Ella's Smoking, High Heels, General Glamour and Sluttiness

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

This text was originally posted 11 days ago.
I want to leave it in its unchanged version, even though it may contain a couple of references to a previous post.
It's a bit long.
I hope you manage to read it all, and I hope you enjoy it.

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I love kissing a woman after her cigarette or even during. Something so erotic and sexily dirty. Thanks for sharing.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Do whatever you like. It’s your life!

 

[SmokingFap]

I think I will post the second part of my smoking story, but it's very long, and I will skip some parts maybe.

Good Lord! Where have you been all my life? That's quite an introduction on here. I'm sure all of my fellow fetishers are looking forward to getting to know you better going forward. It may be an unhealthy and increasingly rare activity, but that just makes those of us who have been aroused by sexy women smoking our whole lives appreciate ladies like you that much more.

 

[EllaB_17]

Do whatever you like. It’s your life!

I posted the other story, it's a little bit long.

 

[EllaB_17]

Good Lord! Where have you been all my life? That's quite an introduction on here. I'm sure all of my fellow fetishers are looking forward to getting to know you better going forward. It may be an unhealthy and increasingly rare activity, but that just makes those of us who have been aroused by sexy women smoking our whole lives appreciate ladies like you that much more.

This is a really nice comment. Thank you.

 

[EllaB_17]

I'm interested in the psychological factors involved in the formation of fetishes in infancy and childhood.

The below post was removed by Reddit moderators, because they didn't want to post anything regarding the "origins" of a fetish.

At first, I posted it in the comments section. I didn't want to overcrowd the fetish forum. Now I put it as a separate thread.

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[Darkweather]

Interesting story and thanks for sharing!

The development of fetishes does not seem to be well understood, but exposure to such a stimulus at an early age may be part of it. Do you know if your sister has the same association with high heels? I wonder whether in your subconscious at the time there was an association between your mom's high heels and sex in any way.

 

[EllaB_17]

Interesting story and thanks for sharing!

The development of fetishes does not seem to be well understood, but exposure to such a stimulus at an early age may be part of it. Do you know if your sister has the same association with high heels? I wonder whether in your subconscious at the time there was an association between your mom's high heels and sex in any way.

My older sister wears heels from time by time, and she has a few pairs. But as far as I know, she doesn't have the kind of obsession/fetish/arousal the way I do.
Also, her heels are not very high.
On the other hand, I have really really a lot of pairs, and most of them are extremely high.

 

[Robbo694u]

My older sister wears heels from time by time, and she has a few pairs. But as far as I know, she doesn't have the kind of obsession/fetish/arousal the way I do.
Also, her heels are not very high.
On the other hand, I have really really a lot of pairs, and most of them are extremely high.

I’m intrigued by your fascination with high heels, especially with it developing at such a young age as there would have been no sexual connection.
Has the fascination grown and now have a different impetus because of the way they shape your body, define your legs? Are they a stimulus for ‘play time’?

 

[EllaB_17]

I’m intrigued by your fascination with high heels, especially with it developing at such a young age as there would have been no sexual connection.
Has the fascination grown and now have a different impetus because of the way they shape your body, define your legs? Are they a stimulus for ‘play time’?

There are many reasons for me having this relationship with heels.
Yes, there is the "look" reason also, looking beautiful etc., but not really for defining my legs as I've always been skinny.
I love the shapes of all those shoes also, especially very thin heels.
I like the feeling of walking, especially with very high platforms.
And the sexual factor. Of the earliest "proto-sexual" feelings that I can recall, there are those related to high heels, and those triggered by the smell of nail polish (I also love nails related things).
I can give an example: the day I bought my first pair. The heel was about 15 cm, I think. I can still remember that day very vividly.
It felt like an urge, and I couldn't help it. I felt embarassed and a bit scared.
I remember the way the woman in the store looked at me. I was 15.

 

[Robbo694u]

It's interesting that high heels can create such strong emotions due to their aesthetic nature, I was going to suggest colour may play a part because of the nail polish connection, however your favourite heels were white and with nail polish the smell is a trigger. Do you have any favourite makes or styles of heels
I wonder if they change your persona when you wear them, giving you an air of confidence, oozing sex appeal like those vintage pin up girl pictures in short floaty skirts or exotic dresses, smoking seductively....... very appealing!

 

[Stopokochac]

Thanks for sharing that. I'm interested in sexual psychology as well. I love hearing people's kinks/fetishes and even more the backstory of how they developed.
I think a lot of fetishes/kinks develop in early childhood.
I'm not gonna lie, as a foot fetisher your post got me intrigued. I'm curious to hear more and maybe I could share some stuff too, if you have genuine interest in this field.

 

[Stopokochac]

That was so random but interesting So you have an exhibitionist kink too? Is this the first time you've put yourself in a situation where you might be seen?

 

[Stopokochac]

That's wild! I've never heard of anyone getting aroused or getting an orgasm from smoking a cigarette. Why do you think it made you orgasm?

 

[Robbo694u]

Holy shit...... Imagine guys across the street furtively spying on you stroking their cocks as you pleasure yourself beneath that fur coat....

