Erotic Massage

[pampermint]

I am sure have a question out of pure curiosity. What do people like and look for in an erotic massage and in a provider? Either going out and paying a couple of hundred bucks for an hour or what you like a significant other to do for foreplay... What do you DISlike? Do you like a "real" massage with an unscented lotion or oil or just skin on skin? Real massage work along with light fingertip teasing? Fingernails lightly raking? Dirty talk? Feeling and smelling the providers minty breath on you? Her hair brushing against your skin? Do you like her already undressed? Or do you prefer to undress her? Fully dressed? Lingerie? Full nude? Condoms - bring your own or already provided? Do you prefer a bed, if in a hotel? Or a real massage table, if in a real massage clinic? Yes, I am a little naive, but this is something we are taught to veer away from in school. I have had clients "suggest" that their hands belong on my ass or under my shirt during legit sessions... But I am just curious to what people are looking for in an ad placed publicly. Or do you do all appointments based on TER or a similar site?

 

[silverwhisper]

i haven't seen you here in quite a while, pampermint. i hope you've been well? :>

me, i've only had massages from either SOs or my wife. i prefer a gentle but constant pressure--i find sharper pressure generally uncomfortable, and not in the good way.

 

[pampermint]

i haven't seen you here in quite a while, pampermint. i hope you've been well? :>

me, i've only had massages from either SOs or my wife. i prefer a gentle but constant pressure--i find sharper pressure generally uncomfortable, and not in the good way.

Oh, I have been around... just being a night owl and staying in the shadows...

So, you tend to get massages as foreplay? A standard massage/shoulder rub... with kisses? Teases? What do you like in an erotic massage?

 

[simplegirl]

One thing that turns a man to jelly, is to massage him (oil is fun and slippery), and while you're both fully nude (you're straddling his bum), you eventually start rubbing your whole body on him, rubbing your clitoris on his back and bringing yourself to orgasm that way. mmmmmm.

 

[SweetErika]

I am sure have a question out of pure curiosity. What do people like and look for in an erotic massage and in a provider? Either going out and paying a couple of hundred bucks for an hour or what you like a significant other to do for foreplay... What do you DISlike? Do you like a "real" massage with an unscented lotion or oil or just skin on skin? Real massage work along with light fingertip teasing? Fingernails lightly raking? Dirty talk? Feeling and smelling the providers minty breath on you? Her hair brushing against your skin? Do you like her already undressed? Or do you prefer to undress her? Fully dressed? Lingerie? Full nude? Condoms - bring your own or already provided? Do you prefer a bed, if in a hotel? Or a real massage table, if in a real massage clinic? Yes, I am a little naive, but this is something we are taught to veer away from in school. I have had clients "suggest" that their hands belong on my ass or under my shirt during legit sessions... But I am just curious to what people are looking for in an ad placed publicly. Or do you do all appointments based on TER or a similar site?

A real massage therapist or clinic doesn't allow anything erotic. That's why just about every therapist has clients read and sign a form that makes it clear they are not there for anything sexual, and won't tolerate anything less than completely professional behavior.

Of course you were taught to veer away from prostitution (which is what you're really talking about, with nudity, condoms and such) in school - it's unethical, illegal in most places, can be extremely dangerous, and real therapists don't want to give the industry a bad name (they don't want to be harassed at work, and many people wouldn't be comfortable getting a massage if they thought there was a sexual component).

I don't think there's anything morally wrong with prostitution, but I have a great deal of respect for legitimate massage therapists, and think it's pretty low for someone to tarnish the profession by advertising as an LMP/CMT who does "extras" (aka hooking) on the side. If you're considering this, I'd strongly suggest just advertising as a sex worker, after you've thought about the impact of being arrested and having your license pulled for violating professional ethics (CL and the like are playgrounds for undercover cops).

 

[pampermint]

A real massage therapist or clinic doesn't allow anything erotic. That's why just about every therapist has clients read and sign a form that makes it clear they are not there for anything sexual, and won't tolerate anything less than completely professional behavior.

Of course you were taught to veer away from prostitution (which is what you're really talking about, with nudity, condoms and such) in school - it's unethical, illegal in most places, can be extremely dangerous, and real therapists don't want to give the industry a bad name (they don't want to be harassed at work, and many people wouldn't be comfortable getting a massage if they thought there was a sexual component).

I don't think there's anything morally wrong with prostitution, but I have a great deal of respect for legitimate massage therapists, and think it's pretty low for someone to tarnish the profession by advertising as an LMP/CMT who does "extras" (aka hooking) on the side. If you're considering this, I'd strongly suggest just advertising as a sex worker, after you've thought about the impact of being arrested and having your license pulled for violating professional ethics (CL and the like are playgrounds for undercover cops).

All this I Know. I have been a CMT since 2002. I am not looking to get involved in this. I know all the rules and eithics and regulations and risks. I am asking for what people like.

 

[pampermint]

One thing that turns a man to jelly, is to massage him (oil is fun and slippery), and while you're both fully nude (you're straddling his bum), you eventually start rubbing your whole body on him, rubbing your clitoris on his back and bringing yourself to orgasm that way. mmmmmm.

Not using my hands... sounds like something I can work on.