Don't ask Me to tell you...

[Ebonyfire]

This thread is devoted to the statement of what you do not want to be asked by a sub or a Dom/me.


Now, subbies, be careful what you say, especially those of you who's Dominants read this Forum.

You might write a check your ass can't cash!

My contribution:


Foot oriented subbies,

Don't ask Me to tell you what I want you to do to My feet.

Cause the first thing I will do when I see you is send My foot up your ass!

Next?

 

[MissTaken]

Submissive posting

Don't ask me to do anything.

Just tell me , dammit.

It just isn't the same when you have a choice!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Submissive posting

Don't ask me to do anything.

Just tell me , dammit.

It just isn't the same when you have a choice!

Good point.

 

[MissTaken]

Don't ask me to tell you how to tie a square not .

 

[Goddess Helena]

Don't ask me to tell you how to crawl.


Helena

 

[Ebonyfire]

Don't ask me to tell you how to crawl.


Helena

That's pretty basic isn't it?

Or kneel.

 

[Goddess Helena]

That's what I thought, too.


Helena

 

[Desdemona]

Hey, Eb. Don't ask me to answer this question. LMAO

 

[Zaudika]

That's pretty basic isn't it?

Or kneel.

I wanted to comment on the kneel part of this... because I honestly want your input.

I've asked my Dom in general how he wants me to kneel because of how many different ways there are...

Whether or not he wants me sitting while kneeling, or in an up position, whether he wants me hands on my legs palm down, or palm up, whether or not he'd rather me have my hands behind my back.

In my particular case, with my Dom, he prefers me to be kneeling down, with my arms clasped in a relaxed fashion behind my back.

If I'm kneeling for him I know this is the first position to be in, unless he instructs me otherwise.

Is there a different way you, or others that read this, feel about this? ...

 

[Goddess Helena]

<snippage> Is there a different way you, or others that read this, feel about this? ...

I have male submissives. I want hands on thighs, palms up, thighs apart, back straight, head up with eyes down cast. He starts from there once he has greeted me.

I think most Dom/mes have different ideas about how a submissive should kneel.


Helena

 

[Ebonyfire]

I have male submissives. I want hands on thighs, palms up, thighs apart, back straight, head up with eyes down cast. He starts from there once he has greeted me.

I think most Dom/mes have different ideas about how a submissive should kneel.


Helena

That is exactly how I like a male sub to kneel.

Something keeps poking up though. Sometimes I have to smack it!

 

[Netzach]

I don't do kneeling other than as a convenient position for fastening a collar. I like him up tall, ass off thighs, so I can reach his neck, eyes closed and a sweet little smile on his lips.

Don't ask me to wear your fantasy costume of the moment. You're lucky I like corsets at parties, whatever I happen to have on (or not) at home.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Don't ask Me to tell you what any of My kinks are.

That ain't your bizness.

Thanks to everyone who has posted so far.

 

[niteshade]

Re: Submissive posting

Don't ask me to do anything.

Just tell me , dammit.

It just isn't the same when you have a choice!

YES.... ty Miss T

 

[Ebonyfire]

Do not ask Me to explain a simple concept to you over and over again because your command of the english language is poor and/or you are too self involved to hear what is truly said.

 

[bunny bondage]

please don't ask me WHY i like it! for god's sake, the deep psycoanalysis that it would take to discover the answer to that question would take years, and i certainly can't do it when i'm bent over recieving spanks!

 

[niteshade]

Don't ask me to tell you a damn thing that makes sense when you are screwing my brains out... You know I can't think at times like that.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Don't ask me to tell you why I live my life the way I do, or to justify my life to you. If you are truly interested in learning about this lifestyle, put some effort in and do the research.

~anelize

 

[Ebonyfire]

Don't ask me to tell you a damn thing that makes sense when you are screwing my brains out... You know I can't think at times like that.

Are you the naughty one? lol

 

[Ebonyfire]

Don't ask me to tell you why I live my life the way I do, or to justify my life to you. If you are truly interested in learning about this lifestyle, put some effort in and do the research.

~anelize

Let the church say "Amen!"

 

[ownedsubgal]

please, please, PLEASE do not ask me to don a strap-on and do you in the bum. i will question your Dominance, amongst um other things, and be quite thoroughly horrified.

and i'm stealing MissTaken's....don't "ask", i'm a submissive, and a submissive who is a slave to boot. it is not necessary to "ask" me anything, other than perhaps how can you contact my Master.

 

[Croctden]

Kneeling

Is there a different way you, or others that read this, feel about this? ...

I prefer hunched over, with the subs entire forearm and forehead on the floor, it's similar to "child" pose in Yoga.

 

[Croctden]

Re: Submissive posting

Don't ask me to do anything.

Just tell me , dammit.

It just isn't the same when you have a choice!

Some of the great mindfucks come from asking a sub a question where she knows there is a right and wrong answer, but can't figure out which is which.

 

[ammre]

Don't ask me to break my hard limits especially durring a session... My annoiance and disgust will end the session immediatelly and the sub will take back her power... asking that expecially in session would make me loose respect and how to you surrender power to someone who has little of your respect?

"are you ok?" Trust me... i'll tell you if i'm not. Now keep beating me!

"have you been a bad girl?" No sir. have you been a cheesy porno star in a past life? I know some people like to have reasons to give a good whippin or whatnot... but really now... i haven't been a bad girl... i jsut cleaned your shit ironed it made you dinner and gave you fantastic head... would YOU say i was a bad girl.... no.

"Oh baby, does that feel good for you?" as soon as you ask that.. i start thinking.. i analize what's going on i think about my body and i'm like.. well IS IT good? and than well maybe it's not bad... but at the same time it's only doing a neutral-good feeling but not a great feeling... waht do you say than.... "Well it's ok but i think you could do better" Really now i'm suppossed to be a sub... i don't want to tell you how to be good... i think the flush and the wimpering and moaning should kinda set off some bells in your own head...

 

[niteshade]

Are you the naughty one? lol

Well I mean, really.... If I am really into it, and He is doing his job right, all I can do is moan, or maybe manage a weak grunt now and then... all the rest of my being is taken up w/ what is happening. I really dont want to break my concentration on how it feels to analize it and put my feelings into complete sentances .... that takes away from the feeling.