Do you tell your lover when you're cumming?

[savethebest4me]

There's no way I would have to say anything, i'm a fairly loud "cummer", so the shudders and moans are very pronounced.....

 

[Molly123]

No. He can pretty much tell

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Sometimes. Depends how the mood takes me. When you and your partner are well-connected, sexually, it is of course fairly obvious most of the time when you're about to come. But there can be something rather sexy about vocalising it. When I orgasm, it can feel so wonderful that it seems worth of celebration - and I tend to lose my prescence of mind during a climax, I occasionally end up sighing something dreadfully naff and silly like "I'm coming, I'm coming!" - because I want to shout it to the rooftops, and emphasise my orgasm to my partner.

Reciprocally, I confess that I love it when my partner tells me she's about to orgasm. She's a little quieter and less expressive than in bed, so when she does tell me, it's a wonderfully arousing affirmation both of what's she's experiencing, and the fulfilment of our sex. Occasionally, at the peak of her orgasm, she says "I love you" - and that's just the most beautiful thing ever.

 

[johnniedreamer3]

I'm very vocal...

I was having sex with this amazing woman yesterday and when I came with all of the fanfare, she was blown away. She said she loved knowing she was making her man feel so good.

 

[omgitselaine]

My husband and past SO's have always known that i was about to cum ..... i've always been quite ummm "vocal" i must admit

 

[chinmusic]

I don't have a strict policy on this. Generally, I don't, unless I'm explicity asked to, or if I know from prior experience that the young lady in question either enjoys hearing it or has a particular reason for wanting to, but is too shy to ask. I'll give you an example:

My girlfriend actually encourages me not to say anything when she's sucking my cock—one of her favorite feelings is the unexpected blast of that first warm jet of spunk on the back of her throat, taking her totally by surprise. Anything that doesn't go down her throat she usually drools on herself and smears into her face and chest. Her face is generally a mess already by this point: one thick, ropy strand of saliva and mucus hanging from her chin, swinging back and forth between her tits like a rosary, her chest speckled and smeared with dribs and drabs of the same sticky-slick stuff; cobweb-thin threads of gossamer spit like tiny mooring lines running from her lips down the length of my cock and hanging between my balls, waiting for her to scoop it up and smear it up and down the shaft before she starts working me with both hands. On a couple of occasions I've been careful enough with my breathing and moaning that she didn't think I was anywhere close; one time it took her so off guard that I actually spilled on her forehead while she'd been looking down and working her pussy with one hand—it drove her so crazy that she started fucking herself hard with one hand and smearing my jism into her face with the other and screaming "HARDER," presumably at herself? It was actually almost kind of scary, and definitely very hot.

On the OTHER hand, a few months ago I had a date with a young woman who was EXTREMELY adamant that I not come inside her. I assured her that it wouldn't be a problem since I'd be wearing a condom, and she said that it didn't matter: condom or no, I wasn't to come while I was still penetrating her. I shrugged and chalked it up to "it takes all kinds;" when the moment came, I told her I was coming, she pulled me out of her, slipped the condom off and quietly jerked me off into her mouth, never once breaking eye contact.

Everyone's got their style. If you know what your style is, you can get what you want out of sex pretty easily as long as you communicate clearly. Myself, I have very little interest in where my chromosomal materiél ends up after it's outside my body, provided "where it ends up" isn't wearing swaddling clothes three trimesters later; if it gets my partner off, it gets me off, although I do admit that there's a certain intrinsic hotness to watching it run down her leg as she spreads her lips and pushes it out.

 

[laozmo2]

Theres no way in the world I can hide it when I feel the floodgates open and the cum starts moving up my shaft. I sound like an old fashioned tent revival
in full throated song. It starts with "Here it comes, Baby" and grows from there!!!

 

[rosco rathbone]

Theres no way in the world I can hide it when I feel the floodgates open and the cum starts moving up my shaft. I sound like an old fashioned tent revival
in full throated song. It starts with "Here it comes, Baby" and grows from there!!!

Lol @ tent revival.

yeah, I'm a big talker, yeller, I like to be super explicit.

"suck it out of me, suck my balls dry, here it comes, show me respect with your mouth, swallow it now, ugh!"

 

[sugaredwalls]

I'm a talker

Hmmm, depends on what we are doing but I or my SO usually say something.

If he is going down on me then yeah, I like to say something, especially when I am close to coming, mostly so he doesn't stop what he's doing. I like to say stuff like "I'm going to come all over your face" or something to the effect rather than just saying "I'm coming". It spurs him on to push his face in to my pussy closer and harder which makes my orgasm that much more explosive. I don't like to just be quiet, that's no fun.

