Do your masturbation sessions involve BDSM fantasies?

[InnerDarkness]

look at me dominating a thread

Come to think of it....I also masturbate to a similiar scene like I first described, where he is near my head with his cock, but I cant touch it, but in this version he is fucking my mouth instead....

I can finger myself, use a toy, whatever, but in my mind he is gripping my head and my hair and driving his cock into my throat...

I close my eyes and just imagine the choking feeling...

love it!

I don't really imagine spankings, or bondage, unless it is slappings from a rape scene....most of it is either forcefulness or deprivation of touch...

Man...maybe I need to put some of this into action tonight LOL!

 

[FungiUg]

I'd say I frequently imagine BDSM scenarios when I masturbate. And then some of them become my stories.

 

[Kajira Callista]

hmmm doesnt anyone do BDSM things while masterbating instead of just thinking about them?

 

[InnerDarkness]

hmmm doesnt anyone do BDSM things while masterbating instead of just thinking about them?

I am not very good at spanking myself....

 

[Kajira Callista]

bdsm to me is a whole lot more then spanking, but if thats what it is to you i can see your point, although i have cropped myself in the past...for someone else but to myself.

 

[InnerDarkness]

bdsm to me is a whole lot more then spanking, but if thats what it is to you i can see your point, although i have cropped myself in the past...for someone else but to myself.

it is a whole lot to me as well...not just spanking.
That wasn't my point...it was an example of why acting it out/doing it myself wont work for me...

my imagination is about all I can do to myself within the context of BDSM...I cant spank myself, applying clamps myself doesnt do it for me....without the other person there, it is quite lacking...

so imagination is it for me...

kudos to you if you manage it by yourself.

 

[hazel43]

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hmmm doesnt anyone do BDSM things while masterbating instead of just thinking about them?
Originally posted by Kajira Callista

Always have - imagined being spanked or whipped, or molested by an athority figure.

Only recently have I discovered the reality of other people who are aroused by pain, etc. Last summer I found a paysite where a man puts clothes pins and other clips with weights on women's breasts and clits. He also dropped melted wax on them. And of course he whips and spanks them. For the spankings I use an oversized ping pong paddle. For the whippings I use elastic (like used in sewing) tied around my breasts, waist, and butt. I have also fashioned into a harness that can squeeze breasts and nipples. The clothes pins are bearable enough on pussy lips. The hinges of clothes pins can be weakened with wedges of papper so the nipples can take it. The hot candle wax is an absolute rush. It leaves no marks on my skin.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

bdsm to me is a whole lot more then spanking, but if thats what it is to you i can see your point, although i have cropped myself in the past...for someone else but to myself.

I once flogged my ass, put clothespins on my nipples and clit, and then used a vibrator against my clamped clit. It was wonderful.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I once flogged my ass, put clothespins on my nipples and clit, and then used a vibrator against my clamped clit. It was wonderful.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Always are BDSM oriented and have been as long as I can remember. As to using props while masturbating...I used to more than I do now. Find now I get that with Master, so when I am expected to masturbate I tend to just do it as many times as expected. Is always fun.

Catalina

 

[Netzach]

hey, clothespin, clit, vibrator, it's a magical assembly, I'm all in favor of it.

 

[Xelebes]

I sometimes do, but all my vanilla dreams will always have the lady on top or ny of my other fantasies that are not directly intertwined with BDSM.

 

[bound]

There's another way to masturbate??

 

[DVS]

There's another way to masturbate??

My question, exactly. Well, we all know there are other ways to masturbate, but when BDSM is your kink, I'd think it would be your kink in all things sexual.

I know when I think about it, I get very horny. In one scenario, I see a woman naked and bound. It's usually with her hands behind her back and her ankles are bound. She can't get away from what I have in store for her, which usually involves (among other things) being fucked in the ass.

Sometimes she's also gagged, but not always. She's usually gagged if I'm gonna be teaching her a lesson. If that's the case, her mind is also involved, not just her body. She knows what I'm gonna do, and her face will show it. She can't stop me and she knows that, too. It's the final chapter in some battle of the minds...the struggle of will and she has lost. The spoils go to the victor.

I've always enjoyed strong willed women. It's much sweeter when they are finally forced to submit.

 

[Beco]

Normally when I masturbate I like to lay on my back with my legs spread, bent at the knees as if ready for missionary style fucking...

sometimes when I am rubbing my clit and getting off, I like to imagine a Sir kneeling between my legs, his cock rock hard, stroking himself and again...not touching me....he will let the tip of his cock get so close to penetrating me, but he wont let my body touch him...

