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hi,
i was brought up abroad, did my college in india and then was working there. In my office i had a friend, somebody i really believed. we were great friends. In the midst there were strong marriage proposals coming for me. And one caught everyones interest. The guy is a s/w engineer in US. As in the indian tradition, they look 4 the family and financial background, etc. Everything was ok. He was supposed to come very soon and get married to me. But each time he plans his vaccation, because of some or the other reason it gets postponed. I never had any contacts with this guy. But around 8 months passed by and within this time, i started to feel sad thinking of missing my friend. i knew i loved him, but wasn't sure if he did. But he used to tell me not to get married to this guy since he also can't miss me. Finally when the guy came, i refused to marry him and i told my parents abt my friend. But then i saw my parents were sad missing this proposal. so the next day i told if this proposal comes back by any chance i will agree to marry that guy. And it did and i was forced to say yes. But then my friend was all shattered and finally he told me that he loved me thats y he asked me to stop the marriage. He was from a different (lower)caste, so he was hesitant to say this to me. Well then we met till the day before my marriage, i was happy being with him and also sad that i will be losing him. i used to beg my parents to stop this marriage and i told them abt my friend, they didn't bother. i even remember telling them i can't marry the guy when i was getting on to the stage were my marriage was going to take place. But i got to married to the other US guy. He has the same name as my friend. i can't love him. I tried to suicide and even run away from home before leaving for US, but didn't work out. But i still have plans od running away. It has been 2 months till now i can't accept him as my husband. i am in US now, i have not yet recovered. i need a divorce, i can stay alone. i am destroying his life too. i never talk to him nor go out with him. he is also fed up of me. i will never be able to love him as long as he is my husband. Any suggetions.
i was brought up abroad, did my college in india and then was working there. In my office i had a friend, somebody i really believed. we were great friends. In the midst there were strong marriage proposals coming for me. And one caught everyones interest. The guy is a s/w engineer in US. As in the indian tradition, they look 4 the family and financial background, etc. Everything was ok. He was supposed to come very soon and get married to me. But each time he plans his vaccation, because of some or the other reason it gets postponed. I never had any contacts with this guy. But around 8 months passed by and within this time, i started to feel sad thinking of missing my friend. i knew i loved him, but wasn't sure if he did. But he used to tell me not to get married to this guy since he also can't miss me. Finally when the guy came, i refused to marry him and i told my parents abt my friend. But then i saw my parents were sad missing this proposal. so the next day i told if this proposal comes back by any chance i will agree to marry that guy. And it did and i was forced to say yes. But then my friend was all shattered and finally he told me that he loved me thats y he asked me to stop the marriage. He was from a different (lower)caste, so he was hesitant to say this to me. Well then we met till the day before my marriage, i was happy being with him and also sad that i will be losing him. i used to beg my parents to stop this marriage and i told them abt my friend, they didn't bother. i even remember telling them i can't marry the guy when i was getting on to the stage were my marriage was going to take place. But i got to married to the other US guy. He has the same name as my friend. i can't love him. I tried to suicide and even run away from home before leaving for US, but didn't work out. But i still have plans od running away. It has been 2 months till now i can't accept him as my husband. i am in US now, i have not yet recovered. i need a divorce, i can stay alone. i am destroying his life too. i never talk to him nor go out with him. he is also fed up of me. i will never be able to love him as long as he is my husband. Any suggetions.
