Falling for a straight person

[sweatinganal]

Panos, dear, that is VERY hot! You should give yourself an enema or find some other way to clean out your love tunnel, shave yourself completely, then go for it! Only if you're sure he'll reciprocate in a fashion you want him to reciprocate in, though. It could make for some very hot lovemaking for you two future love bunnies.

 

[PanosGreece]

Panos, dear, that is VERY hot! You should give yourself an enema or find some other way to clean out your love tunnel, shave yourself completely, then go for it! Only if you're sure he'll reciprocate in a fashion you want him to reciprocate in, though. It could make for some very hot lovemaking for you two future love bunnies.

Hot!
Yeah but here in Greece it isn't like bi or gays just hit on you like this.Even if I make a move he might have done it for 'fun'.
(Yeah people in Greece have a HUGE sense of humour.TOO huge...)
But, whatever works for him.He is actually quite attractive so it'd be nice if this wasn't just a joke!Wish me luck!!

--By the way I don't want to shave myself.I'll save it for more hung guys!

 

[GuitarRocker]

I'm actually in love with one of my best friends right now. He's a straight male. I never bothered asking him if he was gay or wanting to go gay 'cause I don't want to ruin the friendship with him. I have a feeling he's gay though, he's talked about going to gay chat rooms and he had nude pics of nude men in his folders in his hard drive, and he always seem to enjoy talking about cocks more than women, but that still doesn't mean he's gay though, it could be just a fantasy thing of his though.

I'm just going to wait until he's open and honest about his sexuality, if he openly admits that he's gay, then I will say, "You are reallY? Well, I'm a little bi-curious myself", then I will ask for sex with him. I would NOT have sex with a strange random man I don't know. It would be someone I know well and known for years like my best friend. I've always wanted to suck his cock though. 'cause I've watched him masturbate while he was watching a straight porn in front of me with the lights of when he spent the night at a friends house. I was on the couch sleeping, he was jerking off while watching porn, so I woke up and watched him. I coudn't help myself but jerk off under the blanket on the couch and that whole time he never noticed me jerking off while he was doing the same thing while watching porn. It was HOT.

 

[sweatinganal]

How big is it? And HIS cock? Please do tell!

 

[WyldSpirit]

I fear that this is exactly what's going to happen and that's why I haven't made a move.I'm pretty sure he would tell me if he liked me.
I have a question:
Today I was with some friends and there was this guy, whom I don't know very well(just typical behaviour-hi!,What's up, this kinds of stuff)..
I know nothing of his sexual orientation and while I thought he was straight now he pretty much confused me.He kept calling me Babe and stuff after each sentence and when we were about to leave I ducked to pick up something and he said:"That's the position I want you!"
I mean, ok it's funny for a while, but what's the deal here?Do I know you THAT well mister?And as I'm evil enough I'm now trying to freak him out by actually responding to his 'calls for love'
Evil will RULE the world!

Ok, well, sounds to me like he made an openly obvious pass at you. So, if you're interested, make a move back. You cannot be blamed if a casual acquaintance made a pass at you and you responded and that person turns out not to be gay. It is his fault. He did know that you are gay, if he wasn't interested, he should have kept his damn mouth shut! If he is gay or bi, it could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship

 

[PanosGreece]

It is his fault. He did know that you are gay, if he wasn't interested, he should have kept his damn mouth shut! If he is gay or bi, it could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship

Actually he doesn't know I'm bisexual(not gay) as I'm out only to my close friends.He is just an aquaintance one would say.So I'm just gonna act like he does and if he turns out to be attracted to me all's well that end's well
If not, too bad!at least he enriched my fantasies for a bit
By the way have you ever felt that by keeping something secret from your friends(like being attracted to the same sex) is like lying to them?
Or in this case, not telling them your REAL feelings?

 

[Raimondin]

I was on the couch sleeping, he was jerking off while watching porn, so I woke up and watched him. I coudn't help myself but jerk off under the blanket on the couch and that whole time he never noticed me jerking off while he was doing the same thing while watching porn. It was HOT.

