Drawn Like a Moth to the Flame...

[Just_John1]

Nasty Minded people

Are also my favorite... Birds of a feather flock together I guess. The definition of nasty is, of course, a personal choice. It's only nasty when you try to hide it... otherwise it's erotica.

JJ1

 

[Remec]

The real beauty lies just below the visual aspect. The real beauty is in the heart and soul.

I agree, totally. While there may be other things that make you behave all mothlike and fly in real close, it's the inner light that makes the difference between burning up and sparking a fire of a different kind.

 

[English Lady]

I agree, totally. While there may be other things that make you behave all mothlike and fly in real close, it's the inner light that makes the difference between burning up and sparking a fire of a different kind.

Thats poetry that is

 

[Guest]

Thats poetry that is

I could actually hear you say that.

 

[Guest]

Thats poetry that is

To the ears and more. P.

 

[Guest]

Moth twats: El, Lou and P.

 

[English Lady]

Lou..you listening at my door again?

Perdita....too true!

 

[Guest]

Moth twats: El, Lou and P.

Yeah, cos we're too cool to be those superficial butterfly twats.

Ooooh, look, a light...



EL, I hear everything.

 

[English Lady]

Oh yes Perdita....I just wanna get all hot and singed *grins*


Lou... so you heard me and hubby fucking like half an hour ago then...was it you who knocked on the window

 

[Guest]

Oh yes Perdita....I just wanna get all hot and singed *grins*


Lou... so you heard me and hubby fucking like half an hour ago then...was it you who knocked on the window

Yeah, you noisy beggars!!! You frightened off all the birdies. Last time I go twitching up your way.

 

[English Lady]

Sorry Lou *chuckles*

 

[Remec]

Thats poetry that is

<slightly reddening cheeks>
<smile>

Ya wan' me ta say it aloud for ya? <g>
All I need is an email addy...

 

[English Lady]

*swoons*

Remec you tease you

*swoons some more*

 

[oggbashan]

I've posted this before. My 'type' is tall, lean, gaunt and pallid with a minimally baritone voice (often equals British or Russian). My friends say I like them consumptive. (Yeah, I love Chopin too.)

But that's just what 'gets' me instantly and viscerally. What is utterly essential is intelligence to match mine. And I'm not talking measurable IQ, but the maverick sort: creative, unique, quick. The bloke can be the opposite of my 'type' but seduce me to the ground with language and wit.

Perdita

Tall? Yes.
Lean, gaunt? No way that is possible for me, but Perdita should remember what Caesar said.
Pallid? Make-up is wonderful.
Minimally baritone? No. Normally basso profundo when this cough (a side effect of blood pressure lowering drug) isn't there. Could I fake baritone? For a few bars of falsetto perhaps.
Consumptive? No. Hearty Beef is more like it.
Intelligence to match Perdita's? Oh bugger it. I give up.

Perdita is not for me. Anyway she's taken. Lumbers off in a huff.

Og

 

[Remec]

*swoons*

Remec you tease you

*swoons some more*

<sighing and watching, ready to catch her if she should fall>
<tilting head to break Fourth Wall>
Ya know, that's what the world really needs...more lovely swooning females...

 

[English Lady]

*tilts body slightly and falls backwards, straight into Remecs arms*



*swoon*

 

[Guest]

Ogg, I love really good flattery. I said 'minimally' baritone, i.e., basso is better. You should also have read that my 'type' is not necessarily reality.

Who said I was taken? Gosh, I've been taken so many times I've lost count. That's the fun, innit?

Perdita

 

[McKenna]

Do you know what I don't understand? I don't understand how I can be attracted to someone I'm not even sure I like. Now that is a frustrating feeling.

 

[English Lady]

Mckenna....actually that is a good point. How many people does that happen to? Have you lusted after a person you've not really liked much?

 

[Belegon]

lusted after? absolutely.

wanted a relationship with? not at all...

 

[McKenna]

lusted after? absolutely.

wanted a relationship with? not at all...

Good point. It makes me wonder if it's a matter of reacting to each other on a biological level (pheremones, lust, whatever) rather than an emotional/psychological level.

 

[Remec]

Mckenna....actually that is a good point. How many people does that happen to? Have you lusted after a person you've not really liked much?

A few....mostly uppity sorority girls when I was in college who just struck me the wrong way during the first few times I'd met them or had anything to do with them...

One woman I worked with once was sort of annoying...shrill voice, tended to either be lacking in job skills or good at feigned incompetence...but she was nicely rounded and smelled good whenever I would run into her away from the restaurant we worked at...might've made a move on anyone else...

 

[Belegon]

Good point. It makes me wonder if it's a matter of reacting to each other on a biological level (pheremones, lust, whatever) rather than an emotional/psychological level.

I definitely believe you can have a purely physical chemistry. Been there. Sometimes there was more, sometimes not.

Most extreme example of physical chemistry was someone I had a very passionate and tumultuous 3 1/2 yr relationship with in the late 80's. We saw each other a few times in 93-94 and each time the physical attraction was still there on both parts despite our relationship ending VERY poorly. We would end up dancing together or something, slow song comes on and hands wander...end of the night it is *kiss* "we really should not do this"*kiss* "I know"*kiss* "then let's stop"*kiss* ....

never were foolish enough to not go our seperate ways. luckily. we were only good for each other in one way.

 

[Xelebes]

Re: Re: Drawn Like a Moth to the Flame...

Cynicism and intelligence. Not just schooling intelligence or even without schooling intelligence, but that real intelligence that likes to put the world through a wringer and can spring off-the-cuff philosophies that cut. And at least a touch of cynicism. Something that doesn't always believe that the world is puppy dogs and rainbows like a vapid sorority twat.

And madness. Most important of all. What really attaches me to a person, friend or lover even if they are low on the above two is having some fucked-upedness in them. The ability to maintain a twisted conversation, a strange sense of humour, and all that jazz. Basically being crazy enough that they don't flee at the first sight of who I am inside.

I hope Persephone is attending to those needs well.

Anyways...

The hidden demona within a woman lures me - the knowledge that their is something darker than what her image portrays. One who plays as a physics geek but likes to thrash to hardcore punk in her days off kinda thing.

 

[English Lady]

It is bizarre how lust sometimes just revs up and gets a going with no regard to our prior knowledge and feelings. I guess Lust is triggered by smell or a physical thing sometimes and no matter how much we don't like that person..the lust pays no heed.