Helping out a friend

[Easybi]

Yeah, when I came out as bi one of my best friends ended up drunk one night and he asked if would suck his cock.
It was kinda joking at first but few more drinks later it came up again. I said get it out thinking he would shy away but he dropped his trousers in seconds lol.
He was big about 8inch I dropped to my knees and started slowly he got kinda rough with me which was unexpected as not his character but it was great, stayed the night and we fucked.

Only things it's changed the friend dynamic now and hell message me at random times to get his frustration out

 

[HanSoleOh]

Yeah, when I came out as bi one of my best friends ended up drunk one night and he asked if would suck his cock.
It was kinda joking at first but few more drinks later it came up again. I said get it out thinking he would shy away but he dropped his trousers in seconds lol.
He was big about 8inch I dropped to my knees and started slowly he got kinda rough with me which was unexpected as not his character but it was great, stayed the night and we fucked.

Only things it's changed the friend dynamic now and hell message me at random times to get his frustration out

Do you mind helping him get his frustration out? Or enjoy it?

 

[HanSoleOh]

I’ve sent videos of my man fucking my pussy or ass or me sucking his dick to a friend in a sexless marriage he lives his wife but I recently learned that he also enjoys sex with men. I have no desire to be with him. But I’ve known him for 14 years and he does a lot for his family. I feel bad for him and he never is pervy about it.

That’s what I’m talking about. You’re a real friend!

 

[Easybi]

Do you mind helping him get his frustration out? Or enjoy it?

Yeah I do enjoy it he knows that as well just a different friendship now instead of going to watch the football and a pint together it's taking a load or quickly being fucked

 

[Not Normal]

3 years ago, a couple we were friends with divorced. We remained close with the wife, as she and my wife had worked together and are close. Because I'd been through a divorce, I was doing my best to be helpful to her, including answering the phone when she called in a panic. I was able to help her, and we felt closer after that. As she healed, she started to feel sexual desire and went on a bit of a journey of self exploration. While she and my wife were together one day, the friend said she would like to have someone to have sex with, but wasn't looking to date or have a partner before she felt more healed. My wife offered me up, and asked me if I'd be interested, and, much to my own surprise, I was. The 3 of us had a long conversation one Saturday night, and it was decided that we'd try to see what happened. We sexted a lot that night. The next day I texted her saying to get ready, that I'd be over in an hour. We've been together 2 and a half years.

So, I guess my answer is "yes, I would help if I could."

 

[LoneMilf]

Interesting thread

For me, it's changed. While I was married, it would have been a hard 'no' - and I still wouldn't do anything to help someone cheat on their spouse in any way.

But now, if a close friend asked for something that only involved the two of us... why not? I think we tend to take sex too seriously and read too much into it. In a way, it's just an advanced hug

 

[Imagin8ion8]

I'm not sure a friend has ever asked me that. Would be a nice experience.

I love knowing men stroke their cocks thinking of me

 

[tristantrotsky]

I love knowing men stroke their cocks thinking of me

You'll be happy to know you've got me stroking now!

 

[Isinlarsa]

I had a very good friend who happened to be a lesbian, one night she said she was curious so I said sure....

A gay buddy of mine never had sex with a woman. His female cousin offered to let him fuck her so he would know what it was like to fuck a woman. He turned her down. Ironic thing about him is that women found him attractive and kept asking him for sex. I wish I had that problem.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife helped a friend (former lover from college) who was wounded in war and was sterile. He was not sure he could perform sexually and was afraid to try with a stranger. We agreed for my wife to be his test case. Everything worked fine.

 

[DomRick]

I searched around and didn’t see a discussion on the topic, but apologies if it has already come up.

Hypothetically, if a friend came to you asking for you to help them with something of a sexual nature, something they could not get safely or discreetly without your participation, would you consider helping them out?

It doesn’t necessarily have to be sex, per se. Maybe they just haven’t had a good cuddle in a long time and need one. Or maybe they have a desire to touch you. Maybe they just want to watch you, or be watched by you? Maybe they have an unsatisfied fetish they are asking for your help in exploring.

If someone you know and trust, but is just a friend, not a romantic partner, asked you for a favor, would you consider it? I’m curious to hear what people would or wouldn’t do, or have done for a friend before. Or perhaps what “rules” would have to be in place for you to consider it.

Just an idea to ponder and have fun with.

