Endless Curiosity III

[hotwords229_A]

Learning to say no without apologizing or feeling the need to explain myself has been one of the hardest things for me to learn. But I can do it now, because I have the confidence to defend my own best interests, realizing that I'm the one who has to live with the consequences.


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Thanks for your entire response (I didn't copy the whole thing here) Your answers were thoughtful and thorough. I like that.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Thanks for your entire response (I didn't copy the whole thing here) Your answers were thoughtful and thorough. I like that.

no prob

 

[lakesailer_mi]

And I'll throw in a few questions of my own!

How long does it take you to reach climax?

How many times do you typically climax in a single masturbatory session?

Do you do a lot of edging before or during your session ? Or do you go in cold and hit it hard?

For masturbation, generally it's quick. Few minutes.

Once.

Not usually.

There are times when I take my time. When I edge and play, but those are unusual.

 

[UnchainedWordist]

How long does it take to climax? Hmm....depends on my..motivation.

How many times do I climax in a single session? Lol. 2- 3 times normally
I’ve never really had an immediate refractory period.

Warm up or hit it could? Shoot...I go from cold to hot in .10 seconds flat.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Hey, you guys have to do the other questions, too!

For masturbation, generally it's quick. Few minutes.

Once.

Not usually.

There are times when I take my time. When I edge and play, but those are unusual.

How long does it take to climax? Hmm....depends on my..motivation.

How many times do I climax in a single session? Lol. 2- 3 times normally
I’ve never really had an immediate refractory period.

Warm up or hit it could? Shoot...I go from cold to hot in .10 seconds flat.

LOL!!

 

[UnchainedWordist]

Hey, you guys have to do the other questions, too!





LOL!!

Oh. Well. Lol

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Okay, last one was a success so I'm going again (JSG come back!!!) :

Shyness. Everyone claims to be shy, even the people you would think couldn't possibly be. It can be debilitating, it can hold you back in your career, in life and in love.
Shyness may also be an asset. Perhaps being a little hesitant about diving into a situation has kept you out of trouble or maybe even saved your life!

Tell us about your shyness.

How has it affected your life? What are you afraid of? Did you have an extremely embarrassing experience when you were young that led to your current shyness or is it innate? What situations cause you to be shy the most?

Is it a serious road block for you, or just a petty nuisance?

What are you doing to fight your own shyness?

BONUS: Tell us something you've done that was way outside your comfort zone. Did it have a positive effect on you or a negative one?

EXTRA BONUS: Do something (today) that forces you out of your shell. Do something, say something, share something, post something that makes even your inner devil blush!

JSG is ok, she's just busy.

I'm not shy. That's why didn't answer this one.

No one has ever suggested that I'm shy. I've never claimed to be shy. And frankly, if you asked any of my friends or family, "Is Lake shy?" They'd find the question itself funny.

Sorry...I'm no fun.

I won't say what...but I did do some things kind of outside my comfort zone in the last 48 hours....

Let's just say...no, let's not...I'm too shy....

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

JSG is ok, she's just busy.

I'm not shy. That's why didn't answer this one.

No one has ever suggested that I'm shy. I've never claimed to be shy. And frankly, if you asked any of my friends or family, "Is Lake shy?" They'd find the question itself funny.

Sorry...I'm no fun.

I won't say what...but I did do some things kind of outside my comfort zone in the last 48 hours....

Let's just say...no, let's not...I'm too shy....

Hm... well... you may not be shy, but you do get awkward and tongue-tired on occasion, don't you? That's pretty close.

Wanna tell us more about that?

 

[Azuldrgon]

Shyness. Tell us about your shyness.

How has it affected your life? What are you afraid of? Did you have an extremely embarrassing experience when you were young that led to your current shyness or is it innate? What situations cause you to be shy the most?

Is it a serious road block for you, or just a petty nuisance?

What are you doing to fight your own shyness?

BONUS: Tell us something you've done that was way outside your comfort zone. Did it have a positive effect on you or a negative one?

EXTRA BONUS: Do something (today) that forces you out of your shell. Do something, say something, share something, post something that makes even your inner devil blush!

My shyness is more of a protective measure than anything else. I have been hurt before, so I generally to hold back to an extent. In real life, I am shy until I get to know people and can come out of my shell that way.

I do not consider it a roadblock as much as I consider it an asset. It buys me the chance to observe a situation and make the judgement call to whether it is worth engaging.

Bonus: I think when I started to record covers of songs and then post the links, it was pretty outside my comfort zone. I think it has opened some doors and made me being on the audio thread possible.

 

[HeavyBalls]

My shyness is more of a protective measure than anything else. I have been hurt before, so I generally to hold back to an extent. In real life, I am shy until I get to know people and can come out of my shell that way.

I do not consider it a roadblock as much as I consider it an asset. It buys me the chance to observe a situation and make the judgement call to whether it is worth engaging.

