Endless Curiosity III

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What advice would you give your virgin self? What would you tell yourself that would "enhance" that first time?

For fuck's sake, don't be so uptight and oblivious! So many missed opportunities!

Bonus: Do you wish you'd waited longer before your first time? Wish you'd not waited as long?

Wish I hadn't waited as long (19). I was dumb and didn't even notice a lot of the chances I was presented with, in retrospect.

As for the first time itself, it was wonderful, thanks to a partner who recognized that I was dumb and made sure I had a good time anyway. :)
 
What advice would you give your virgin self? What would you tell yourself that would "enhance" that first time?

Bonus: Do you wish you'd waited longer before your first time? Wish you'd not waited as long?

I think I would tell me to just have fun, explore each other's bodies more, nothing means anything (meaning don't be uptight), pleasure is good regardless of how it's achieved, and don't worry about being great the first time because you won't be. It takes time and A LOT of practice, just enjoy it and stop trying to be awesome right off the bat.

Oh yeah, and there's this thing called the clit--learn it, know it, love it!

I wish I hadn't waited as long. But the real question is, did I wait too long, or did I not have that many good opportunities?

I still wonder about that.
 
I would tell him to wait. The reason is because I look back on that day now as a mistake. It was a get it over with thing instead of what it should have been.

The only enhancement I think the first time should have been was a partner I had deeper feelings for.

This. Exactly. It was just a fuck with nothing else. I’ve had some good discussions with my son about this. Hopefully he takes it to heart.
 
What advice would you give your virgin self? What would you tell yourself that would "enhance" that first time?

Bonus: Do you wish you'd waited longer before your first time? Wish you'd not waited as long?

Can I join in? I would tell my virgin self to not give into the guy that I did. My first times were not very good and left me feeling a bit ashamed after i realized that he only "dated" me and wanted to have sex so that he could lose his virginity too. I wish I had lost my virginity to someone that really cared about me and deserved it. There was someone that I knew long before the boy that I did do it with that I really wish I had offered myself to. So, in that regard, I wish I had not waited and had actually done it sooner, but with the person that I wish had taken my virginity. Does that make any sense? lol.
 
What advice would you give your virgin self? What would you tell yourself that would "enhance" that first time?

Bonus: Do you wish you'd waited longer before your first time? Wish you'd not waited as long?

Advice.
Don't do it. You're only doing it because of peer pressure, you don't even like the girl. She's going to spread lies for weeks to come making you even more self loathing than you are now.

Bonus
Yes I wished I'd waited. Way too young, ruined what could/should have been 1000 times better.
 
This thread needs a boost! And I'm horny, so here we go . . .


Alfred Hitchcock made a career out of making us all voyeurs. He believed that there was a voyeur in everyone of us and I think that is true. However, is there an exhibitionist in all of us as well? I believe there is. Not that you go running down the football field naked, but when you get a haircut don't you want people to notice? When you buy new clothes, get dressed up, get in shape, etc.?

1. Have you ever engaged in any sexy exhibitionism in real life or online? (provide steamy details or links if online)

2. If you have, were your desires satiated or intensified? If you haven't, why not? What's holding you back?

3. What is your most intense fantasy relating to exhibitionism?

BONUS: Do something to show yourself off for fun either online or in real life--PROTECT THE INNOCENT, don't do anything illegal or obnoxious! :D

DOUBLE BONUS: Tell us what you did, how it felt, or share it here.

DOUBLE SUPER MEGA BONUS: I doubt anyone is going to respond to this so what the hell, post a nude photo of yourself here--show us your sexy, exhibitionist side! LINK if necessary :devil:
 
GOOD LORD. :rolleyes:

This thread needs a boost! And I'm horny, so here we go . . .


Alfred Hitchcock made a career out of making us all voyeurs. He believed that there was a voyeur in everyone of us and I think that is true. However, is there an exhibitionist in all of us as well? I believe there is. Not that you go running down the football field naked, but when you get a haircut don't you want people to notice? When you buy new clothes, get dressed up, get in shape, etc.?

1. Have you ever engaged in any sexy exhibitionism in real life or online? (provide steamy details or links if online)

Sure. I've post revealing pics as my AV, my profile pic, I've posted in the tits and ass threads in the GB, I had my own AmPic thread, I post in about three other of my AmPic threads, and I am not shy about sending pics to my Lit partners.

