Do you know how people IRL see you??

[R Nitelight]

Re: You Are All a Bunch of Wierdos...

Hybiddy-HoCho-Wickedy-Schmoe...Buhdee, buhdee, buhdeeeeeeeeee...

Does anyone have anything further to add?

 

[insideShiraz]

Yes...

You can Go and Fort in your own Stall...

 

[naudiz]

Wow. I think this is a great thread, but I have no idea how people see me. I've been called funny, brilliant, beautiful, creative, open-minded, humble, loving, and forgiving. I've also been called stupid, ugly, lame, self-centered, insane, and evil. I guess it's just a matter of perspective. I think the way people view us says more about them than it does ourselves.

 

[Guest]

People seem to look at me as someone they can come to for guidance, friendship, compassion, and support. My family sees me as a good daughter/granddaughter, always there for the family when they need me. Strangers see me as just some nut case that needs to be locked up. lol

 

[lala]

wow i hope this doesn't take too much space

first, i'd like to say i don't feel like i know what you all think of me, even though i've posted enough that you should recognize me when i do (especially being so damn long winded) so i'd kind-of like to know what you all think of me, does it jibe with everything below?

ok, things that could be better:
i'm all or nothing (it comes from being mildly bi-polar) and i contradict myself all the time! i'm very emotional, and show every emotion i have, especially with my partners and family. i'm either very decisive or very indecisive i hate it!. i push others a lot, but you'll see why in a sec. i'm loud. i talk too much. i have the art of sticking my foot in my mouth down to a fine art. i never say the right thing, (there are exceptions) i am long winded (there are rarely exceptions) i am passionate to a fault. i bitch a lot, and even though nothing ever comes from it, people are afraid of me. which sux oh yeah, and i have low self-confidence,...

ok, things that are good: when i push people it's to make them shine the way i know they can and to stick up for themselves and get what they want! (they let themselves get in the way!) when it comes down to anything i'm there and my loved ones know it. i often am the life of the party (i never thought i was, but i digress) i am very positive and happy and try VERY hard not to bring others down with me if i'm down. i am supportive to the end when i need to be, but if i think they need the truth straight up, i'll give it. i "put the schmack down" on my loved ones if ever i feel that they need it, and i've been thanked for it. and i have high self-esteem

WHAT IT ALL COMES DOWN TO:
i am change embodied. thus i am the catalyst for change in others, and i always change myself (i do!)

http://cgi.tripod.com/smilecwm/cgi-bin/s/asian/pangel3.gif thanks for reading,...
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[LAVA GODDESSS]

um......

well i think this guy explained me perfectly, i always am in the library, reading and studying for the final of my therapist exam...and he goes...
"your that tall blonde girl everyone is talking about."
im like "everyone?"
"yeah, the shy girl, i assumed it was you they said the really blonde, really tall, girl, she sits in the library, minds her own business, but is always smiling."

i got to talking with him and i was cracking jokes.
i have an odd sense of humor, im pretty straight forward,
before he left he said, "they should add hilarious to that."

that felt good, well the compliments, and the fact im recognized at all. but then again, i thnk that some people think of me as 'bitch' cause i don't talk to them much, they think im conceited because of it, nope, just shy....

 

[CW]

DITTO to Julia,,,

I am quiet until I really get to know you then watch out I never shut up.

I am a push over. I am the person everyone comes to, to get things done because I have a problem saying no.

I am always willing to help o get things done to the point of spreading myself too thin at times.


I just realized what it is, I think at times they see me as a door mat. You know always there dependable, always there to clean up their crap and never complain about it.

One well used and thread bare door mat here,,,


Julia,,, are we related in some way? Naw, can't be,,, none of family has these traits 'cept me.

WHEW !!!

Now I can continue to lust after you without having to worry about the incest thingie,,,

 

[sinister169]

IRL

Me? I own and operate my own business so that when I fuck up I've nobody to blame but myself, and when I do well, I get to keep all the money! Some people say I'm scary, but I'm successful, so I haven't scared everyone. And the best measurement of all?? - I've got one of the lowest staff turnovers in my industry.

 

[lala]

CW, i want to comment quietly that i dig your sig line, i too am prtoceted by an irrational defense system

to everyone else: i dig reading these, so continue! don't read and think "oh, no one wants to hear about me,..." speak up!