 

[Stopokochac]

So it was something about the taboo and secrecy aspect that turned you on?

By the way, I can totally relate to that bit about getting bored easily and needing to keep things "interesting".

 

[EllaB_17]

So it was something about the taboo and secrecy aspect that turned you on?

By the way, I can totally relate to that bit about getting bored easily and needing to keep things "interesting".

Yes, I didn't reply to your question before, because this would require a very very long answer/explanation. Background, personal history etcetc.
For reasons I won't delve into, smoking was always for me the biggest taboo.
Absolute utter hate towards everything related to smoking.
Of course, it became my biggest sexual turn on..

 

[Stopokochac]

Yes, I didn't reply to your question before, because this would require a very very long answer/explanation. Background, personal history etcetc.
For reasons I won't delve into, smoking was always for me the biggest taboo.
Absolute utter hate towards everything related to smoking.
Of course, it became my biggest sexual turn on..

I understand. I appreciate you responding and sharing anyways.
That's is so strange, and that's the part that intrigues me most.
I didn't know it was your "biggest". That's wild. I've never met anyone with this kink/fetish.

 

[EllaB_17]

I understand. I appreciate you responding and sharing anyways.
That's is so strange, and that's the part that intrigues me most.
I didn't know it was your "biggest". That's wild. I've never met anyone with this kink/fetish.

There are many men who like watching a woman smoking. And some women too.
But from a smoking woman's perspective, this whole thing is quite different. It's difficult to describe this feeling.

 

[Stopokochac]

There are many men who like watching a woman smoking. And some women too.
But from a smoking woman's perspective, this whole thing is quite different. It's difficult to describe this feeling.

I see. So does it partly have to do with the thought of a man potentially becoming "interested" in you from seeing you smoke?

From what I'm gathering, it sounds like maybe you feel sexy/seductive when you smoke.

 

[EllaB_17]

I see. So does it partly have to do with the thought of a man potentially becoming "interested" in you from seeing you smoke?

I would say that is only secondary.
The primary thing, I think, is the way I think I myself look, and the idea itself, of me smoking.
Does it make any sense?

 

[Stopokochac]

I would say that is only secondary.
The primary thing, I think, is the way I think I myself look, and the idea itself, of me smoking.
Does it make any sense?

A little bit.
I appreciate you sharing

 

[SmokingFap]

I would say that is only secondary.
The primary thing, I think, is the way I think I myself look, and the idea itself, of me smoking.
Does it make any sense?

I think it does, and I think it's incredibly sexy that you like to maybe look in a mirror and just watch yourself enjoy a cigarette. I've had my fetish for pretty women smoking since before I hit puberty, thanks to a very pretty mother who was very liberal about nudity around the house and never without her Virginia Slims menthols. So I was doomed to associate smoking with beauty, elegance, and sexuality before I could even make myself orgasm.

 

[EllaB_17]

I think it does, and I think it's incredibly sexy that you like to maybe look in a mirror and just watch yourself enjoy a cigarette. I've had my fetish for pretty women smoking since before I hit puberty, thanks to a very pretty mother who was very liberal about nudity around the house and never without her Virginia Slims menthols. So I was doomed to associate smoking with beauty, elegance, and sexuality before I could even make myself orgasm.

I think for me it must have been something about my parents smoking, together with trauma, and it somehow interacted with my sexuality.
I saw a few clips of women smoking, but it doesn't remotely compare to doing it myself. Plus I can choose everything, the look, anything. I can decide I want a certain look, I just have to find a gold glitter lipstick and a mirror, for example.
Plus the taboo, I had sworn it together with my sister when were little, never even try it, and I remember the feeling that first time, of the cigarette filter between my lips with lipgloss. It was a feeling difficult to describe.

 

[SmokingFap]

I think for me it must have been something about my parents smoking, together with trauma, and it somehow interacted with my sexuality.
I saw a few clips of women smoking, but it doesn't remotely compare to doing it myself. Plus I can choose everything, the look, anything. I can decide I want a certain look, I just have to find a gold glitter lipstick and a mirror, for example.
Plus the taboo, I had sworn it together with my sister when were little, never even try it, and I remember the feeling that first time, of the cigarette filter between my lips with lipgloss. It was a feeling difficult to describe.

I guess I have a somewhat similar story. I hated the SMELL of cigarette smoke growing up (unless it was mingled with perfume). But I was completely entranced by my mother and her pretty friends who all smoked, and eventually the girls in high school who would pass away in the smoking lounge, many of whom weren't even 18 yet.

I had dated a couple or three smokers by the time I got to college, even though I was a health nut and an athlete. But when I was a junior at KU, I started dating one of the sexiest girls I've ever seen, and she smoked. So I decided to take up smoking with her, just as something else to bond over. And I immediately learned that cigarette smoke TASTES better than it smells. Like blue cheese does.

So I immediately became hooked on smoking as much psychologically as physically, enjoying the "bad boy" feeling that it gave me, although I've always felt I look a little goofy smoking. And at this point, I would never date a woman who didn't smoke, because it fulfills my lifelong fetish and is an instant, unique bond with another smoker.

I apologize for taking over your thread for a moment. And I look forward to hearing more details about your smoking experiences.