fag,poofter,dyke,carpet muncher

[MzChrista]

That gays have can also have a bias,

Now are you going to call me intolerant?

Or a gay basher?

We just go around making straight peoples lifes miserable dont we?

 

[Netzach]

Faggot was by far the most interesting, due to some seriously short hair and a dark evening.

It was also the only time I got called anything to my face by straight idiots. I caught most shit about my sexuality from holier than thou political lesbians going through a thing in college.

They used big boring words, though.

 

[Gil_Favor]

We just go around making straight peoples lifes miserable dont we?

Not at all,

We as individuals, are responsible for how we make our lives.

 

[Gil_Favor]

no...i'm going to call you a fool.

And why is that?

I point out that the gay community can have a bias, and you in turn call me a fool.

I have never interacted with you in anyway on the GB, I post on this board and I sense a subtle hostility on your part.

 

[Queersetti]

And why is that?

I point out that the gay community can have a bias, and you in turn call me a fool.

I have never interacted with you in anyway on the GB, I post on this board and I sense a subtle hostility on your part.

I don't know about Glam, but some of your postings on the GB, and the "Oh yeah, says who?" attitude you have taken in this Forum, has certainly led me to feel that you have some sort of a chip on your shoulder in regards to gays.

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

Back to the topic:

I never out and out ask anyone or make assumptions. I do sometimes say "He seems mascalinity challenged." Is that a slam?

 

[Gil_Favor]

I don't know about Glam, but some of your postings on the GB, and the "Oh yeah, says who?" attitude you have taken in this Forum, has certainly led me to feel that you have some sort of a chip on your shoulder in regards to gays.

Give me examples.........

I could equally say, that you have a chip on your shoulder when in comes to straight males, with a conservative political view.

We all have had injustices perpetrated against us, It is how we deal with these slights that define our character.


My views on sex, be it straight, gay, bi or whatever is that we are human animals,it is a form of play.

Nothing more nothing less.

 

[glamorilla]

Back to the topic:

I never out and out ask anyone or make assumptions. I do sometimes say "He seems mascalinity challenged." Is that a slam?

no becouse as witnessed above straight men make the biggest drama queens.

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

Glam! You are so naughty!

 

[deliciously_naughty]

whats the best slur you've ever been called?

closet heterosexual

 

[AmatoriuS]

Re: Re: fag,poofter,dyke,carpet muncher

closet heterosexual

That's so cruel!

Case closed

 

[Queersetti]

Give me examples.........

I could equally say, that you have a chip on your shoulder when in comes to straight males, with a conservative political view.

We all have had injustices perpetrated against us, It is how we deal with these slights that define our character.


My views on sex, be it straight, gay, bi or whatever is that we are human animals,it is a form of play.

Nothing more nothing less.

But you would be absolutely right about me. I think straight white males who try to wrap themselves in a cloak of victimization whenever anyone else in society wants a fair shake need to get a healthy dose of reality.

 

[ammre]

my friends are overly creative sometimes... (the majority were gay men and found absolutelly nothing appealing about a vagina so we made up bad names for eachother)

twat stain
cunt nugget
twat tongue
fish breath
flipper
Moby dick (if you've ever heard of the clittorus being referred to as "the little man in the boat" and what did moby dick do that man on the boat? mmm lunch!)
butch

and a favorite joke was about how i never was weened off breast milk was i?

 

[Gil_Favor]

But you would be absolutely right about me. I think straight white males who try to wrap themselves in a cloak of victimization whenever anyone else in society wants a fair shake need to get a healthy dose of reality.

We are all victims of one sort or another.

I was severely molested by an adult male when I was 7/8 years old, That makes me a victim, does it not?

I dont hate the individual who did that to me, But I wouldnt want him around my children either.

You are just as intolerant as those at whom you point your finger.

 

[Queersetti]

We are all victims of one sort or another.

I was severely molested by an adult male when I was 7/8 years old, That makes me a victim, does it not?

I dont hate the individual who did that to me, But I wouldnt want him around my children either.

You are just as intolerant as those at whom you point your finger.

I'm sorry you were molested, but it is an entirely irrelevant point in this discussion. The fact that you think it is relevant merely underlines your misunderstanding of the issue.

