Ever ask what's the point?

[southern_gal]

Ok this is gonna be rambling and maybe make no sense at all so I will just apologize right now.

Why do we come here? I am an erotic story addict and an admitted attention whore. I often treat this place like a playground and let out parts of me that can not be seen in my real life. This place is all about fantasy and our inner self. I get that. But then I cannot help but feel attracted to someone that I meet here and that really isn't a good thing. Next issues is arousal. Somewhere in my silliness and carrying on I sometimes get aroused and then what? I am only reminded of what I don't have. My husband is gone for work more than he is home. I really don't want an affair tho I have to admit it has been considered. I come here, sooner or later I get that twinge and then all I am left with is an empty feeling and my fingers and toys. I have that anyway. Not sure if this place is a healthy alternative or not. It sometimes leaves me depressed when I get that urge and the realization smacks me across my face that when I turn off my laptop, the sexy guy that I have been chatting with isn't gonna be sitting there smiling at me. Just a vibrator. wheeeeeeeeeeee


Ok enough with the poor pitiful me stuff.

 

[bnguy]

I agree with you, and this is why i push for something ongoing that while there is a physical and emotional attraction, you can find that other person that can mentally stimulate you. Though they are not there physically.

 

[Tappy_McWidestance]

I wouldn't be too hard on yourself. Fantasy is a good outlet and there is nothing wrong with that. If you get aroused reading a story, then as a writer, I feel like I wrote a good story. If my readers get off, then I've done my job.

Most people could benefit from a good one handed erotic chat or phone call now and again.

 

[southern_gal]

I wouldn't be too hard on yourself. Fantasy is a good outlet and there is nothing wrong with that. If you get aroused reading a story, then as a writer, I feel like I wrote a good story. If my readers get off, then I've done my job.

Most people could benefit from a good one handed erotic chat or phone call now and again.

I love the stories and often pm the author to tell them if a simple rating isn't good enough. I cannot write erotica at all. The words, the thoughts all get jumbled up somewhere between my brain and my fingers. IF I could make myself stick just to reading erotica I would be better off. Before he took this job away from home that's all I did. Then I found myself being alone too often and I joined the forums a couple years ago. Now I find myself occasionally getting attracted to someone and that is another issue entirely. Not a good one either. Honestly I am better of just reading the stories and fantasizing and masturbating and leaving it at that. It's the human interaction part that makes me want to do things that I know are .......or should be, off limits.

To those of you that keep writing for us, it is very much appreciated. Now stop reading and start writing.

 

[pm4321]

I kind of agree.

Ok this is gonna be rambling and maybe make no sense at all so I will just apologize right now.

Why do we come here? I am an erotic story addict and an admitted attention whore. I often treat this place like a playground and let out parts of me that can not be seen in my real life. This place is all about fantasy and our inner self. I get that. But then I cannot help but feel attracted to someone that I meet here and that really isn't a good thing. Next issues is arousal. Somewhere in my silliness and carrying on I sometimes get aroused and then what? I am only reminded of what I don't have. My husband is gone for work more than he is home. I really don't want an affair tho I have to admit it has been considered. I come here, sooner or later I get that twinge and then all I am left with is an empty feeling and my fingers and toys. I have that anyway. Not sure if this place is a healthy alternative or not. It sometimes leaves me depressed when I get that urge and the realization smacks me across my face that when I turn off my laptop, the sexy guy that I have been chatting with isn't gonna be sitting there smiling at me. Just a vibrator. wheeeeeeeeeeee

Ok enough with the poor pitiful me stuff.

I tend to disappear for stretches at a time, just because I can get obsessive. Once in awhile though, having that person to flirt, talk and voice chat with is a huge turn on. That feeling of being out-of-control horny is a lot of fun in stretches. If I don't want the commitment I just hang around on SoundCloud or the lit audio stories section. Some of you ladies are unbelievable.

 

[southern_gal]

I agree with you, and this is why i push for something ongoing that while there is a physical and emotional attraction, you can find that other person that can mentally stimulate you. Though they are not there physically.

Therein lies the rub. When I am stimulated and aroused I so desperately want that person to be here. When I sign off and close the laptop there sometimes is an emptiness that almost makes me want to cry and wish I had not been here in the first place.

 

[Tappy_McWidestance]

Actually I am writing right now, so be patient

This chapter is 34 pages long and is almost done. Then I have to proofread. The time commitment to write good erotica is more than many people realize.

I recently published my first Amazon Kindle book. It was 205 pages in Word.

 

[snowkitten13]

I often wonder what the point of being on here is too. I used to be able to come on and get some funny banter every time I posted. Now, it seems no one is really interested in that.

