does your SO know your deepest, darkest sexual fantasies?

[Gus Aspar]

No, I don't think she knows all of them, but she does enjoy hearing me talk about some of them, so eventually... who knows?

 

[Lady_Fiona]

I was looking for the 'fuck no, he would divorce me' option. Instead I had to go for a simple no, comes nowhere near.

 

[janeyl]

Yes-absolutely. We know and share them avidly. It has always been the basis of our relationship from the very beginning and what makes it so special-trust and openness.

It makes it easy to share and to make some of them reality too

 

[rankin_sands]

I answered "Yes" and wanted to add that she shares the same "deepest, darkest sexual fantasies"!!

Rank

 

[fgarvb1]

No and doesn't care either.

Trust me on this one.

We were married like fourteen years before she discovered I was a hopeless romantic.

This is usually something figured out about me say...the second date.

 

[Windflower]

Mostly, yes.

 

[CAbeachboy]

She knows most of it - Wont share hers though...

 

[ARTEMIS1759]

not yet, but it's getting there... my deepest darkest secrets are pretty deep and dark (at least for some), so i'm slowly weaning him into it

Agreed...But my wife knows...slowly weaning her onto them though.

 

[irishwoody]

Not she doesn't yet. I have promised her, I would tell her, and I have told her some, but have a few deeepest darkest in reserve - Life is a journey, so you dont have to "arrive day one" if you know what I mean.

 

[Maizie29]

Well, I answered yes, but that probably just skewed the results. Reason being that he does absolutely know about all of my deepest darkest fantasies (and I his) that I would actually WANT to happen; however, I do have others that are just for me, in my head, and that I know if I was actually confronted with them IRL I would run screaming from the room.........

 

[Shadowann2]

No, but that's probably because I don't even know them yet.

 

[subgirl2]

I don't have a SO but I have a friend who I tell things to but not totally everything. I would have to be in a secure relationship for that...maybe if that ever happens..then maybe not mwahhhaaaa

 

[fenghuang]

No.
None of them.
Not even the least deep and least dark of my deepest darkest sexual fantsies.
As for the really deep really dark really sexual ones, NOT A CHANCE!.
(I see this as a symptom of my own disfunction.)

 

[PertPerth]

My deepest, darkest fantasy? No, he doesn't. But that's half the fun of it. It's my little secret. I like to keep it just for myself.

same (...not that I have a SO )

 

[monteJ]

she knows mine,she was not ready for them at the time but i think she's warming up to em, she has told me a couple of hers i hope over time she will become comfortable and trusting enough to tell me more.

 

[skitzoid]

My wife and I have talked extensively about sex. I know of all her past partners and exactly what they have done together. I, in turn, have opened myself to her and told her fantasies that I've never told anyone else. Some of these we have done to our satisfaction. Others will remain a fantasy. Some of the talks have gotten into detail and therefore very hot. Mutual masturbation may insue.

 

[Firebrain]

My husband knows most of the things I fantasise about because I like to share them (as I like to hear his). However, he doesn't know about my ultimate fantasy - a MFM threesome - because he's a very monogamous type and I respect that.

 

[twiggy_the_spider]

I checked 'no' but I guess what I mean is 'not yet' we've only been together a few months and we're gradually sharing things. I like it.