Do you like to be watched as you pleasure yourself?

This damn pandemic is crimping my style. Would totally be up for a mutual Video, but Working from home, with family curtails that!!

Yeah I thought the pandemic would enhance my style & almost get in the way of working from home but voyeurs are very few & far in between :(:(

Men OR women....Do you like to be watched as you masturbate? By the same sex, or the opposite sex? What have been your experiences?

Whatever floats a person's boat is cool but for me it only does it for me if its the opposite sex & luv to observe (watch/hear) their reaction that makes it even hotter for me
 
Yeah I thought the pandemic would enhance my style & almost get in the way of working from home but voyeurs are very few & far in between :(:(



Whatever floats a person's boat is cool but for me it only does it for me if its the opposite sex & luv to observe (watch/hear) their reaction that makes it even hotter for me

I agree with you, watching Or hearing or reading the opposite sex reaction is what does it for me, knowing we are helping each other.
 
Yeah I thought the pandemic would enhance my style & almost get in the way of working from home but voyeurs are very few & far in between :(:(



Whatever floats a person's boat is cool but for me it only does it for me if its the opposite sex & luv to observe (watch/hear) their reaction that makes it even hotter for me

With my setup, I can watch but not perform. Sad situation.
 
Couple days ago GF was quite amorous at the kitchen table. She came twice without touching herself, just moving her legs and asked me for a toy; the cock as opposed to the G spot vibe.
I watched her fuck herself with the vibrator through many orgasms then straddled her legs and stroked myself quickly to shoot cum on her abdomen and T shirt.
What an arousal!
 
As a rule I don't like someone watching me when I masturbate. I view masturbation as a personal and private activity that should be done alone. I have masturbated for past lovers because they wanted to see me do it, but I was always uncomfortable doing so. Perhaps I'm in the minority, but it's how I feel about it.
 
Havent had many watch in person, although I have enjoyed that. Love having people watch me online though
 
As a rule I don't like someone watching me when I masturbate. I view masturbation as a personal and private activity that should be done alone. I have masturbated for past lovers because they wanted to see me do it, but I was always uncomfortable doing so. Perhaps I'm in the minority, but it's how I feel about it.

That's the point :)
It IS personal and private! And this is exactly why it is so hot to be ordered to do it in full veiw of a lover. If he is fully clothed, even better. Yes, uncomfortable for a little bit. Until you get to see his changing face, hear his fast breathing, and know that this is a reaction to the view, to the show, to you. Then the whole power dynamic changes and you have the full control of the room.
 
That's the point :)
It IS personal and private! And this is exactly why it is so hot to be ordered to do it in full veiw of a lover. If he is fully clothed, even better. Yes, uncomfortable for a little bit. Until you get to see his changing face, hear his fast breathing, and know that this is a reaction to the view, to the show, to you. Then the whole power dynamic changes and you have the full control of the room.

This - exactly. The genders involved are irrelevant. The fact that another person is aroused by my act is an incredible turn on, and the power transfer only heightens that.
 
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As a rule I don't like someone watching me when I masturbate. I view masturbation as a personal and private activity that should be done alone. I have masturbated for past lovers because they wanted to see me do it, but I was always uncomfortable doing so. Perhaps I'm in the minority, but it's how I feel about it.

That's the point :)
It IS personal and private! And this is exactly why it is so hot to be ordered to do it in full veiw of a lover. If he is fully clothed, even better. Yes, uncomfortable for a little bit. Until you get to see his changing face, hear his fast breathing, and know that this is a reaction to the view, to the show, to you. Then the whole power dynamic changes and you have the full control of the room.<-- Yeah yeah yeah this part....... this fucking part right here is what I luv the most the power/control part just knowing you're controlling & orchestrating someone's pleasure is the ultimate turn on for me!


I understand both these points when I was younger just emerging from society induced prudeness lol I was soooo embarrassed about the idea of anyone knowing that I touched myself for MY pleasure. As a man coming from where I'm from that's like taboo, yeah sure "ladies tell me about your masturbation and let my watch/listen" but will I tell/show you "naaahhhh" But as I got older & more comfortable with sex/sexuality I was more & more like fuck it, let's do it! First time I had phone sex with a woman I think I put my phone on mute when I came LOL but after awhile (& especially when I was told how "sexy" I sounded when I came) I got more & more comfortable. And over the last few years I finally got comfortable with being watched - & it actually became a turn on to be watched. But I really get the personal/private part of this but the hotness of it is allowing yourself to be vurnable & trusting of someone to expose (no pun) yourself like that.

Oh and I'm not saying this to convince anyone to do something they're not comfortable with just sharing my experience.
 
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Men OR women....Do you like to be watched as you masturbate? By the same sex, or the opposite sex? What have been your experiences?

We all have a little voyeur in all of us. How horny we get determines who we let see us do it.

I’m willing to let anyone watch me. I told this story before. My wife was sleeping and I was horny. So I started to masterbate. I heard someone at my bedroom door. I stopped for just a minute to listen. I could make out a shadow at the door. Instead of stopping, I pushed the blanket down. I cupped my balls with my left hand and was stroking with my right.

I knew I was giving my stepdaughter a show but I didn’t care. I was just horny as fuck.
 
I too love to be watched while I masterbate . . . . have done it on cam many times too :)
 
I love it and I love masturbating always have done something so very naughty about touching yourself in that way.
 
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