eating pussy

[raymar]

I am interested in hearing from the ladies out there, what do you like your men to do when eating pussy, my wife doesn't seem to be able to have a orgasm when I go down on her, she loves it but... how about some tips?

 

[silverwhisper]

not one of the ladies, but something you should bear in mind: it's possible your wife may not be able to orgasm through oral sex.

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[christcat69]

I am interested in hearing from the ladies out there, what do you like your men to do when eating pussy, my wife doesn't seem to be able to have a orgasm when I go down on her, she loves it but... how about some tips?

ok HERE"S SOME ADVICE FROM A HUGE LESBIAN (ME)

1. MAKE SURE YOU'RE HITTIN' HER CLIT
2. FEEL FREE TO PENETRATE WITH A FINGER OR TWO AS WELL
3. SOFTLY VIBRATE YOUR JAW A BIT (LIKE YOU'RE SHIVERING) WHILE SWIRLING YOUR TONGUE ABOUT
4. DON'T BE AFRAID TO HURT HER- WE AREN'T THAT FRAGILE
5. WHEN USING FINGERS AS WELL, TRY 2 AND TRY CROSSING AND UNCROSSING THEM WHILE YOU'RE INSIDE HER
6. IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO THE RYTHYM, TRY MOVING YOUR HEAD AS WELL AS YOUR TONGUE
7. MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL- DON'T JUST DIVE INTO HER PUSSY. TEASE HER FIRST- NIBBLE HER EARLOBES, LICK HER BACK, TIE HER UP, TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT (MAYBE ITS NOT YOUR TECHNIQUE BUT THE WAY YOU GO ABOUT IT.

 

[EJFan]

ok HERE"S SOME ADVICE FROM A HUGE LESBIAN (ME)

1. MAKE SURE YOU'RE HITTIN' HER CLIT
2. FEEL FREE TO PENETRATE WITH A FINGER OR TWO AS WELL
3. SOFTLY VIBRATE YOUR JAW A BIT (LIKE YOU'RE SHIVERING) WHILE SWIRLING YOUR TONGUE ABOUT
4. DON'T BE AFRAID TO HURT HER- WE AREN'T THAT FRAGILE
5. WHEN USING FINGERS AS WELL, TRY 2 AND TRY CROSSING AND UNCROSSING THEM WHILE YOU'RE INSIDE HER
6. IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO THE RYTHYM, TRY MOVING YOUR HEAD AS WELL AS YOUR TONGUE
7. MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL- DON'T JUST DIVE INTO HER PUSSY. TEASE HER FIRST- NIBBLE HER EARLOBES, LICK HER BACK, TIE HER UP, TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT (MAYBE ITS NOT YOUR TECHNIQUE BUT THE WAY YOU GO ABOUT IT.

ok. i love eating pussy and this is all old-hat for me... but i sooooo got a boner from readin' it.

btw... i love nietszche as well!

 

[pellso27]

if you have to be told

you will probably never be any good at it but heres a clue you have to warm them up first you can't just go down there and start lickin' around ...have a plan and start by fingering her till shes all wet then move down kissing her belly and thighs then slowly work your way into her folds pulling them into your mouth and the work your thumb into her and start working on her clit then just follow her moves her body will repond when you start getting it right and you can always give her your hand and have her mock what she wants you to do hope it helps...sure is a fun thing to do

 

[christcat69]

ok. i love eating pussy and this is all old-hat for me... but i sooooo got a boner from readin' it.

btw... i love nietszche as well!

THIS IS JUST LESSON ONE
CAN'T GIVE AWAY ALL THE TRADE SECRETS, CAN I?

 

[bisexplicit]

I enjoy oral sex but don't orgasm from just oral.

Maybe if you listed some of techniques you tried, people could suggest new ones that might help? Even if she doesn't orgasm from it, its still fun to try something new.

 

[AppleBiter]

you will probably never be any good at it

Not true. If you don't ask questions or try to improve, you will probably never be any good at it, but asking questions, taking an active interest in improving yourself, and seeking knowledge is NEVER a bad idea in ANY situation.

No one is born with these abilities, we have to develop them. I give world-class BJs, but I didn't in the beginning . . . . and even though I know I rock his world when I do (now), it doesn't stop me from constantly exploring and trying new tecniques to make the experience that much more hot for him. The more I know, the better I'll be, the more pleasure he'll get.

Anyhow, the best advice I can give is (and I don't mean to repeat anyone): concentrate on the clit, make sure you've shaved, and hum.

 

[christcat69]

I enjoy oral sex but don't orgasm from just oral.

Maybe if you listed some of techniques you tried, people could suggest new ones that might help? Even if she doesn't orgasm from it, its still fun to try something new.

YOU JUST HAVEN'T HAD THE RIGHT PERSON TRY YET.

 

[raymar]

hmm..

I tease her for a bit, lick her slit, suck on her clit,use a finger to stimulate her, she loves it, but never has a orgasm

 

[pellso27]

natural born

Hey I think I maybe was born knowing how....but I bet there are a few past dates that would beg to differ...but shaving yes is very important thats on reason females have a easier time doing it the skin is so much softer If I were a woman I would rather another woman do it as she has one to know what it feels like is a big help I am thinking I know I could give a hella good BJ Hummm Maybe I should try sometime

 

[christcat69]

I tease her for a bit, lick her slit, suck on her clit,use a finger to stimulate her, she loves it, but never has a orgasm

ok, here's some more free advice-
DON'T SUCK ON HER CLIT
it's not stimulating- just annoying.

