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Hello,
I have been reading BDSM stories in Lirotica for the last year. I've discovered an extreme interest in domination and submission. Through the stories I've read I have found myself drawn to the submissive role. Since this discovery and growing interest, I have been looking for someone, online, who would be willing to help answer questions I have, as well as perhaps fill me in on the things I don't know to ask about.

I found your post :) It's everything I am attracted to. I'm not looking for a one night stand either, nor merely a kinky sexual experience. I was most drawn to the relationship between a Master and Slave from the stories I've read on Lirotica.

I would be greatful for any direction and answers. I mainly would like to know if what I read in the stories can be reality, as I am very drawn to that kind of a relationship.

A bit about myself:
My Lirotica name is Jessica Saphire...not my real name. I am 28, 5'6". Long auburn hair, blue eyes, 120 lbs. Currently in a relationship. I live in Alberta, Canada. I am sincere, honest, loyal to the ones I love. I am a lover of art and I dabble in photography. I am kind to all (even people I dislike). I'm an animal and nature lover. I also love to read and try new things. I love the inspiration of movies and music.

In the relationships I've had, I have never had the chance to explore a Dom/Sub relationship outside of the bedroom. The person I am currently involved with is slightly uncomfortable being dominant, although he does things in the bedroom that indicate to me that a desire to be dominant does exist.

I find I enjoy being bound, spanked, cropped, told what to do, kneeling before someone I love in submission and being controlled. I have very limited experience. I suspect there's probably a lot more I would enjoy if I had the chance to explore a submissive lifestyle.

I am very glad I found your post. I would be greatful for any time you would be willing to give me in discussing BDSM.

Thank you for reading this :)I would love to get to know more about who you are. I am looking forward to hearing back from you.
 
I was going to let you know that I was interested, but who can follow that up? Hope you find what you are looking for.
 
LovestoTeach said:
Being a Dom is who I am, but it is still only a PART of who I am. I don't identify as a Dom and a Dom alone. There are many more parts that make me up as a whole.

I do NOT equate being a Dom as a reason/excuse to be an asshole, selfish, mean, or uncaring.

I am very much a gentleman, believe in chivalry, and have good manners.

I don't understand when a sub will concentrate on a man's Dominant side and ignore the rest. They leave themselves open to abuse, being used, and heart break.

The man makes the Dom. Not the other way around.
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BRAVO well said
 
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LovestoTeach said:
I apologize. I did not realize I had a twelve hour deadline to respond. Seeing as you only sent me the message at 3pm est yesterday and posted this at 3am est. I would hope someone open to ideas would be open to the idea that life gets busy and patience is a virtue.

I will respond right now. And no, age will not be a factor in my response.

How a person acts and carries themself is far more important to me.
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I have to say there is a lot more than that response that I like about this thread. I've been quite lucky in that when I have gone searching for a dom I have found those whom like you understand all the little intricacies. Very early on I had someone to teach me the true balance of power within dom/sub.

A caring, respectful Dom is restricted by his sub's limitations at any one time. A sub, however, is only limited by themselves and that if you trust your Dom (and yourself) enough you can become much more open.

A good book for any novice sub's would be The Story of M (also a great reminder to any wannabe Dom's of what true domination is).

It's really refreshing to find a thread full of all these wonderful things.
 
Beth87 said:
I have to say there is a lot more than that response that I like about this thread. I've been quite lucky in that when I have gone searching for a dom I have found those whom like you understand all the little intricacies. Very early on I had someone to teach me the true balance of power within dom/sub.

A caring, respectful Dom is restricted by his sub's limitations at any one time. A sub, however, is only limited by themselves and that if you trust your Dom (and yourself) enough you can become much more open.

A good book for any novice sub's would be The Story of M (also a great reminder to any wannabe Dom's of what true domination is).

It's really refreshing to find a thread full of all these wonderful things.
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Very much "like" :)
 
LovestoTeach said:
I don't understand the "Doms" that just want to use women to get off and nothing else. I don't understand how they can equate being a Dom as a free pass to be an asshole, abusive, cruel, uncaring, mean, disrespectful, and generally not give a fuck about the sub.


Women are to be respected. I have MORE respect for a woman because she is a sub or slave, not less. To know the depths she will go just to please her Dom, make them happy, fulfill their desires, wants, needs, and more amazes me.


I know I could never do that. I also know I would never take that for granted. That is something so special and once you find a sub who is willing to do that for you then you better do your damnedest to keep her.


That's why I treasure my sub when I have one. I mean it when I say my happiest comes from her being happy. Dom or not I have no problem going out of my way to make her happy, comfortable, feel loved, cared for, protected, looked after, and more. I don't believe just because I am the Dom my feelings or happiness are any more important than my sub's.


Respect is a two way street. A Dom can not demand respect from a sub and then show none in return. Respect is earned over time and not a given just because someone calls themself a "Dom."
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I'm new to the D/s world, but I couldn't agree more.
 
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