Endless Curiosity III

[AbsintheFather]

I haven't had a new Lit crush in a long time. I'm kinda jaded after a being here this long and having been through my share of them. A new crush is thrilling, especially when you just can't get enough of each other. The problem is that they take time and effort to develop. I'm currently very comfortable and happy in the long-term relationships I've put the time and effort into developing.

There have been a number of crushes over the years where I would have been happy to develop more of a relationship, but it was the woman who had a number of suitors and wanted to keep things casual. I suppose I had my heart dinged a couple times that way but it was a learning thing and, in retrospect, I'm happy to have had what we did. But many times they were good and deep enough that we kept in touch for a year or more after they left.

There have been a few really fun or sexy Litsters who I wish I'd gotten to know a lot better. But my take on this is you can't get to know everyone. Or you just don't click and even if they are attractive to you, there's no point in trying to force something where there might not be enough chemistry. I'd rather have a few quality and deeper relationships than many casual acquaintances. I think I might might come off as aloof or cliquish to some, but it's just a matter of not having enough time to get to know everyone well enough, or deeply enough, to crush on them . .

 

[default24]

I don't think I have any Lit crushes in the sense that either of us have that fluttery feeling... which is kind of a double-edged sword. Those things seem to crash and burn rather quickly and leave me in the dust one way or another, so i guess I'm better off without. But really, who doesn't want to be a little bit twitterpated?

My guys are more like super good friends of whom I'm very fond. I think friendship is underrated, so I'm not complaining.

A couple of them might have sexy accents.
A couple of them might be different in private than they are in public.
A couple of them might lurk more than they post.
A couple of them might be on their knees one day and have me by the hair the next.

Would we have run in the same circles at school? Decidedly not. I'm not nerdy enough for some, not cool enough for the other. Thank fuck for kink, the jumping-off place for some awesome friendships, and the reason we have so much fun in the bedroom.

Oooo, which one am I?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Oooo, which one am I?

Different in private.

 

[default24]

Different in private.

And maybe the nerdy part? Just a little

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

And maybe the nerdy part? Just a little

Oh you wanna be in the nerdy group? You got it, puppy.

Anything else while I'm in a generous mood?

 

[default24]

Oh you wanna be in the nerdy group? You got it, puppy.

Anything else while I'm in a generous mood?

I thought I was locked into the nerdy category? Don't I own that corner?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I thought I was locked into the nerdy category? Don't I own that corner?

I guess it depends how we're defining nerd.

Btw I can't believe you picked this thread. I'm dying.

 

[default24]

I guess it depends how we're defining nerd.

Btw I can't believe you picked this thread. I'm dying.

I just wanted to know more about this harem of yours

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I just wanted to know more about this harem of yours

Really? Ew, that feels kind of icky to me.

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Okay, whaddya wanna know?

 

[default24]

Really? Ew, that feels kind of icky to me.

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Okay, whaddya wanna know?

Haha, ok which of the group do you get the most excited about when you see a notification in your inbox?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Haha, ok which of the group do you get the most excited about when you see a notification in your inbox?

Well you of course!

 

[default24]

Well you of course!

Verrrrry diplomatic of you... I had my money on sexy accents for sure

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Verrrrry diplomatic of you... I had my money on sexy accents for sure

It's impossible to maintain a stable without a healthy dose of tact, discretion, and diplomacy!

Also, you're currently the only stud who swings both ways.

 

[default24]

It's impossible to maintain a stable without a healthy dose of tact, discretion, and diplomacy!

Also, you're currently the only stud who swings both ways.

Gotta differentiate somehow!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Gotta differentiate somehow!

Yes! And a good way to cover all my bases.

Hey I have to pee. Wanna come watch?

 

[default24]

Yes! And a good way to cover all my bases.

Hey I have to pee. Wanna come watch?

Are you livestreaming it?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Are you livestreaming it?

Ha ha ha ha ha

I can... But if I record it instead, I can share it with more pervs.

 

[default24]

Ha ha ha ha ha

I can... But if I record it instead, I can share it with more pervs.

Oh you, always thinking ahead

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Oh you, always thinking ahead

Check your kik

Sorry about the fat roll

 

[LostGirlTink]

I try so hard to kiss well! I mean, I practise on the back of my hand, on mirrors, and even on watermelons. Sigh.

You can totally practice on me Tal.

 

[LostGirlTink]

Talk about making others jealous! We need a new question on here. Any takers? Anyone?! Or let's all watch Honey pee.

*plays with your hair*
Shhhh don't be jealous.


A question huh? Alright. I've got one.

Let's talk about hmm, what word to use.... exclusivity!

If you are involved with someone online what does that mean to you in terms of monogamy or exclusiveness?
Do you fool around with whoever you want because this is lit and you don't do exclusive? Do you flirt openly in public but keep anything more reserved only for them?Do you flirt only with them? Do you make exceptions?

Bonus: Do you get jealous?
Extra bonus: Define "flirt"

 

[LostGirlTink]

*plays with your hair*
Shhhh don't be jealous.


A question huh? Alright. I've got one.

Let's talk about hmm, what word to use.... exclusivity!

If you are involved with someone online what does that mean to you in terms of monogamy or exclusiveness?
Do you fool around with whoever you want because this is lit and you don't do exclusive? Do you flirt openly in public but keep anything more reserved only for them?Do you flirt only with them? Do you make exceptions?

Bonus: Do you get jealous?
Extra bonus: Define "flirt"

LOL bunch of chickens. I didn't think anyone was going to respond

I think that every relationship/litlationship/encounter/whatever you want to call it is very people specific and that the parameters should be defined between them.
That being said, I don't do casual very well and I would suck at anything poly, I don't have that kind of emotional bandwidth I don't think.
So if I'm with someone I might playfully flirt and banter about with others but it's all very on the surface and playful but that's it.
I reserve the right to say Indie would be the exception.

Bonus: Yes. Jealous, possessive, territorial. Whatever you want to call it. Yep. Sorrynotsorry.

Extra bonus: I don't even know how to effectively flirt. I can usually tell when other people are doing it, I never know if I am.
https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/41PD-3A8ylL.jpg

 

[DarkSimian]

Wow, I sure can kill a thread

 

[DarkSimian]

I like being the exception to the rule.


Tell me about this lab

Oh no, I'll cause Lit to implode

 

[DarkSimian]

Tease.

I'm just looking out for y'alls safety