Empathizing with women wanting dick (M)

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I hear it expressed often enough, usually from a woman just wanting to get fucked and being frustrated at not finding a someone.

Surely it can't be that hard right?

Well I now get the frustration.

I am not talking about getting my dick wet. I have plenty of opportunities for that.

I mean, like the title of this post say, I can empathize with women. Wanting a nice cock to spread my ass, and being frustrated at the lack of available men brave enough to take the plunge.

My thoughts wander.. "I would be the easiest fuck..." and I suddenly understand what being a woman wanting that attention must feel like. To feel wanted and craved but not necessarily wanting to "put themselves out there."

Who would have thought being a secret slut wanting dick would be so difficult?

Are guys really that shy?
 
I hear it expressed often enough, usually from a woman just wanting to get fucked and being frustrated at not finding a someone.

Surely it can't be that hard right?

Well I now get the frustration.

I am not talking about getting my dick wet. I have plenty of opportunities for that.

I mean, like the title of this post say, I can empathize with women. Wanting a nice cock to spread my ass, and being frustrated at the lack of available men brave enough to take the plunge.

My thoughts wander.. "I would be the easiest fuck..." and I suddenly understand what being a woman wanting that attention must feel like. To feel wanted and craved but not necessarily wanting to "put themselves out there."

Who would have thought being a secret slut wanting dick would be so difficult?

Are guys really that shy?
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I hear it expressed often enough, usually from a woman just wanting to get fucked and being frustrated at not finding a someone.

Surely it can't be that hard right?

Well I now get the frustration.

I am not talking about getting my dick wet. I have plenty of opportunities for that.

I mean, like the title of this post say, I can empathize with women. Wanting a nice cock to spread my ass, and being frustrated at the lack of available men brave enough to take the plunge.

My thoughts wander.. "I would be the easiest fuck..." and I suddenly understand what being a woman wanting that attention must feel like. To feel wanted and craved but not necessarily wanting to "put themselves out there."

Who would have thought being a secret slut wanting dick would be so difficult?

Are guys really that shy?
Even in a relationship, it can be difficult to get laid. My trans girlfriend always seems to be distracted by other things (video games, her restaurant business, social media etc) so I do not get as much of her attention sexually as I would like.

Sometimes I feel like a wife with a husband who is always too busy for sex. My old standby is nudity. If I can find some excuse to be naked so she can see my ass, usually that makes her horny enough to fuck me. It doesn't always work but it definitely works much of the time.
 
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Sometimes I feel like a wife with a husband who is always too busy for sex. My old standby is nudity. If I can find some excuse to be naked so she can see my ass, usually that makes her horny enough to fuck me. It doesn't always work but it definitely works much of the time.

That sounds incredibly hot. To have the freedom and space to do that.
 
That sounds incredibly hot. To have the freedom and space to do that.
It's when I am visiting her so I find some excuse to have a shower and then take my time getting dressed. It seems as though seeing my naked butt cheeks gives her a stiff cock lol
 
Well, it worked again. She told me when we were chatting that she wanted to jerk off while watching me play with my dildo but then she got distracted with other stuff.

Finally I had a shower and of course she could see me naked so then she told me to get my dildo. I arranged myself on the bed in front of the camera and then toyed my ass with the dildo while she watched.

It did not take her long to reward me with a nice load of cum all over her tummy. How I wish it had been in my ass or down my throat but I will take what I can get. I am such a slut for her!
 
I hear it expressed often enough, usually from a woman just wanting to get fucked and being frustrated at not finding a someone.

Surely it can't be that hard right?

Well I now get the frustration.

I am not talking about getting my dick wet. I have plenty of opportunities for that.

I mean, like the title of this post say, I can empathize with women. Wanting a nice cock to spread my ass, and being frustrated at the lack of available men brave enough to take the plunge.

My thoughts wander.. "I would be the easiest fuck..." and I suddenly understand what being a woman wanting that attention must feel like. To feel wanted and craved but not necessarily wanting to "put themselves out there."

Who would have thought being a secret slut wanting dick would be so difficult?

Are guys really that shy?
I think the problem you’re describing is called standards. If nobody had standards then everyone would get laid when the desire hit.
 
I hear it expressed often enough, usually from a woman just wanting to get fucked and being frustrated at not finding a someone.

Surely it can't be that hard right?

Well I now get the frustration.

I am not talking about getting my dick wet. I have plenty of opportunities for that.

I mean, like the title of this post say, I can empathize with women. Wanting a nice cock to spread my ass, and being frustrated at the lack of available men brave enough to take the plunge.

My thoughts wander.. "I would be the easiest fuck..." and I suddenly understand what being a woman wanting that attention must feel like. To feel wanted and craved but not necessarily wanting to "put themselves out there."

Who would have thought being a secret slut wanting dick would be so difficult?

Are guys really that shy?
It's this:

You're a bottom, and you're competing with a shitload of other bottoms for a limited number of tops. And a lot of those bottoms are even easier than you are.

It isn't the same as what women experience. They can afford to be pickier. They need to be pickier.
 
It's this:

You're a bottom, and you're competing with a shitload of other bottoms for a limited number of tops. And a lot of those bottoms are even easier than you are.
Interestingly, no one who knows me would ever describe me as a bottom.. but curiosity is steering the boat lately so I'm game to see where it leads.

But I would agree with you about a limited number of tops. It does seem that that number is smaller than I first imagined. It actually answers questions I had about my experiences.
 
Interestingly, no one who knows me would ever describe me as a bottom.. but curiosity is steering the boat lately so I'm game to see where it leads.

But I would agree with you about a limited number of tops. It does seem that that number is smaller than I first imagined. It actually answers questions I had about my experiences.
I wonder if the vast majority of men who are tops want to fuck women as opposed to other men. More research is needed on these questions.
 
I wonder if the vast majority of men who are tops want to fuck women as opposed to other men. More research is needed on these questions.
My belief is that it doesn't have a lot to do with orientation. Het men want to fuck women because they're het. Some of them also like to get fucked - by women.

Other men who aren't het might be evenly split between topping and bottoming, but there are reasons why the tops have their pick of the available bottom guys and the bottom guys have to share.
 
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limited number of tops. It does seem that that number is smaller than I first imagined
I think there are more tops than it seems, you just don't see them a lot because they already get what they want with little effort. They really don't have to put themselves out there as much.

I posted it somewhere else a while ago: A top is done sooner/ faster than a bottom, while many bottoms want more. Look at all these threads by guys who talk about taking 5, 10, 20 dicks while the top just can't take that many holes in the same amount of time.
 
I think there are more tops than it seems, you just don't see them a lot because they already get what they want with little effort. They really don't have to put themselves out there as much.

I posted it somewhere else a while ago: A top is done sooner/ faster than a bottom, while many bottoms want more. Look at all these threads by guys who talk about taking 5, 10, 20 dicks while the top just can't take that many holes in the same amount of time.
Wow, those greedy bottoms! I only want one top just to be devoted to me.
 
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