 

[southern_gal]

I often wonder what the point of being on here is too. I used to be able to come on and get some funny banter every time I posted. Now, it seems no one is really interested in that.

See that is what I am good at. I can be as silly as anyone and giggle my butt off. Once I start getting that twinge is when the problems (for me) start. I get clingy and know what? I hate clingy.

Nobody likes a pouting clingy whiny woman. Now I've gotten mad at .........me.

The picture I have in my profile sums me up more than any words I could come up with.

 

[pm4321]

I'm always up for lighthearted fun.

I often wonder what the point of being on here is too. I used to be able to come on and get some funny banter every time I posted. Now, it seems no one is really interested in that.

Witty banter is a good thing. It doesn't always have to be orgasms and tears.

 

[snowkitten13]

Witty banter is a good thing. It doesn't always have to be orgasms and tears.

I know. I crave it.

 

[am_1967]

I often wonder what the point of being on here is too. I used to be able to come on and get some funny banter every time I posted. Now, it seems no one is really interested in that.

Oh that's not true....who doesn't appreciate a silly sexy woman like you?

 

[southern_gal]

Witty banter is a good thing. It doesn't always have to be orgasms and tears.

Orgasms and tears........sounds like a short story.

 

[pm4321]

Yep!

Orgasms and tears........sounds like a short story.

It starts out great and builds to a wonderful climax, but the ending stinks.

 

[Tappy_McWidestance]

I suppose it depends how skilled your chat partner is at helping you get off.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

Yes, I ask myself this same question almost on a daily basis! This place can be a total time suck!
Also, I sometimes feel frustrated with the results of my coming here, but then every now and then I connect with someone that is really awesome, only to have them fade into obscurity, due to real life commitments, they meet someone more interesting, or they feel guilty about what they have been doing behind their SO's back.

But, here I am again posting in your thread!

Have a great day!

 

[southern_gal]

I suppose it depends how skilled your chat partner is at helping you get off.

Orgasms are easy. Not rocket surgery. It's the emotional attraction to the person that helped me get them that causes the train wreck.

 

[mellowyellows]

I tend to disappear for stretches at a time, just because I can get obsessive. Once in awhile though, having that person to flirt, talk and voice chat with is a huge turn on. That feeling of being out-of-control horny is a lot of fun in stretches. If I don't want the commitment I just hang around on SoundCloud or the lit audio stories section. Some of you ladies are unbelievable.

I agree with this person....

 

[vibes]

Orgasms are easy. Not rocket surgery. It's the emotional attraction to the person that helped me get them that causes the train wreck.

Cut it out then and just cum ... easy peasy

 

[mellowyellows]

Orgasms and tears........sounds like a short story.

That is a actually a great title......I'm inspired to write because of it.

 

[ProfQ1955]

everybody wants to be needed, desired and paid attention to. When we find something missing we go on a mission to find what we are missing. This leads us to all sorts of destinations. One of which is Literotica, we come for one reason or another ( read stories or join personals) and because it is a safe haven we explore more. Become more in need as the satisfaction of this place grabs ahold of us. Then only to realize that when we close our lap tops and we are back into our true existence. Maybe the lesson we can learn from here is to seize the moment enjoy the journey you are on and find ways to make real life and fantasy come closer together. Just food for thought.

 

[am_1967]

Orgasms are easy. Not rocket surgery. It's the emotional attraction to the person that helped me get them that causes the train wreck.

Ok, now you've got me wondering how someone becomes a rocket surgeon.

 

[pm4321]

Sad.

Orgasms are easy. Not rocket surgery. It's the emotional attraction to the person that helped me get them that causes the train wreck.

I realize this probably isn't where your head is at, but it always makes me sad when someone this cute is thinking about leaving lit. The cute, giggly and fun ones are the best!

 

[phil_o]

Orgasms

Orgasms are easy. Not rocket surgery. It's the emotional attraction to the person that helped me get them that causes the train wreck.

Please give me the secret, giving my wife one is hard work (although I'm not afraid of hard work)

 

[southern_gal]

Cut it out then and just cum ... easy peasy

Best idea I've heard all morning.

Ok, now you've got me wondering how someone becomes a rocket surgeon.

Send me your 100 dollars and I will send you the diploma. That or a brain scientist.

I realize this probably isn't where your head is at, but it always makes me sad when someone this cute is thinking about leaving lit. The cute, giggly and fun ones are the best!

Oh I am not leaving. Just my inner drama queen having a bad day. I get like this. Rainy days don't help. I would be better off in all honesty if I never let myself get turned on in the threads. Keep it silly or just banter and that's it. Save the O's for the reading.

Some guys just oooze sexy and well the train starts rolling down the tracks..............