Female orgasm - girls what are you feeling?

[Exquisition]

I guess I assumed (wrongly it seems) that if you read the thread you'll know what the trolling part refers to.

If you knew me at all, you;d know I;m not facetious or attacking you personally for your advice, for which I have been most grateful

 

[satindesire]

GrrlFriday, I was referring to the same post I put up on the General Board that got ripped to shreds mostly by blokes.

SatinDesire pulled me up thinking simialr - see the earlier response.

Remember...we only know what's going on with you in THIS thread.

You can see ALL of your threads.

But if I for instance mentioned that Zarik seems like a real outstanding example of a warrior, you'd look at me like I'd grown a second head. You'd have no idea what I was talking about -because I'm mentioning information in an entirely separate thread that probably NO ONE in this one has read-!

If you continue to talk about things that happen in other threads, you're going to continue getting confused responses.

 

[Exquisition]

"But if I for instance mentioned that Zarik seems like a real outstanding example of a warrior, you'd look at me like I'd grown a second head. You'd have no idea what I was talking about -because I'm mentioning information in an entirely separate thread that probably NO ONE in this one has read-!"

But in THIS thread we have already clarified this no?

You dilligently tanned my behind a few posts back about this v. subject. So, in THIS thread the reference to trollers has been clarified.

 

[satindesire]

"But if I for instance mentioned that Zarik seems like a real outstanding example of a warrior, you'd look at me like I'd grown a second head. You'd have no idea what I was talking about -because I'm mentioning information in an entirely separate thread that probably NO ONE in this one has read-!"

But in THIS thread we have already clarified this no?

You dilligently tanned my behind a few posts back about this v. subject. So, in THIS thread the reference to trollers has been clarified.

No, obviously not, else GrrlFriday would never have asked you about it.

 

[GrrlFriday]

Exquisition, I never intended my post as a personal attack on you, or as the sharp rebuke you seem to have taken it as. Perhaps you've read my tone wrong - it's easy enough to do on the Internet. I was genuinely confused, particularly as you've referred previously to the 'curt responses' by women who have genuinely responded to your intimate request with genuine and understandable reservation, and you have lumped them together with the GB trolling, as if they appear to you to come from the same motive.

It was not clear to me at all, particularly as I haven't been following this thread religiously, and that was why I posted - as 'get a book', on the face of it, is a fairly reasonable piece of advice for a lot of things. I assumed that the exact subject of the book was hyperbole, a piece of creative license on your part. I did not post 'for the sake of' anything but clarity, nor was I intending to embarrass you in public. I'm sorry that you have taken it so harshly, but it was never intended that way.

 

[eric60red]

Exquisition, I never intended my post as a personal attack on you, or as the sharp rebuke you seem to have taken it as. Perhaps you've read my tone wrong - it's easy enough to do on the Internet. I was genuinely confused, particularly as you've referred previously to the 'curt responses' by women who have genuinely responded to your intimate request with genuine and understandable reservation, and you have lumped them together with the GB trolling, as if they appear to you to come from the same motive.

It was not clear to me at all, particularly as I haven't been following this thread religiously, and that was why I posted - as 'get a book', on the face of it, is a fairly reasonable piece of advice for a lot of things. I assumed that the exact subject of the book was hyperbole, a piece of creative license on your part. I did not post 'for the sake of' anything but clarity, nor was I intending to embarrass you in public. I'm sorry that you have taken it so harshly, but it was never intended that way.

Dont take it personnel Girl Friday I had a similar poster who took me to task for a spelling mistake in a thread that I started. I just ignored the unwarrented coment.

 

[Exquisition]

It was not clear to me at all, particularly as I haven't been following this thread religiously, and that was why I posted - as 'get a book', on the face of it, is a fairly reasonable piece of advice for a lot of things. I assumed that the exact subject of the book was hyperbole, a piece of creative license on your part. I did not post 'for the sake of' anything but clarity, nor was I intending to embarrass you in public. I'm sorry that you have taken it so harshly, but it was never intended that way.

No problem GrrlFriday. I can see why there might have been some confusion - just assumed people would read the thread in the entirety I guess. Felt like I was being smacked down unfairly...P)

 

[Riles]

Put it in words, huh? This feels like a worthwhile challenge!