Same here.

 

[Little_Sister]

I promise if I ever let a girl into my e- panties, you'll be the first.

As long as I am in the top 3, she can go first

 

[DarkSimian]

Absolutely. I would love to talk, and talk, and talk some more with you.

I would pay good money to eavesdrop on this conversation

 

[Little_Sister]

...

 

[snexxer]

There's really only a top 2. You're there.

 

[DarkSimian]

Okay, last one was a success so I'm going again (JSG come back!!!) :

Shyness. Everyone claims to be shy, even the people you would think couldn't possibly be. It can be debilitating, it can hold you back in your career, in life and in love.
Shyness may also be an asset. Perhaps being a little hesitant about diving into a situation has kept you out of trouble or maybe even saved your life!

Tell us about your shyness.

How has it affected your life? What are you afraid of? Did you have an extremely embarrassing experience when you were young that led to your current shyness or is it innate? What situations cause you to be shy the most?

Is it a serious road block for you, or just a petty nuisance?

What are you doing to fight your own shyness?

BONUS: Tell us something you've done that was way outside your comfort zone. Did it have a positive effect on you or a negative one?

EXTRA BONUS: Do something (today) that forces you out of your shell. Do something, say something, share something, post something that makes even your inner devil blush!

I don't know if this qualifies as shyness. But I know a lot of people don't get me; the inappropriate humor, the 80's movie lines, the song lyrics, the general dorkiness. And I know a lot of people don't like me; I know I rub some people the wrong way (and not in a good way ). So I lurk, probably a lot more than people realize. I am the ghost in the machine, that shadow that you catch out of the corner of your eye, the Phantom of Lit.

Wow, that didn't sound creepy at all, DS. I guess back to the attic for me.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I don't know if this qualifies as shyness. But I know a lot of people don't get me; the inappropriate humor, the 80's movie lines, the song lyrics, the general dorkiness. And I know a lot of people don't like me; I know I rub some people the wrong way (and not in a good way ). So I lurk, probably a lot more than people realize. I am the ghost in the machine, that shadow that you catch out of the corner of your eye, the Phantom of Lit.

Wow, that didn't sound creepy at all, DS. I guess back to the attic for me.

I think you and I would get along fine....

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Alright, I'm gonna just jump in and post a question.

I hope our hostess with the mostest doesn't mind. (flowers always help, I'm told).


Sexual moods. Is your mood sexually always "the same?" Or do you have different moods where you want and feel different things. How different? What are your big extremes sexual "mood" wise. How fast can your moods change?

Bonus: What's your current sexual mood?

Super Bonus: Find someone in a complimentary mood and PM them...

Super Secret Bonus: PM our hostess with the details of the shenanigans....

 

[LostGirlTink]

Alright, I'm gonna just jump in and post a question.

I hope our hostess with the mostest doesn't mind. (flowers always help, I'm told).


Sexual moods. Is your mood sexually always "the same?" Or do you have different moods where you want and feel different things. How different? What are your big extremes sexual "mood" wise. How fast can your moods change?

Bonus: What's your current sexual mood?

Super Bonus: Find someone in a complimentary mood and PM them...

Super Secret Bonus: PM our hostess with the details of the shenanigans....

My sexual mood is all over the place.
What I want at any given time varies depending on my mood yes..what was perfect one day isn't necessarily going to be the next day and I can't really tell you why it just is.
"Do you like...?" Umm. Sometimes? Maybe? Ask me tomorrow? Yeah. I'm pretty sure I'm wired like a faulty combination lock. A bit of fidgeting with the dials might be required.

Bonus: Daydreamy

 

[snexxer]

Sexual moods. Is your mood sexually always "the same?" Or do you have different moods where you want and feel different things. How different? What are your big extremes sexual "mood" wise. How fast can your moods change?

My moods change all the time. I can want a quickie or to snuggle or rough or controling or just slow and passionate
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Bonus: What's your current sexual mood?

passionate

Super Bonus: Find someone in a complimentary mood and PM them...

I've been messaging her since she woke up.

Super Secret Bonus: PM our hostess with the details of the shenanigans....

JSG knows and doesn't need details.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Sexual moods. Is your mood sexually always "the same?" Or do you have different moods where you want and feel different things. How different? What are your big extremes sexual "mood" wise. How fast can your moods change?
yes, I have different moods. they can change pretty quickly.

Bonus: What's your current sexual mood?
turtle-y

Super Bonus: Find someone in a complimentary mood and PM them...
no. if my guys were around, they'd be messaging me already.

Super Secret Bonus: PM our hostess with the details of the shenanigans....
I'm not foreseeing any shenanigans in the near future, but if that changes, I might drop her a line.

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[Wild_Honey_66]

Adding my own questions here:

*What causes your sexual moods to change?
*Do you have a 'default' mood that you seem to spend more time in than the others?
*Is there anything a partner can do to help you shift from one mood to another?
*Do you have a favorite mood? Name it.