If we are having intercourse, especially my favorite way with me on top riding him while he's stroking my clit with his thumb, he can sort of figure out I'm going to come and will say something like "are you going to come for me baby?" or I'll tell him how good he feels inside me and that I'm going to come.

He talks to me too when he is going to come or I will talk to him when I know he is coming. I especially like it when he's on top or taking me from behind and moans in my ear that he's coming. That just gets me off big time.

 

[_Rapier_]

I feel rather odd about this, am I the only one? It's really hard to tell when I'm climaxing and I have a bad habit of not informing my partner. Sometimes, when I really feel it I'll whisper it to him.. but most of the time I get caught up in it.

As a person on the receiving end of ejaculate... I would be very... annoyed, to put it lightly, if my partner came in my mouth without some indication. It's just rude. I don't think semen in the nose is hot at all.

 

[LoneEagle]

No need

My wife is very vocal, both when she cums (multiple times) and as she talks about what she is doing, how she feels, etc. I can feel very definitely when she cums, and I know she can detect it when I am cumming, too.

As someone who was always "too cool" to make any noise during sex, this has been probably the best sexual thing of our marriage.

 

[jenniboo]

Not always, but I tend to like to in order to let them know they're doing a good job.

 

[manofsteel52]

I feel rather odd about this, am I the only one? It's really hard to tell when I'm climaxing and I have a bad habit of not informing my partner. Sometimes, when I really feel it I'll whisper it to him.. but most of the time I get caught up in it.

As a person on the receiving end of ejaculate... I would be very... annoyed, to put it lightly, if my partner came in my mouth without some indication. It's just rude. I don't think semen in the nose is hot at all.

If you got semen in the nose, doesn't that mean he missed your mouth?

I don't tell her I'm cumming, she'll find out soon enough. She doesn't tell me when she's cumming, either. When you've been with someone long enough, you don't have to verbalize it, you can just tell.

 

[happycocksucker]

My hubby loves when I beg when I'm cumming.
Please baby, let me cum. I need to cum hard. like that
When he cums he says something like I'm gonna fill your pussy and if you don't cum with me I'm going to blow it on your face.
Sends both of us into thunderous roars of extacy

 

[_Rapier_]

If you got semen in the nose, doesn't that mean he missed your mouth?

I don't tell her I'm cumming, she'll find out soon enough. She doesn't tell me when she's cumming, either. When you've been with someone long enough, you don't have to verbalize it, you can just tell.

Exactly. Horrible timing.

 

[Hanon435]

hehe *picturing all the bells and whistles going off, balloons falling, like if you won a prize at big store*

*a big countdown clock like nasa uses*

that should do the trick. hire an announcer and an audience to countdown the last ten seconds. hehe.

 

[BaltoBoy]

There's not really a need. I clench up so tight from head to toe that it's pretty obvious what's going on. I have to actively concentrate on not squeezing a woman too hard.

 

[msjuicypussy]

I definitely tell him. Don't want him to stop doing what he's doing

 

[brummiesteve]

It has happened occasionally.

 

[kinkyyoungster]

Actually now that I think about no I do not and I always imagined I would but has now come to realize I don't...huh strange how things work that way.

 

[Ariel_Marie]

u can tell with me...

if I'm sucking a guy off I actually can cum from giving oral sex...when I'm about to cum I usually moan a lot moan...suck a lot harder...move up and down on the dick faster...and grip their ass harder and pull them into my throat deeper.

 

[rbijon]

if I'm sucking a guy off I actually can cum from giving oral sex...when I'm about to cum I usually moan a lot moan...suck a lot harder...move up and down on the dick faster...and grip their ass harder and pull them into my throat deeper.

.....grip my ass, & I will tell ya

 

[kinkyyoungster]

if I'm sucking a guy off I actually can cum from giving oral sex...when I'm about to cum I usually moan a lot moan...suck a lot harder...move up and down on the dick faster...and grip their ass harder and pull them into my throat deeper.

you trying to get us excited because i beleive you just did

 

[banes27]

I let my fiancee know I'm about to in a very roundabout way. If she hasn't cum yet I ask her how close she is so I know whether to go for one last orgasm inducing thrust so that we both cum more or less at the same time or to just go ahead and cum. I just prefer sex a lot more knowing she's cum before me and I actually feel quite guilty if she doesn't. So I let her know I'm about to by asking her if she's about to

 

[JollyMeatMan]

Every time I cum, she knows I'm a very load moaner and sometimes screamer. Like the guy said in the last post she cums multiple times and every time shes super load screaming and bucking like a beast! haha I love it, we normally end up cumming together the last time after she has about four and we are never quiet about it!