Here goes nuthin.

First off, I think I should select the kind of "O" I want to describe. Sometimes they're like a show of fireworks, with a definite start, middle and end. And other times it's like I skip the intro and head right to the big bang middle...though the size of the bang and the enjoyment of it can be a little lackluster.

Let's go with the first.

The start or buildup is actually my favourite part. Depending on if I'm solo and using toys/fingers, or if I'm with a partner can really change how I experience this time. But if my partner is knowledgeable and keyed into my response, it should be just as good as when I'm by myself. The first sensations I notice are the tingles. My nipples, my clit, my ass....everything kind of hummmms and I get squirmy, wanting to press all those parts at something firm. Second is the tight coiling deep in my belly. It feels like a spring is being turned, tighter and tighter, and it sends pleasure jolts up my spine when he touches certain places on my body. (i.e. the curve between neck and shoulder, the back of my thighs, the underside of my breasts) At that point I start to ache, right at the core, and it simply grows stronger and stronger, and I feel the heavy pulse of blood swelling my walls and the heat that spreads ever outward. At this point, he/I can choose to push onward to my "O", or let the sensations hang for awhile. Though I don't subscribe to the notion that holding myself back generates a stronger physical response, I do know I get a greater emotional release if it's been more intense/longer.

The "O" itself is like a wave rushing at me, and in one slam, it's all about the muscles clenching, the juices flowing and the heat washing over me. And with that, I'm either purring and content or my claws are coming out and I'm feeling a ferocious hunger for MORE.

 

[GrrlFriday]

As I said - I was genuinely confused, and did not intend it as an 'unfair smackdown'. To me, the GB trolling is irrelevant to your efforts - so I am confused as to why you keep referring to it at all.

 

[Exquisition]

Thank you Rose for sharing in detail

 

[Thefamiliar]

Can you help out?

What's happening physically when you're building up to orgasm? Where's it happening? What's going through your mind? What are you feeling when you orgasm? What are you thinking when you're climaxing?

Would love to hear back from you. Feel free to PM if you prefer to keep it confidential.

A

I don't know whats happening physically. Its sensation overdrive. There are no words to describe it, and nothing that compare to it to give a description.

My mind blanks, the only thoughts are of the moment, if I think...start from scratch and try again. Thoughts kill the orgasm...the old baseball trick for guys lol

Im feeling pretty damn good when climaxing. Lol the senation takes over.

They say sex is one way to let go of the ego/self for orgasm is a path to the divine.

Perhaps us women are so vague because we don't multitask in that aspect?

I have yet to have a man answer indepth about how it feels exactly either. I thin its pretty much the same for men and women.

 

[lauren26f]

Cumming is cumming. I have weak ones where I say, "fuck, that sucked" and strong ones where I say, "Oh, fuck, oh, God, that was sooo good!" lol I have clitgasms and pussygasms, shallow and deep. I squirt, too, and those are definitely my favorites. I've talked with lots of guys and asked them what they feel like and it's not much different than ours. I think the difference, like another said here, is the build-up is where men and women differ a lot. I don't have to cum in the next 5 minutes like many men. I'd much rather be surrendering to the feeling a long time before I cum if the lovemaking is really good. Basically, it's not about the orgasm as much as it is about the feeling and letting go as far as me.

 

[DRS_EROS]

Cumming is cumming. I have weak ones where I say, "fuck, that sucked" and strong ones where I say, "Oh, fuck, oh, God, that was sooo good!" lol I have clitgasms and pussygasms, shallow and deep. I squirt, too, and those are definitely my favorites. I've talked with lots of guys and asked them what they feel like and it's not much different than ours. I think the difference, like another said here, is the build-up is where men and women differ a lot. I don't have to cum in the next 5 minutes like many men. I'd much rather be surrendering to the feeling a long time before I cum if the lovemaking is really good. Basically, it's not about the orgasm as much as it is about the feeling and letting go as far as me.

There is more to it than that with men , the difference in the gender organs is signifigant. The other part, is it is more difficult for men to control their sexual, sensual physical responses to sexual stimulation than women. It can be accomplished by men, just a matter of if we/they will go to the time and trouble to do it !