BongoGal
Compartmentalizing
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- Mar 17, 2008
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I was just thinking about how he really appreciated the fact that I showed no interest in being his girlfriend. If I had turned clingy, he would have had nothing more to do with me. Instead, we became friends with benefits even though we never used that expression.I'll add that my second was one of the few guys I've gone to bed with almost solely because of his being good-looking. He was ruggedly handsome and strong. Very masculine. Thanks to this, he had been having lots of sex since high school. (I learned later that he once wound up in bed with a girlfriend's mom when he was a high school senior.) I wanted my second to have a lot of experience. My first was great, and we had a blast doing everything we could think of, but I was his first as well.