 

[Gil_Favor]

I'm sorry you were molested, but it is an entirely irrelevant point in this discussion. The fact that you think it is relevant merely underlines your misunderstanding of the issue.

I see it as relevent,

As that experience shaped many of my opinions on sex.

I was called a "breeder" in front of my children in a public place,

People "breed" dogs,

The original issue was about name calling/slurs.

So, what was said, was a slur, directed at a straight person by gay individuals.

The point is, people/humans should not be reduced to names and labels.

 

[Queersetti]

I see it as relevent,

As that experience shaped many of my opinions on sex.

I was called a "breeder" in front of my children in a public place,

People "breed" dogs,

The original issue was about name calling/slurs.

So, what was said, was a slur, directed at a straight person by gay individuals.

The point is, people/humans should not be reduced to names and labels.

If not seeing your being called a name once by gays as equivalent to Matthew Sheppard dying tied to a fence makes me intolerant, then so be it. I can live with that.

 

[melligrl]

Butt Pirate.

Now, who the hell thought up that one?

The first time I heard that one was when one of my closest friends called himself that

 

[zipman]

We are all victims of one sort or another.

I was severely molested by an adult male when I was 7/8 years old, That makes me a victim, does it not?

I dont hate the individual who did that to me, But I wouldnt want him around my children either.

You are just as intolerant as those at whom you point your finger.

This is a damn good point, as well as many you have posted on this thread.

As for insults, I have been called many of the same ones that I have also seen used for lesbians.

ditch-licker, Y-diner, etc.

A gay friend of mine once called his ex a prissy pillow-biter. Does it still count if one gay person says it to another?

 

[sexy-girl]

my gf called me a carpet muncher

 

[glamorilla]

This is a damn good point, as well as many you have posted on this thread.

As for insults, I have been called many of the same ones that I have also seen used for lesbians.

ditch-licker, Y-diner, etc.

A gay friend of mine once called his ex a prissy pillow-biter. Does it still count if one gay person says it to another?

I never took you for a male lesbian.



Throughout my entire twenties I was very,very homo inclusive. Not becouse of a sense of gay pride but becouse of things I experienced as a teenager at the hands of heterosexuals. To say gay men go out of thier way to be as bigoted as what we experience at the hands of a homophobic populice is pretty narrow minded. Its much more defensive than offensive.

 

[Queersetti]

I guess if someone punches me in the mouth and scrapes his knuckles, I am as guilty of hurting him as he is of hurting me.

 

[zipman]

I never took you for a male lesbian.



Throughout my entire twenties I was very,very homo inclusive. Not becouse of a sense of gay pride but becouse of things I experienced as a teenager at the hands of heterosexuals. To say gay men go out of thier way to be as bigoted as what we experience at the hands of a homophobic populice is pretty narrow minded. Its much more defensive than offensive.

First of all, I don't recall reading anywhere in this thread anyone denying the sad treatment of homosexuals by bigoted heterosexuals.

What I saw was Gil pointing out that the gay community can be bigoted as well, a point which I agree with having dealt with it for many years in the restaurant business.

Discrimination and bigotry are worng regardless of who does it. The fact that the bigotry and discrimination endured by gays is far worse than what most heterosexuals experience does not justify it in the least.

I thought this thread was about derogatory terms. I saw no reason for it turn into a pissing contest about hardships endured.

As a Jew, who went to inner city schools, I experienced a lot of bigotry and had my ass kicked for it numerous times. Does the fact that it happened because of religious beliefs make it any less harmful or damaging than if it was because of my sexuality?

If anything, it made me more sensitive to what others endure, not less sensitive. It also made me a lot less tolerant of others when I saw them do it.



Queersetti - your last post was dissappointing. Nobody said that or advocated it, as you well know.

 

[glamorilla]

well...why do you think the gay community is bigoted against heterosexuals?

 

[zipman]

well...why do you think the gay community is bigoted against heterosexuals?

Sorry Glam, I'll just stay in the "straight forum" where I belong.

But I will say this before I go. It's attitudes like the one you endorse that increase, rather than decrease the bigotry.

Passing it on doesn't end it, it just means some other homosphobe will use your words and your actions as justification for what their prejudice and hatred.

I've been on the other end of it Glam, and it made it a lot harder to maintain my own standard of behavior and not react to it.