It depends. Shortly after I moved to this area, I became friends at the local bayside park. Nice, quirky fella. Eventually some of our conversations turned spicy. He admitted he was bi-sexual and hadn't been with anyone in a while and would I let him give me a blow job. Normally, I wouldn't pass up a good blow-job but a couple of factors I considered. First, I absolutely was not attracted to him in any way. Secondly, he had alluded that he probably "forgot" how to have sex with a guy, a line used by someone not sure of how his performance will be measured. Lastly, he was married and more a closeted, frustrated gay senior citizen than anything else. We're still friends, and he's still frustrated, but it's not my monkey, not my zoo.

 

[Isinlarsa]

3 years ago, a couple we were friends with divorced. We remained close with the wife, as she and my wife had worked together and are close. Because I'd been through a divorce, I was doing my best to be helpful to her, including answering the phone when she called in a panic. I was able to help her, and we felt closer after that. As she healed, she started to feel sexual desire and went on a bit of a journey of self exploration. While she and my wife were together one day, the friend said she would like to have someone to have sex with, but wasn't looking to date or have a partner before she felt more healed. My wife offered me up, and asked me if I'd be interested, and, much to my own surprise, I was. The 3 of us had a long conversation one Saturday night, and it was decided that we'd try to see what happened. We sexted a lot that night. The next day I texted her saying to get ready, that I'd be over in an hour. We've been together 2 and a half years.

So, I guess my answer is "yes, I would help if I could."

Wait! So you are now regularly fucking both women?

 

[Not Normal]

Wait! So you are now regularly fucking both women?

Indeed

 

[sonicor]

I searched around and didn’t see a discussion on the topic, but apologies if it has already come up.

Hypothetically, if a friend came to you asking for you to help them with something of a sexual nature, something they could not get safely or discreetly without your participation, would you consider helping them out?

It doesn’t necessarily have to be sex, per se. Maybe they just haven’t had a good cuddle in a long time and need one. Or maybe they have a desire to touch you. Maybe they just want to watch you, or be watched by you? Maybe they have an unsatisfied fetish they are asking for your help in exploring.

If someone you know and trust, but is just a friend, not a romantic partner, asked you for a favor, would you consider it? I’m curious to hear what people would or wouldn’t do, or have done for a friend before. Or perhaps what “rules” would have to be in place for you to consider it.

Just an idea to ponder and have fun with.

When my good friend got cancer, he was worried that his wife, who was very needy, would leave or stray on him while he underwent treatment.

I knew them for most of our adult lives and shared his concern. His wife was a total knock out, she looked like she had walked out of an MTV rock video but had the confidence of a fat kid picked last at kick ball.

He asked if I would take care of his wife's needs, he had discussed it with her prior and she was on board. I agreed to a test run. We didn't discuss particulars, deciding to let whatever happened, happen. She made dinner while my friend took their kids to a movie. His car was barely out of the driveway before she was pouncing me and reaching for my cock.

Free sex, no strings attached... plus dinner? Even if she was bad at it I would have taken that deal but she was incredible. She had an incredible appetite and a mouth, pussy, and ass made to take cock, and for the next few years she took mine a few times a week.

 

[AZsurfer45]

3 years ago, a couple we were friends with divorced. We remained close with the wife, as she and my wife had worked together and are close. Because I'd been through a divorce, I was doing my best to be helpful to her, including answering the phone when she called in a panic. I was able to help her, and we felt closer after that. As she healed, she started to feel sexual desire and went on a bit of a journey of self exploration. While she and my wife were together one day, the friend said she would like to have someone to have sex with, but wasn't looking to date or have a partner before she felt more healed. My wife offered me up, and asked me if I'd be interested, and, much to my own surprise, I was. The 3 of us had a long conversation one Saturday night, and it was decided that we'd try to see what happened. We sexted a lot that night. The next day I texted her saying to get ready, that I'd be over in an hour. We've been together 2 and a half years.

So, I guess my answer is "yes, I would help if I could."

That’s awesome. Total dream scenario you lucky dog.

I’d love to be there as a sexual resource for all my wife’s friends. The ones with dead bedrooms who need to jump on a cock they can trust to keep a secret or the divorced wives who need some regular confidence boosters or don’t want the hassle with dating. I’d excel in such a role.

Love your wife trusts you enough to stud you out and is open enough to share with her bestie. Do the three of you ever play together? Or is everything separated?

 

[Not Normal]

That’s awesome. Total dream scenario you lucky dog.

I’d love to be there as a sexual resource for all my wife’s friends. The ones with dead bedrooms who need to jump on a cock they can trust to keep a secret or the divorced wives who need some regular confidence boosters or don’t want the hassle with dating. I’d excel in such a role.

