Do you prefer younger or older and why ?

I have always dated / been in serious relationships during my adult life with older women, aside from my second wife, on average the age difference has been around 15 years older but as much as 35 years, I might add that this is not something I was actively seeking as I will judge anyone on there own merits, it just the way the cards have fallen.

Even now in my early 50's I am still physically and emotionally more attracted to older women, I have never really considered it a 'thing' per say, but there is definitely a stronger pull towards more mature women, but maybe I just didn't meet the right younger person!
 
Older. Even at 42 I prefer older men. It's not even part of my daddy fetish...there's just something about an older, wiser, worldly, more experienced (possibly silver) man that does it for me.
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Younger, 'cuz I have a young mental age, so I vibe better with younger people. I also feel younger girls are still exploring their sexuality, so it's fun to do it together.
 
Have always liked older. When i was young i had affairs with much older men and women. Married a slightly older woman. At 62 i find i am attracted to those that look after themselves, yet carry the tell tale signs of age.
 
I have always preferred men older than me. I’m currently 31 years old. But tell that to the liquor store owner when I forget my ID and try to buy tequila…😂 anyways older men are very hot to me.
I still get that at 55. Makes me shake my head
 
I don’t really worry overly about age in a man, younger ones are more vigorous, and tend to finish quickly, thinking more of themselves than my needs. Though lately, I’m moving towards preferring the older, more mature man, they have patience, and understand how a girl's body works, bringing out greater response from me, and they are much more capable of performing a long, slow screw, indulging most of my desires. I absolutely love that feeling of being brought to a climax with measured and controlled thrusting.


Lucy.
 
I don’t really worry overly about age in a man, younger ones are more vigorous, and tend to finish quickly, thinking more of themselves than my needs. Though lately, I’m moving towards preferring the older, more mature man, they have patience, and understand how a girl's body works, bringing out greater response from me, and they are much more capable of performing a long, slow screw, indulging most of my desires. I absolutely love that feeling of being brought to a climax with measured and controlled thrusting.


Lucy.
You described the changes I’ve gone through to the letter! When I was young, I could go for hours but I never lasted particularly long each time. I thought the ladies I was with were impressed by the fact that I could have three or four orgasms. The perspective of a young and sometimes selfish man.

At 55, I couldn’t begin to match the vigor of my youth but I can go indefinitely and not have to worry about spilling over. This allows me to better control the experience for us both and ensure my partner is completely satisfied first.

It’s much more thrilling nowadays to see my partner get off. Getting myself off is a bonus and no longer a necessity.
 
I have always preferred men older than me. I’m currently 31 years old. But tell that to the liquor store owner when I forget my ID and try to buy tequila…😂 anyways older men are very hot to me.

I still get that at 55. Makes me shake my head

I was asked for ID in my 30s. The cashier handed it back quick as a flash and shook her own head.
 
I think she was shaking her head in disbelief possibly embarrassment that she asked.
 
I prefer women in their 40-50s and married. They have few sexual boundaries, experienced and looking for a change of pace that they have with their husbands. They are also not interested in a relationship. They just want a good fucking for the night.
 
I've known men my age or slightly younger act more mature than much older men.

Just because he's older, does not mean more "mature".

Lately, I'm happy as long as he's attentive, and caring... That makes him sexy, not age.
 
I 100% prefer older men. They're a lot more experienced and mature and they know what they want, how to get it and they know what they're doing. They dominate a lot better and they can please me so much better. They're easier to have conversations with because of their world knowledge and also have a good grasp on life that I strongly appreciate.
You absolutely right about older men!
 
Growing up I was always drawn to older women but now that I’m “older” I seem to appreciate all ages much more. Although as I get older the options are mostly younger by definition so it’s is sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy. I feel less like I need to ”learn” as much about the world that I use to rely on older people for at this point.
 
I don't necessarily have a preference. You get old souls in young people and older folks who are young at heart.
 
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