If I reach out to him, he would slap my hands away...if I stopped rubbing my clit, he would whip my ass and make me start over...

at some point after I came, if I were lucky, I would imagine that he would turn me over and fuck me hard from behind, finally giving me what I wanted...and I mean HARD! I always liked a good pounding!

very nice!

 

[rosco rathbone]

Mine do. Either memories, or looking forward.

Almost exclusively, as long as you expand bdsm to included unfair sexuality.

 

[tythisredheadup]

Most of my masturbation sessions have to do withe the mental aspect. I was discussing my thoughts on a recent session with a potential dom.

I am standing in the kitchen, preparing dinner. I was instructed to cut vegetables, each piece had to be precisely cubed. Sir is standing behind me, towering over me. His job is to break my concentration, hot breath in my ear, hands sliding underneath my skirt. I am told to stand completely still, I am only allowed to cut and finish dinner. An vibrating egg has been placed in my pussy, hands tangled in my hair. After I am finished preparing dinner, I am to serve it to him, topless, and perform a nice, soft BJ while he eats...

Not the sexiest scenario, but one I enjoy.

 

[Beco]

some of the times, yes

 

[shyslyone]

There's another way to masturbate??

I'm with you, I've never masturbated with any other types of thoughts in my head. Even my earliest memories of masturbating, as a very young girl, had BDSM and/or non-consent tones to them. Of course, I didn't know there were words for them then. It just seemed "normal" to me at the time. I had no idea back then that not every young girl was fantasizing about being "used and abused."

Thinking back to those early fantasies, I find it fascinating that, even though I was too young to really understand or know much about sex, I was already finding ways to submit to some type of authority figure. Does that make sense to anybody else but me? I'm not sure I'm really expressing it well.

 

[Beco]

I'm with you, I've never masturbated with any other types of thoughts in my head. Even my earliest memories of masturbating, as a very young girl, had BDSM and/or non-consent tones to them. Of course, I didn't know there were words for them then. It just seemed "normal" to me at the time. I had no idea back then that not every young girl was fantasizing about being "used and abused."

Thinking back to those early fantasies, I find it fascinating that, even though I was too young to really understand or know much about sex, I was already finding ways to submit to some type of authority figure. Does that make sense to anybody else but me? I'm not sure I'm really expressing it well.

awesome!!

 

[KHAN-E]

I have numerous BDSM fantasies that occupy my mind often during masturbation.

I imagine being tied to a four-poster bed and taken by anyone, male or female, that wants me. That one always gets me going.

I dream of being chained in a cell and used and abused by a bunch of very LARGE men.

I think of being tied up by women and forced to please them and allow them to play with me in any way they choose.

I am not actively into BDSM as a life-style. I do play some BDSM "Games" in my sex life. But during masturbation I feel free to be as submissively slutty as I want. It always helps me to cum.

 

[MT_Pitcher]

Even in my dreams, I always have control.. always have.

Of course, the best dreams are the ones that I have control over everybody!!

 

[Beco]

I masturbate to being tied up and whipped on my ass by a very busty woman wearing black leather, my hands are tied to the bed posts and the more I resist, the harder she whips!

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm with you, I've never masturbated with any other types of thoughts in my head. Even my earliest memories of masturbating, as a very young girl, had BDSM and/or non-consent tones to them. Of course, I didn't know there were words for them then. It just seemed "normal" to me at the time. I had no idea back then that not every young girl was fantasizing about being "used and abused."

Thinking back to those early fantasies, I find it fascinating that, even though I was too young to really understand or know much about sex, I was already finding ways to submit to some type of authority figure. Does that make sense to anybody else but me? I'm not sure I'm really expressing it well.

Could have been me..I remember the fantasies back when I was around 4 or 5 yo. ....just never changed.

Catalina

 

[Caitlynne]

I'm with you, I've never masturbated with any other types of thoughts in my head. Even my earliest memories of masturbating, as a very young girl, had BDSM and/or non-consent tones to them. Of course, I didn't know there were words for them then. It just seemed "normal" to me at the time. I had no idea back then that not every young girl was fantasizing about being "used and abused."

Thinking back to those early fantasies, I find it fascinating that, even though I was too young to really understand or know much about sex, I was already finding ways to submit to some type of authority figure. Does that make sense to anybody else but me? I'm not sure I'm really expressing it well.

Thank you! You just saved me a lot of typing because I can just say............ "What she said!"

And yes it made perfect sense, and I understood what you were talking about.

~ Cait