2. If you have, were your desires satiated or intensified? If you haven't, why not? What's holding you back?

When I was a n00b, I posted a lot, and I did it for attention and for positive feedback. I got it all right, but it was shallow and left me feeling rather like a tart. I seldom post anymore, and it's almost always in an effort to encourage women toward loving their bodies.

3. What is your most intense fantasy relating to exhibitionism?

It's not one of my kinks in the sense that it turns me on, so I don't have any related fantasies. I'm comfortable with my body and wouldn't have a problem being at least partially nude in an appropriate setting.

BONUS: Do something to show yourself off for fun either online or in real life--PROTECT THE INNOCENT, don't do anything illegal or obnoxious! :D

Good grief. I think I've shown myself off enough around here over the years. Sorry you missed it.

DOUBLE BONUS: Tell us what you did, how it felt, or share it here.

I only share with partners now.

DOUBLE SUPER MEGA BONUS: I doubt anyone is going to respond to this so what the hell, post a nude photo of yourself here--show us your sexy, exhibitionist side! LINK if necessary :devil:

Yeah, no. It has to be earned.

My partners get all kinds of sexy, exhibitionist shit, but you're
just going to have to use your imagination.

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1. Have you ever engaged in any sexy exhibitionism in real life or online? (provide steamy details or links if online)

2. If you have, were your desires satiated or intensified? If you haven't, why not? What's holding you back?

3. What is your most intense fantasy relating to exhibitionism?

BONUS: Do something to show yourself off for fun either online or in real life--PROTECT THE INNOCENT, don't do anything illegal or obnoxious! :D

DOUBLE BONUS: Tell us what you did, how it felt, or share it here.

DOUBLE SUPER MEGA BONUS: I doubt anyone is going to respond to this so what the hell, post a nude photo of yourself here--show us your sexy, exhibitionist side! LINK if necessary :devil:

What kind of a horny weirdo would ask this question! :rolleyes:

1. Yes, multiple times in real life and online. But only in a consensual, fun, silly, goofy and over-the-top way, because that's how I like to do things; with laughter, smiles and goofiness. No unsolicited dick pics from this guy!

2. Desire intensified. I spent much of my life being painfully shy. Stupidly shy. Such a waste of time!!! Being a little exhibitionisty has been a lot of fun and awoken a sleeping giant--well, an average sized one ;) There's nothing wrong with a little naughty fun and I think it has helped me be a lot less shy and, if I'm being honest, I get off on it as long as everyone involved is into it.

3. Big CFNM fan. I've written quite a few stories on Lit and they are all CFNM related. Being naked in front of a bunch of women who are very horny and excited is a big thrill for me. The idea of being desired sexually and being lusted after is a big turn on. I may have been a stripper in a former life.

BONUS/DOUBLE BONUS: There is a tumblr page that has exhibitionist challenges that are a lot of fun:

https://luvtoplaydirty.tumblr.com/

I have taken part in the Tuesday challenge before (and again soon ;)) it's stupid fun and gives me a chance to overcome my shyness AND be (hopefully) funny and creative. You should all take part--what do you have to lose?

DOUBLE SUPER MEGA BONUS: No way! I'm too shy! :cool:
 
What is the Tuesday challenge?

And whaaa?? You are not either too shy. :rolleyes:

Everybody want to see yours, so I'll make you a dare. I'll post mine (in profile) if you post yours here.

So, details. How much are we posting? If I'm gonna post the clothespins on my vadge pic, then you'd better post your balls tied up with a pretty ribbon.
 
What is the Tuesday challenge?

And whaaa?? You are not either too shy. :rolleyes:

Everybody want to see yours, so I'll make you a dare. I'll post mine (in profile) if you post yours here.

So, details. How much are we posting? If I'm gonna post the clothespins on my vadge pic, then you'd better post your balls tied up with a pretty ribbon.

Tuesday challenge is Tips or Tits Tuesday where everyone submits a pic of their tips only, or tits only, then the numbers are tallied up and either the guys or the girls win. Almost every week the girls crush the guys, believe it or not. With all the dick pics flying around you would think the guys would win every time, but nope. I originally thought this was dumb, but then my mind started thinking "What would be a funny/creative way to show "the tip" only" and once that train left the station is became a runaway :D

And yes, I AM painfully shy. I was the guy (when I was not how old I am now--moderator safe comment ;)) who would swim with his T-shirt on. I wasn't out of shape or anything, but there was something about showing too much skin that always gave me a boner (even at the age of . . .)

I know I share every sexual thought that enters my head and every embarrassing thing I can about myself here, but that's sort of my way of taking revenge on my own shyness. I am shy, but I'm trying to get over it.

