking an orgasm count as lying?

Not in some states.

 

[brikol]

Well, speaking from a male point of view... I would prefer if a woman I was with did NOT fake an orgasm or tell me I was good if it wasn't the truth. After all, how can I possibly improve if I don't know there is anything wrong?? Although, to this point I have had no complaints, and although I would like to think I am good in bed, I always strive to be better. So, putting my ego aside, I would rather judge a woman's reactons honestly to my touch, and therefore learn where those places are the woman likes most to be touched, kissed, licked, etc....

So, don't spare my feelings, TELL ME WHAT WORKS!! (Or doesn't for that matter)

 

[Jade]

Brikol

I respect that but at the same time... just b/c a woman doesn't orgasm, doesn't nec. mean she didn't enjoy the sex, you know? Sometimes, it just doesn't happen.

 

[Talon]

Trully brikol....I think men got the 'shaft' with orgasm because we can't fake them unless A) the woman is incredibly ignorant(not that any woman would ever be )
or B) the man has some elaboratly planned scheme to make it look and feel like he's ejaculated...which isn't going to happen

 

[nitengale]

Well, speaking from a male point of view... I would prefer if a woman I was with did NOT fake an orgasm or tell me I was good if it wasn't the truth. After all, how can I possibly improve if I don't know there is anything wrong??

I wouldn't personalize it. Maybe I just had a bad day and no matter what you might do to make me climax, it just isn't going to happen. Would I fake for the sake of not hurting your feelings? NO. I would just say "ya know what, this isn't going to work", and I have.

 

[brikol]

Even if I could fake an orgasm, I wouldn't want to... and it would not be necessary anyway. Plus, I think women love it when they can bring me to orgasm, because they know they have pleased me... in the same way, I enjoy bringing a woman to orgasm knowing that she has been pleasured. I just think fake orgasms cheapen that somewhat... makes me think I did something I didn't do. Although, I don't think any woman has had to fake it with me. At least I hope not.

To me, there is no greater reward for my efforts then to bring pleasure to a woman, and know that it was because of my efforts, and honestly given. 'Nuff said, I think!

 

[Starfish]

Nope, I have red hair and 38DD's I can prove it too, so no I don't lie.....about that!

I am now having the lusting for your big DD's! They are for the hot sex squeezing I am liking with the babes like the you are! The red hair that you are having too I am knowing is the wild babes who are the even more the crazed for the big penis Gnufi! You are now doing the proving for Gnufi?

You know that you have already seen em....Gnufi, whoever you really are!!!
Okay, I'll refresh the link, but I am NOT going to have Sex with you, Gnufi, EVER! Okay? Got it?

Hey wait! Are you gonna show me what you look like, Gnufi?
I'd like this to be a fair trade! That will greatly increase or decrease your chances with me!

 

[Talon]

Heh...I wouldn't mind taking a gander at G.R. but I don't think Gnufi's my type...

 

[Talon]

Heh...Redheads always turn me on...and *extremely* nice chest action there G.R. Sorry Gnufi, but she's definetly got you beat picture-wise. And I'd hate to meet you in person G.R...cause I couldn't stop staring. I have that problem with someone who works at the bank I go to...its very unproffesional

 

[Starfish]

Thank you Talon.
Were is Gnufi? Think he got stuck in a crack somewhere?

Here Gnufi, Gnufi, Gnufi!