Female masochists?

In my opinion, most women who say they enjoy being slapped, choked, and spanked like the idea of it. Or, a very mild and controlled version of it. The intoxication of finding a woman who actually submits (and enjoys) to the sensations of various types of pain is truly electrifying.
 
I love it! But I want everything to work afterwards. I can be sore but I don’t want to have to visit my doctor because of a session.

Also, the more I like a person the more I want it. If I’m into them I’ll beg for it.
I think the humiliation of having to go to the doctor after that is extremely arousing.

Obviously we don’t want you really injured.
 
feeling hurt for the pleasure of someone else can be so powerful. Giving into it, submitting to it.... for me it's wrapped up in humiliation and the mental part of submission that is so powerful.

I've been hurt by partners who were just abusive before. It's not the same experience, it doesn't give me pleasure or the sensation.
 
feeling hurt for the pleasure of someone else can be so powerful. Giving into it, submitting to it.... for me it's wrapped up in humiliation and the mental part of submission that is so powerful.

I've been hurt by partners who were just abusive before. It's not the same experience, it doesn't give me pleasure or the sensation.
Well put. There's a major difference between feeling pain (both physical and psychological) as a normal part of BDSM play, as opposed to the pain from abuse. The former is consensual and generally gives both partners pleasure, whereas the latter is often non consensual and only satisfying to the one doing the hurting. Sorry about your abusive partner experiences -- hopefully there will be more of the pleasurable kind going forward. :)
 
I'm a huge pussy girl when it comes to pain. Pain hurts, but for me that's kind of the point. I like not liking it. If you like hurting me I love being hurt. I'm naturally submissive and crave subjugation, sacrificing myself for your fun, and suffering for others' pleasure just happens to be the most complete offering of servitude I can make. I can't guarantee you that I won't whine when things don't feel nice. In fact I can pretty much guarantee you that I will. But what I will also do is ask you up front to please ignore me when I scream and beg you to stop. Does that make me a masochist?
 
I'm a huge pussy girl when it comes to pain. Pain hurts, but for me that's kind of the point. I like not liking it. If you like hurting me I love being hurt. I'm naturally submissive and crave subjugation, sacrificing myself for your fun, and suffering for others' pleasure just happens to be the most complete offering of servitude I can make. I can't guarantee you that I won't whine when things don't feel nice. In fact I can pretty much guarantee you that I will. But what I will also do is ask you up front to please ignore me when I scream and beg you to stop. Does that make me a masochist?
I think so-because you’re accepting it. Perhaps not embracing the pain, but embracing the surrender of yourself that the subjugation brings.
 
I dated a fairly extreme masochist. I tried to always give her what she wanted without causing injury. If she wanted bruises I tried to make them where they could be covered. She was also an exhibitionist and liked the idea of people see marks on her. I’ve always been attracted to extreme personality women.
 
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