Wow, you should have joined him. Might have been worth a try. I kinda think he knew you were also. Sometimes these are invitations. If you say all these things about him...Hmm, I doubt if he's all straight. I don't mean to take all the mystery out of this, but someones's gotta break the ice sooner or later. Time's a wastin'...

 

[sweatinganal]

I say wait until the next green light (as in 'hint' that he drops) and go for it!

 

[funwdi]

back in 1984/85-ish(?) I had a roomate who was very good looking and very straight but very cool about me being gay, at least until that one night when I just had to make a pass at him and in an instant the friendship was damaged beyond reasonable repair. Without going into too many details I will just say that this is an issue to be very careful with. If they (he/she) know that you are gay then let them make the move first or not at all is my overall rule of thumb.

I so absolutely agree. Flight...you bring up an excellent point. Let them cum to you. Then you are not to blame! Plus, you might not ruin a good friendship. I guess "be careful" is an understatement? Thank you!

 

[Xectxny19X]

*sighs* damn, this evokes some sad memory. I fell ONCE (thank goodness) for a straight person...my best friend. Basically, I just pushed her away which was definitely childish of me. Our friendship deserved some communication on my part. She did figure out some years later that I am into girls and turns out she was into me, too. Having suppressed my feelings for so long, I don't feel the same way anymore. It was a puppy dog crush. The only thing I regret doing is having thrown our friendship away so carelessly due to my vulnerability in the past.

 

[Guest]

this happens to me all the time. I fall inlove with straight girls. Maybe its time i see a shrink

 

[taboofeline]

i've always had a tendency to fall for straight women and gay men.

 

[Filly Gal]

I always try to have a conversation about my feelings and what is up for me. Making some silly romantic inspired dive bomb towards them can really backfire badly! Its important to have a heart to heart WAY before you try something that might ruin a friendship!

 

[BitterIchor]

As most lesbians has at one time or the other, I have indeed fallen for a straight girl. Unlike in the fairytales though, she was not the least interested in me that way. We're still friends though.

 

[Guest]

Normally i look before i leap. My gaydar works overtime. But sometimes those little straight girls are just so damn cute. Someone has to have the job of PR for lesbians

 

[estebanCOTS]

Last year i fell in love, unfortunetly he couldn't love me back, and nothing could ever happen as he was straight, or appeared to be, as i assumed he was but others at work questione/teased he might not be.

And it wasn't the same puppy love i had when i was 18 over this girl, i geniunelly fell for him, how could i not, he was bright, naturally wickedly funny, had a great personality (and body ), was good looking and had the sweetest, cutest smile. I ended up caring for him a great deal, though it could never be recipricated. And after it was over several months later when he moved from the job, i tore myself up inside over him, not being able to see him everyday, and still miss him very much.

You might think it weak that i couldn't say anything, but i think he was straight overall, i just fell for the wrong guy, even if he was right for me. I couldn't risk everything because of how close we had become. Unrequited love is the worst form of love itself.(?)

 

[Nirvanadragones]

As most lesbians has at one time or the other, I have indeed fallen for a straight girl. Unlike in the fairytales though, she was not the least interested in me that way. We're still friends though.

Ditto - verbatim.

 

[playwithlezli]

this happens to me all the time. I fall inlove with straight girls. Maybe its time i see a shrink

I'm not straight

 

[comfort zone]

fantacies

i'm a male in an EXTREMELY homophobic profession. i've had attraction to/fantacies about many of the straight people around me for years. with appox 700 employees over 90% of them male, i'm certain i'm not alone. i just don't have any idea how to approach. this may be a little off topic, but poses a similar dilema to falling for a known straight. i'm a closet bi (comming out would be professional suicide on many levels). i'm stuck in an environment teaming with handsome/inshape attractive people and don't dare approach. comments? suggestions?