While you've got your tongue going like a motorbike, it's cool to suckle a little in between but don't just straight suck her clit. She's probably not getting off because she's wondering if you'll ever get it right. J/J

 

[lizaveta]

I tease her for a bit, lick her slit, suck on her clit,use a finger to stimulate her, she loves it, but never has a orgasm

The other thing that strikes me is the "for a bit" part - sometimes moving around is a good thing, and sometimes it's just distracting. I don't know about anyone else, but when I'm getting a hellaciously good wave I'm going to be PISSED AS ALL HELL if he doesn't ride it out.

If she's squirming and whimpering and pressing your head still, STAY RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE.

Please.

 

[christian1971]

Love to give oral!

As a male preforming oral on a woman is one of my Fav's, I love the taste and the smell. Licking and sucking until she can't take it any longer and orgasms.

 

[bisexplicit]

YOU JUST HAVEN'T HAD THE RIGHT PERSON TRY YET.

Don't tell my boyfriend that. hehehe. But, nah, I really think I just don't orgasm that way.

 

[Eilan]

I know that this is meant to be a technique-sharing thread, but I'm not gonna offer advice in that regard. As long as you're doing what your partner likes, then you're doing it right, and what's pleasurable (or not) is going to vary from woman to woman. And, as has already been mentioned, some women don't orgasm from oral sex. It doesn't make either of you failures, and it doesn't mean that you both can't enjoy the experience.

And as for the "if you have to ask, you will probably never be any good at it" comment, that's pure crap. As AppleBiter said, Humans are sexual beings, but that doesn't mean that we're born knowing how to fuck. And if you don't ask questions, and engage in a bit of trial and error in the process, then how will you learn?

I'd rather have a partner who wasn't too proud to ask for help with a sex-related issue than someone who wrongly assumed he knew all the answers. I'm guessing that the latter would be a pretty lousy fuck.

 

[M's girl]

I know it's a dead-ringer but I haven't seen the "every woman is different" reaction yet. But it's true, no one is the same and I'll tell you something else...there is no set technique, order and style that works for me all the time. I orgasm best from oral strimulation but sometimes it just doesn't work. One time I crave something inside me at the same time (his fingers for instance) and the next time it distracts me, almost as if it's pulling the attention and sensation away from my clit. If that was because the inside of my vagina took over that sensation it would be OK, but that is not the case. I can't explain why it works with me (or sometimes doesn't) that way. The one thing that I can say is (and I believe this to be true for most women, ..... men too by the way): once you feel like you're doing something right (she will be more vocal and/or grab your head and/or you will feel a certain tension in her body) DON'T STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING and keep the same pace!! There's nothing more annoying than when I moan "oh yeah, right there!" and he changes from whatever he was doing. I know most of the time it's just plain enthousiasm on the male's (heck female too, no experience there though) part, almost as if he takes it as an encouragement to show what else he has up his sleeve (or tongue rather ).

To compare.... I can imagine how it could be the same with me giving someone a BJ. If I'm blowing you at a certain pace, hold your cock with a certain grip and you are close to orgasm, it won't do any good if all at once I started softly licking your balls now would it?

I guess all our opinions and advice will help you in the end because at least you know your options. Now all you have to find out is what works for HER. Also, don't make the mistake to assume you know how it works because your former girlfriend used to cum from whatever you were doing. And don't ever "accuse" a woman when she's not able to cum from your technique and tell her it's her fault cause your former GF did just fine. Not good... trust me!

 

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[drummer34]

If you eat her lying on her back then try inserting two fingers with your palm turned up (obviously she has to be wet first). When you are 2-4cm's in do the "come here" sign with the fingers. That will massage the clit from "inside" (some calll this the g-spot). This tecnique allmost allways brings my wife to a good orgasm. One good advice is TALK, encourage her to talk to you, tell you what feels good/bad, another good hint, when you insert your fingers get her to hold the pussy lip away so you get full access to the clit.

 

[MercyMia]

If you eat her lying on her back then try inserting two fingers with your palm turned up (obviously she has to be wet first). When you are 2-4cm's in do the "come here" sign with the fingers. That will massage the clit from "inside" (some calll this the g-spot). This tecnique allmost allways brings my wife to a good orgasm. One good advice is TALK, encourage her to talk to you, tell you what feels good/bad, another good hint, when you insert your fingers get her to hold the pussy lip away so you get full access to the clit.

I agree that the eating partner has to keep up some talk...which sounds difficult since the tongue and lips are already occupied. I know that talking helps me realize how "into it" my partner is and it gets me off more intensely.

 

[phoenix1224]

No one is born with these abilities...

I was...

 

[SlyKitten]

ok, here's some more free advice-
DON'T SUCK ON HER CLIT
it's not stimulating- just annoying.

While you've got your tongue going like a motorbike, it's cool to suckle a little in between but don't just straight suck her clit. She's probably not getting off because she's wondering if you'll ever get it right. J/J

Nice post! Funny, and unfortunately true.

 

[Eilan]

I was...

Well, we can't ALL be exceptional!

 

[TirelessTongue]

THIS IS JUST LESSON ONE
CAN'T GIVE AWAY ALL THE TRADE SECRETS, CAN I?

You forgot : TRACE THE ENTIRE ALPHABET ON HER CLIT WITH YOUR TONGUE

 

[EJFan]

You forgot : TRACE THE ENTIRE ALPHABET ON HER CLIT WITH YOUR TONGUE

those are either some VERY small letter or a VERY large clitoris.

Sorry... i couldn't resist.