Do you remember your second?

I'll add that my second was one of the few guys I've gone to bed with almost solely because of his being good-looking. He was ruggedly handsome and strong. Very masculine. Thanks to this, he had been having lots of sex since high school. (I learned later that he once wound up in bed with a girlfriend's mom when he was a high school senior.) I wanted my second to have a lot of experience. My first was great, and we had a blast doing everything we could think of, but I was his first as well.
I was just thinking about how he really appreciated the fact that I showed no interest in being his girlfriend. If I had turned clingy, he would have had nothing more to do with me. Instead, we became friends with benefits even though we never used that expression.
 
I think most of us remember our ‘first’. I know that I do. And it was a long time ago. But what about our second?

My first was the only woman I fucked for almost three years. Were we well suited? Yes. Probably. But then neither of us had anyone else with whom to compare things. I remember that we nearly had a four-way on one occasion. But then, in the end, we just watched them and they watched us.

My ‘second’ came about when my boss invited me to have drinks with a couple of women from out of town. He had designs on one of them. He needed me to ‘break them apart’ so that he could make his move.

Fred made his play in no uncertain terms. But even a proverbially-blind man could see that the object of his attention was not even vaguely interested. After a couple of hours, she feigned a headache and asked me if I could take her back to her hotel. I finally left her hotel at about 4:30 the following morning.

A few days after that, my first said that she didn’t think that things between us were what they should be. Maybe we needed a break?

For a couple of months, I had to rely on Mrs Palmer and her five daughters. But then, my ‘second’ phoned to say that she had moved to London. Did I want to catch up for a glass of something? I did. And that was the beginning of three years of fabulous sex. You name it, we probably did it. Unfortunately, she was then lured out to Australia by the prospect of a top job. I still think of her – probably more often than I should. :)
I remember my second fondly. Was in high school.
She was a virgin. The night it happened wasn’t planned.
She just gave up, I kept trying and trying.
So she just let me.. after the first that’s all we did..
Sweet Nancy!
 
Hard to forget my cousin and the we had for a couple years... haven’t seen her in a very long time but the vivid memories :devil:
 
Yes

I remember my second. He introduced me to BDSM and for that I'm grateful. He was an abusive asshole outside of the bedroom though.
 
I've led a sheltered life, I've never had a second, 37 years without straying. I'm more tempted since being part of this community
 
I think most of us remember our ‘first’. I know that I do. And it was a long time ago. But what about our second?

Good question. I've been racking my brains and, nope, not got a clue. Which means it was amazing, right ;)?
 
Sure do. We still email on occasion and see each other if we are in the same vicinity. That isn't very often, but it is always fun.
 
I do.

We had taken the same foreign language class as freshmen, so we used to meet every second or third day to study together. He was very clever, very gentle -- and absolutely virgin, which made him hesitant despite my constant indirect signs that I was interested. One afternoon we watched an arthouse film which included a short cunnilingus scene on tv, and when it ended, I asked him if he wanted to taste me between my legs. Some minutes later I tried to reciprocate, but he came within seconds while I was unbuttoning his trousers. His soaked boxers were one of the best compliments I have received as a woman.

We stayed together till the summer break. We are still friends.
 
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I remember ALL of them. We'll I think I do. Some are vague memories and some I remember in detail.
 
My second was the first girl that made me actually cum. She was 18, I was 21. Will never forget the look on her face when she felt me through my jeans for the first time - "Oh.... you're a big boy."

She was also the first to swallow following a blowjob.

We fucked like rabbits for a good year and a half before breaking up - she was very quiet though (I do like women who moan and engage in some dirty talk). The first orgasm i had inside a woman was with her; came very, very hard while her parents were sleeping downstairs.

Good times. Miss her...
 
I think most of us remember our ‘first’. I know that I do. And it was a long time ago. But what about our second?

My first was the only woman I fucked for almost three years. Were we well suited? Yes. Probably. But then neither of us had anyone else with whom to compare things. I remember that we nearly had a four-way on one occasion. But then, in the end, we just watched them and they watched us.

My ‘second’ came about when my boss invited me to have drinks with a couple of women from out of town. He had designs on one of them. He needed me to ‘break them apart’ so that he could make his move.

Fred made his play in no uncertain terms. But even a proverbially-blind man could see that the object of his attention was not even vaguely interested. After a couple of hours, she feigned a headache and asked me if I could take her back to her hotel. I finally left her hotel at about 4:30 the following morning.

A few days after that, my first said that she didn’t think that things between us were what they should be. Maybe we needed a break?

For a couple of months, I had to rely on Mrs Palmer and her five daughters. But then, my ‘second’ phoned to say that she had moved to London. Did I want to catch up for a glass of something? I did. And that was the beginning of three years of fabulous sex. You name it, we probably did it. Unfortunately, she was then lured out to Australia by the prospect of a top job. I still think of her – probably more often than I should. :)

I’ve only had sex with one person who wasn’t me so if I ever have a second, you’re damn right I’ll remember her LOL!
 
LOL! I'll never forget her. Great sex, but she gave me crabs. We worked at a restaurant. Between her and her male cousin (who the women loved) there was an epidemic, in our little coffee shop.
 
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