Examples and advice- phone sex

[tanlessbrand]

Really- totally not a shy person... But this guy is amazing. We've already 'broke the ice' and he keeps trying to initiate phone sex (usually a 'tell me where you thinking about me" "and...")

like I said- I've had some amazing phone sex- but this guy seems to want the dirty good girl- and I'm either dirty dirty, or a good girl.

So I need some suggestions on convo starters to help me ease into the fantasy... And then I can get really bad. I don't need too good- but a way to start it all off.

 

[PaganKinktress]

You could maybe tell him you had a dream about him the other night...(even if you didn't, think about some of the sexy daydreams and fantasies you've been having about him). Then you can get into what you two were doing in the "dream" and parlay it into real time conversation. The nice thing is that since you are describing sexy events that took place in a dream, it'll be easier to feel him out and get a sense of whether certain scenarios would turn him on.

You may or may not feel comfortable sharing past sexual experiences you've had with others as another way to ease into a more straight forward phone sex conversation. Or, you could tell him how you like to masturbate--how you do it, where you do it, what you like to think about or fantasize about when you do it...whether or not you use toys, your hands, etc. You get the idea.