As far as your dare . . . I'm all out of ribbon ;) Plus, I never removed my naked pic from this thread a few months ago, so technically I'm already naked here :cool:
 
I can’t imagine there’s a lot of demand for the dick pic portion of that challenge!
 
Tuesday challenge is Tips or Tits Tuesday where everyone submits a pic of their tips only, or tits only, then the numbers are tallied up and either the guys or the girls win. Almost every week the girls crush the guys, believe it or not. With all the dick pics flying around you would think the guys would win every time, but nope. I originally thought this was dumb, but then my mind started thinking "What would be a funny/creative way to show "the tip" only" and once that train left the station is became a runaway :D

And yes, I AM painfully shy. I was the guy (when I was not how old I am now--moderator safe comment ;)) who would swim with his T-shirt on. I wasn't out of shape or anything, but there was something about showing too much skin that always gave me a boner (even at the age of . . .)

I know I share every sexual thought that enters my head and every embarrassing thing I can about myself here, but that's sort of my way of taking revenge on my own shyness. I am shy, but I'm trying to get over it.

As far as your dare . . . I'm all out of ribbon ;) Plus, I never removed my naked pic from this thread a few months ago, so technically I'm already naked here :cool:

Okay, this one puzzles me. It's a girls post a tits pic and guys post a pic of just the tip of their cock? Now that sounds like a feat of photography or cropping. :D

Out of curiosity if its posting a cock pic then linking it to a pic hosting site is all it takes to avoid having it deleted.
 
I can’t imagine there’s a lot of demand for the dick pic portion of that challenge!

Okay, this one puzzles me. It's a girls post a tits pic and guys post a pic of just the tip of their cock? Now that sounds like a feat of photography or cropping. :D

Out of curiosity if its posting a cock pic then linking it to a pic hosting site is all it takes to avoid having it deleted.

I guess the demand is for posting the "tip only" in a clever and interesting way--being creative. If you send in a "full" dick pic then they don't post it and it won't count for the challenge. I mean, we are talking about a dignified tumblr site after all :D

I'm LOL'ing because I knew my original post was not going to go over well, cause confusion and lead to the deafening sound of crickets. This is what happens when you try to revive this thread without the magic and brilliance of JSG. :)

Also, my intention was not to promote a tumblr page, I was just throwing that out there as a fun thing to do.

So, uh . . . yeah. Anybody else have good Endless Curiosity questions? Because I obviously don't :p
 
I guess the demand is for posting the "tip only" in a clever and interesting way--being creative. If you send in a "full" dick pic then they don't post it and it won't count for the challenge. I mean, we are talking about a dignified tumblr site after all :D

I'm LOL'ing because I knew my original post was not going to go over well, cause confusion and lead to the deafening sound of crickets. This is what happens when you try to revive this thread without the magic and brilliance of JSG. :)

Also, my intention was not to promote a tumblr page, I was just throwing that out there as a fun thing to do.

So, uh . . . yeah. Anybody else have good Endless Curiosity questions? Because I obviously don't :p

Oh it's a good challenge to be sure. The how to do it is the thing. Regardless it's really still going to have to be a linked image or it's something that would be deleted by a mod. But I'm really not sure how erotic or any of that such an image would be for a viewer.
Anyway that's just my random musing on the matter.
 
Oh it's a good challenge to be sure. The how to do it is the thing. Regardless it's really still going to have to be a linked image or it's something that would be deleted by a mod. But I'm really not sure how erotic or any of that such an image would be for a viewer.
Anyway that's just my random musing on the matter.

I made this whole thing more complicated than it ever should have been. I seem to have a talent for that. The challenge is on tumblr, not here. I think that's where the confusion is coming in. That link above is where you send the pic if you're interested.

But onto to better things . . .

JSG WHERE THE HELL ARE YOU!!!! :D
 
I made this whole thing more complicated than it ever should have been. I seem to have a talent for that. The challenge is on tumblr, not here. I think that's where the confusion is coming in. That link above is where you send the pic if you're interested.

But onto to better things . . .

JSG WHERE THE HELL ARE YOU!!!! :D

Ah!! Got it, Separate Tumblr page. Than all lit rules don't apply and no photo hosting links are necessary. Alright. Y 'all knock yourselves out and carry on. :)
 
Sorry for the confusion--I suck at this :)

Na, it's all good, I just didn't know what you were getting at, now its obvious. I was thinking it through as an AMPIC type of post and it wasn't making a lot of sense within lit pic posting rules.
 
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