Do you have a fuck buddy?????

Nope...no fuck buddy :(


Have a cat, and new car, and a tiny fridge full of MGD but no fuck buddy :(
 
it's on my wish list!!

don't have, been trying, but I'm never taken seriously,
any tips on how to approach a prospective fb?
 
Warmslide said:
Please tell us....does it work for you? How often do you meet? Where? Are you, he/she, married?

Are you looking for a fuck buddy??????
:devil:

Sadly, I have no fuck buddy, and yes, I wish I did.
 
I am thinking that I would like several. Just so I could have one to fit my many moods.

But finding one is apparently hard enough a task to do.
 
Nope and I wouldn't mind having one either. Does anyone have ideas on how to approach a prospective fuck buddy?

I could've had one a while ago but I didn't want to make a move and ruin the close friendship that we had. In hindsight I probably should've done something because the guy she eventually started dating didn't like that we were very close and took it upon himself to drive her and I apart by creating mistrust between us. So in the end my relationship with that women was ruined anyway and I didn't even get to see her naked. :( But I do treasure the time we spent with each other.

Everything happens for a reason.
 
well

I figured this thread would die and it moslty has...but I must say I appreciate the fact that so many want fuck buddies. I too would like one...but much is involved...travel, ability to meet....etc.

Perhaps one of those experienced amongst us would like to share some tips??????
 
well

I figured this thread would die and it moslty has...but I must say I appreciate the fact that so many want fuck buddies. I too would like one...but much is involved...travel, ability to meet....etc.

Perhaps one of those experienced amongst us would like to share some tips??????
 
I have a buddy that I fuck...I call him hubby...does that count?
If not, sadly I don't have one...:(
 
potatohead said:
Nope and I wouldn't mind having one either. Does anyone have ideas on how to approach a prospective fuck buddy?

I could've had one a while ago but I didn't want to make a move and ruin the close friendship that we had. In hindsight I probably should've done something because the guy she eventually started dating didn't like that we were very close and took it upon himself to drive her and I apart by creating mistrust between us. So in the end my relationship with that women was ruined anyway and I didn't even get to see her naked. :( But I do treasure the time we spent with each other.

Everything happens for a reason.

I had one. We work together and had became friends and there was sexual tension between us. One day he called me up and and told me how he had wanted to be with me for quite awhile. He taught me alot of things. He helped me to realize what I want/like in a sexual way. Both of us are divorced, he wants to have nothing to do with commitment, marriage or even serious relationship, but wants sex. I had been burned many times and being a single parent of a young child I had not had sex in years and really hadn't wanted it. I was too busy raising my child on my own and wanted to be the best parent possible. I liked the attention that he showered on me and how he made me feel that I was beautiful and desirable. So when he first asked me to be his fuck buddy I agreed, but did not know how it worked or what to expect. I started to have feelings for him, but quickly realize I would lose him totally if I let those feelings grow. But after setting all the boundaries and realizing that we were there just to fulfill each other sexual needs and possibly some fantasies, it was great! We still work together and are still the best of friends. But there would never be a regular relationship to develop between us. The most important thing for these relationship is to find out exactly what each partner is wanting/needing. Keep those lines of communications open and enjoy his/her company but with no strings attached. To some ppl this is a godsend, others prefer not to have this kind of relationship, because they do not want sex simply for sex. They want it to be something special between two ppl. You can have a f/b for a long time or just for a short period of time. That is between to two of you. But if/when it is over just know that it was good while it lasted and not feel cheated because you both got something out of it and just remember the good times you shared.
 
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tonitits said:
I had one. We work together and had became friends and there was sexual tension between us. One day he called me up and and told me how he had wanted to be with me for quite awhile. He taught me alot of things. He helped me to realize what I want/like in a sexual way. Both of us are divorced, he wants to have nothing to do with commitment, marriage or even serious relationship, but wants sex. I had been burned many times and being a single parent of a young child I had not had sex in years and really hadn't wanted it. I was too busy raising my child on my own and wanted to be the best parent possible. I liked the attention that he showered on me and how he made me feel that I was beautiful and desirable. So when he first asked me to be his fuck buddy I agreed, but did not know how it worked or what to expect. I started to have feelings for him, but quickly realize I would lose him totally if I let those feelings grow. But after setting all the boundaries and realizing that we were there just to fulfill each other sexual needs and possibly some fantasies, it was great! We still work together and are still the best of friends. But there would never be a regular relationship to develop between us. The most important thing for these relationship is to find out exactly what each partner is wanting/needing. Keep those lines of communications open and enjoy his/her company but with no strings attached. To some ppl this is a godsend, others prefer not to have this kind of relationship, because they do not want sex simply for sex. They want it to be something special between two ppl. You can have a f/b for a long time or just for a short period of time. That is between to two of yours. But if/when it is over just know that it was good while it lasted and not feel cheated because you both got something out of it and just remember the good times you shared.

Couldn't have said it better myself ;)
 
Yes I have had them in the past, and it has worked out pretty well. Broke up with my last one earlier this year for a lot of reasons. Mid summer I had the opportunity to start a F/B relationship with a guy who was married, but turned it down as I just could not be part of a lie. This past September I ran into an old acquaintance who I had not seen in a number of years. He had just started a dicorce, we went out several times, and ended up having sex. Since we have definately become fuck buddies, and I think it will last for some time. We see each other 1-2 times a week, and it is working very well.
 
Mysty61 said:
Yes I have had them in the past, and it has worked out pretty well. Broke up with my last one earlier this year for a lot of reasons. Mid summer I had the opportunity to start a F/B relationship with a guy who was married, but turned it down as I just could not be part of a lie. This past September I ran into an old acquaintance who I had not seen in a number of years. He had just started a dicorce, we went out several times, and ended up having sex. Since we have definately become fuck buddies, and I think it will last for some time. We see each other 1-2 times a week, and it is working very well.

Lucky you Misty! Sounds like a great arrangement that may someday develope into something more ;)
 
Joey3308 said:
Lucky you Misty! Sounds like a great arrangement that may someday develope into something more ;)

Yes I think I am in a good place right now, but you never know about the future. Right now I am happy with where I am, and not looking for anything more.
 
Mysty61 said:
Yes I think I am in a good place right now, but you never know about the future. Right now I am happy with where I am, and not looking for anything more.

I'm like that too...when I'm happy with someone, I don't even look elsewhere...it's a good feeling ;)
 
I had a fuck buddy. Then I gave him up but now I think I wil have to get a hold of him again.
 
pogogirl said:
I had a fuck buddy. Then I gave him up but now I think I wil have to get a hold of him again.

I like your choice of words ;)
 
I have had a couple in the past. I'm not much into one night things, so like to find someone that I have something in common or seem to hit it off with. For some reason, it feels safer and more fulfilling to me then annonymous type sex.
 
Brrrrr it's sooooo cold...if I ever needed a fuck buddy, now is the time :eek:
 
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