Don't know where to ask this....

[BentStraight]

I'm straight male (for the most part) and married and wouldn't consider cheating
on my spouse for a second. My problem
is that I sometimes enjoy anal stimulation
and if my spouse ever found out I'd be in
trouble. Is this an uncommon thing?

 

[snowy ciara]

May I suggest the How to forums? As in " How do I introduce this to my wife?" or "How do I indulge in private so I don't offend my wife?"

May I suggest talking to your wife? Or rather, working through your feelings to accept them. Or, denying your desires and continue living a life of quiet desperation? (Though that's probably the easiest and saddest way to go.)

 

[Kissophile]

I suggest you spend some time reading in The Blank Manual, which contains links to dozens of threads from the How To forum. There is an entire section devoted to anal sex and I'm sure you can find answers to many of your questions there.

In the meantime, chances are you will get new answers here in this thread that you have just started.

Might I begin by asking why you feel you would be in trouble if your wife found out about your desires? Do you think she would not be interested in indulging you? Has she given you reason to think she would reject this desire without considering or exploring it?

 

[xDonkeyxPunchx]

i dont know why you would get in trouble or think that you would. I think this is somthing that you need to talk to your wife about, you dont have to have a cock in your ass to get the fufillment of having somthing in there, dildo's work great, so do analplugs, or even somthing around the house WARNING though, dont get anyting that might get stuck and have to rush to the emergancy room to have them pull it out, and then have you end up on rotten.com. Use a hairbrush end, or curling iron, somthing big enough to feel good, but not going to get 'lost' in you. Though if you talk it over with your wife you may find that she is interested and willing to go Dom on you and maybe strap on, or even put a finger in your ass. Just remember though to comfort her with the knowledge that you will be clean and she wont be plulling out a 'dirty' finger if you know what i mean.