Love your wife trusts you enough to stud you out and is open enough to share with her bestie. Do the three of you ever play together? Or is everything separated?

I am very lucky. We all three respect each other so much, and our marriage was always protected and a priority.

We don't play together. My wife isn't interested in that. In theory, my intimate friend and I could play with a third, but who knows if that situation would ever present itself.

 

[pumper71]

An older woman I used to work with asked me to rub her off, we were on a works night out and she was separated from her partner. I think she wanted sex but I told her that I was willing to rub her to orgasm instead.
I rubbed her and she came like a train, I spunked on her tummy to please myself.

 

[RedmanReaction19]

Reversing the situation, I have a bit of a foot fetish and have friends that I would like to ask to help me explore my interest. I haven’t asked out of respect for them and the friendship, but I always kind of want to.

I have this huge, sometimes overwhelming hair fetish, going all the way back to when I first became aware of girls.

One of my college girl friends -- emphasis on "friends" -- was curious about the extent of it, so when I asked and she agreed to give me unlimited access to hers, I think she was shocked at the fact that I actually ejaculated in my pants without being touched; the only contact was my hands in her hair -- gripping it, running my hands through it, picturing myself shooting cum on it -- and she just stood there and submitted to it all.

At the time, she was dating a mutual friend of ours, and a little over a year later, I was one of the groomsmen at their wedding. To this day, she's never told him.

 

[BiGuy_64]

I would help out no matter what. I’ve had friends help me during the worst time in my life.

 

[HampshireBoy]

Now I'm married it could only be with permission of my wife. When we met she was very aware that people need hugs and was a frequent hugger of friends, something we've both continued, several friends have said how much they look forward to seeing us as we are the only adults they get a hug from.

All whilst I was single.

A female friend asked if she could see me pee, apparently she'd always been curious but had never seen a man pee. TBH I struggled, embarrassment maybe, but managed it in the end - we did this a few times, including her holding my cock whilst I pee'd and me watching her. But never had sex for some reason.

Another older female friend asked me round one evening to look at her computer, we'd always given each other friendly pecks on the cheek as greetings. She mentioned how much she missed cuddles since her husband had died, I ended up cuddling her in bed. I then visited her for a night time cuddle once or twice a week for a couple of years, until she died, she enjoyed holding my cock and me stroking her body but didn't want full sex.

 

[Isinlarsa]

I had a widow friend. She and I would take walks in the afternoon. We had known her and her now deceased husband for years and our daughters were friends. One afternoon, long after her husband died, during our walk she asks me if I was still sexually active -- I was in my 60s, so I guess she thought there could be some issue. Somewhat surprised, I told her yes I was. Then she asked me if I would fuck her. She wasn't looking for a relationship, just sex.

So we did. Afterwards, she said "never tell your wife." It didn't matter. My wife has radar, and said she knew I fucked our widow friend, but it was all right.

 

[screwher]

My friends, coworkers, etc are a boundary in our hotwife lifestyle. But if my wife were to say to me “Theres a guy at work” or “A guy I know that could use my help in the sex department”, I’d be all for it. I’d suggest she invite him over for the evening. Then when the moment is upon us, they can slip off together upstairs to our bedroom.

 

[Isinlarsa]

My friends, coworkers, etc are a boundary in our hotwife lifestyle. But if my wife were to say to me “Theres a guy at work” or “A guy I know that could use my help in the sex department”, I’d be all for it. I’d suggest she invite him over for the evening. Then when the moment is upon us, they can slip off together upstairs to our bedroom.

That was the first boundary my wife crossed. The man who got her hotwife cherry was a co-worker of hers.

 

[screwher]

That was the first boundary my wife crossed. The man who got her hotwife cherry was a co-worker of hers.

Yes, for Mrs. Screwher and I too. When we decided to take our relationship into the lifestyle, it was just a matter of a few weeks before she told me about a coworker of hers. Their first date was short,y after that. Which culminated in her spending the night naked in his bed!

 

[Isinlarsa]

Yes, for Mrs. Screwher and I too. When we decided to take our relationship into the lifestyle, it was just a matter of a few weeks before she told me about a coworker of hers. Their first date was short,y after that. Which culminated in her spending the night naked in his bed!

I don't think my wife and her co-worker went on a date. She had told me she wanted to date other men, and placed an internet ad soliciting interested men. However, I guess she didn't want to wait to "cross" that rubicon, so when I took our daughter out of town for the weekend she had him over and they spent the weekend in bed.