 

[beachbaby179]

Alright, I'm gonna just jump in and post a question.

I hope our hostess with the mostest doesn't mind. (flowers always help, I'm told).


Sexual moods. Is your mood sexually always "the same?" Or do you have different moods where you want and feel different things. How different? What are your big extremes sexual "mood" wise. How fast can your moods change?

my moods can vary widely. Sometimes it's easy and slow with lots of cuddling, other times I want to just shut the door and be pushed up against the nearest wall. It generally depends on what's been happening before that.

Bonus: What's your current sexual mood?

Not feeling it at all today. It's been a rough week.

Super Bonus: Find someone in a complimentary mood and PM them...

nope. That rarely ends well for me. That friend zone is a killer.

Super Secret Bonus: PM our hostess with the details of the shenanigans....

That's all I got, folks...

 

[snexxer]

Adding my own questions here:

*What causes your sexual moods to change?

My current situation

*Do you have a 'default' mood that you seem to spend more time in than the others?

Cheeky / flirty

*Is there anything a partner can do to help you shift from one mood to another?

Romance and passion will help me change moods. So will being dirty.

*Do you have a favourite mood? Name it.

Compassion. I love to snuggle and hug.

 

[Mindfondler]

Shyness. Everyone claims to be shy, even the people you would think couldn't possibly be. It can be debilitating, it can hold you back in your career, in life and in love.
Shyness may also be an asset. Perhaps being a little hesitant about diving into a situation has kept you out of trouble or maybe even saved your life!

Tell us about your shyness.

How has it affected your life? What are you afraid of? Did you have an extremely embarrassing experience when you were young that led to your current shyness or is it innate? What situations cause you to be shy the most?

As a small child, I was extremely shy and anxious (influenced by my parents). I hated people being physically close to me and tended to play alone, often in make-believe space. These days, my behaviour might have seen me labelled as strongly on the autistic spectrum, although I don't show up that way in adult life; I consider myself to be well-adjusted now.

Is it a serious road block for you, or just a petty nuisance?

Now that I'm used to it, and I know which situations are most likely to trigger it, I work around it (see below) so it remains no more than a petty nuisance to me.

What are you doing to fight your own shyness?

I don't fight it much any more. I simply understand that there are some situations where it's likely to kick in, and I do my best to moderate its influence. For example, at a large unstructured party, I'll either try to find a smaller, more intimate group of people to hang out with, or I'll plan to leave after a suitable time before I tire too much.

BONUS: Tell us something you've done that was way outside your comfort zone. Did it have a positive effect on you or a negative one?

From late adolescence onwards, I regularly challenged my own shyness by throwing myself into situations in which I feared that I might not be able to cope — only to find that I did okay. I took myself to ballroom dancing classes, I joined an acting group, I attended yoga classes, I went on a coach trip amongst strangers for a week... the list goes on. I discovered that my shyness need not prevent me from doing things that I really wanted to do.

EXTRA BONUS: Do something (today) that forces you out of your shell. Do something, say something, share something, post something that makes even your inner devil blush!

I'll be displaying my kinks this afternoon at a party amongst some strangers. I hope that counts! The thing is, I have something of an exhibitionist streak alongside my shyness. That's not a contradiction, although it's sometimes a conflict.
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[lakesailer_mi]

Alright, I'm gonna just jump in and post a question.

I hope our hostess with the mostest doesn't mind. (flowers always help, I'm told).


Sexual moods. Is your mood sexually always "the same?" Or do you have different moods where you want and feel different things. How different? What are your big extremes sexual "mood" wise. How fast can your moods change?

Bonus: What's your current sexual mood?

Super Bonus: Find someone in a complimentary mood and PM them...

Super Secret Bonus: PM our hostess with the details of the shenanigans....

Thanks for all your answers! I found them interesting. I will say that obviously I have many moods. Ranging from rather aggressive dominant type, "I want to take her for my own pleasure" to "I want to serve her and please her" to "lets just be cuddly and look into each others eyes as we slowly make love."
My moods can change pretty fast, sometimes in response to my partner's mood.

My current mood is more cuddly.

Super Bonus: hmmm....done?

Super Secret Bonus:

Adding my own questions here:

*What causes your sexual moods to change?
*Do you have a 'default' mood that you seem to spend more time in than the others?
*Is there anything a partner can do to help you shift from one mood to another?
*Do you have a favorite mood? Name it.

Good question: I don't know why it changes. Sometimes my partner's mood can change mine. Sometimes it's something I saw or read. I've noticed that if I am happy and relaxed, I tend not to be as aggressive and demanding.
Yes, if a partner expresses desires for certain things, I often respond. I guess often I like to please my partner, so....

My favorite mood is the one where I'm in charge but the goal is to make her cum a lot.