Financial D/s

This.
He is completely in charge.
All he had to do is change his access for you. Or say he's been hacked.
Or stop.
He has all the control. It's his money.

Haha... The thing is, I don't care about his money, I care about his submission. The only reason why the money has come into play is because it is one of his conditions in our 'contract' - I indulged him. I am in no way controlled by it. In fact, tonight he got flustered because I wasn't following 'his game'. Hosh-posh 'his game'. I had to put him in his place telling him I'm his Domme and I require his submission not his money. If I tell him to do something he does it no questions asked, he does it simply because I tell him to. I think it actually frustrates him that I don't value the money at all (and it adds to his mental torture).

Oh so this is someone you see in person? If you plan to buy actual things to use on him then why not just do cash?

Well, we were going to meet in London but couldn't arrange things in time. But, we will likely meet in the near future if our new relationship works out.

The way we are doing it is to protect our identities, and I think he wants to see the process his money goes through in getting transferred and used.

Just wait till the sexbots become advanced enough...

Humans are becoming obsolete!

Only those ones who have nothing to offer the world.

Wait.
The money is being transferred so you can buy for him?

Well, he doesn't know I want to buy for him. Shhh, don't tell him. I'd by buying things like cat-o-nines and groovy bondage gear to use on him - so it's really for the both of us.

Yes, I'm famous here for exactly these attributes. You uncovered my scheme.

No I didn't. Everyone knows - I just think it's important to call you out on it. We can't let bad behaviour go unnoticed.

Pssst. You are ruining her story.

Yeah, it seems some think I'm lying, it just means they are ignorant or jealous. A quick squizz around my posts and any joker will see that I'm true to a fault. But it doesn't stop the Nellie McNeggersons.
 
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Well, we were going to meet in London
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The way we are doing it is to protect our identities,

Yes, that's totally my focus, too, when I'm going to meet someone.

:rolleyes:

Everyone knows - I just think it's important to call you out on it. We can't let bad behaviour go unnoticed.

Because everyone knows, it's important to point it out?


Yeah, it seems some think I'm lying, it just means they are ignorant or jealous.

or that they are just right or wrong.
 
Yes, that's totally my focus, too, when I'm going to meet someone.

:rolleyes:

You know people who roll their eyes at other people let silly things get to them. You create your own pain, bro.

And yes, my life is full of contradictions that you can not understand - my life is complex and interesting. When I meet people, I do not need to know their personal details. I do what I can to protect mine and their identity. I don't need to know their name or where they live or how old they are, just as long as they are legal. (Sometimes I don't even see their face.) And all the pictures we take of our kinky time together do not reveal our faces. The people I meet are of a high calibre. We feel safe with each other. I trust them and they trust me.

Because everyone knows, it's important to point it out?

Exactly! You are getting the picture now. Ignoring you is just going to make you yell louder and who wants that?

Or that they are just right or wrong.

Eh... No...lol. You should look up what pseudo intellectualism is.


You're my boy, Primalex. I've got you coming back for more every time. Haha! You just can't help yourself, can you? Don't worry baby, I'll give you that attention you need. Just as long as you keep bending over me for me, I'll keep biting your ass.

*lick*
 
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You know people who roll their eyes at other people let silly things get to them. You create your own pain, bro.

Thank you for your concern.
I still have a few good years of eye-rolling at stupid people left though.


And yes, my life is full of contradictions that you can not understand - my life is complex and interesting. When I meet people, I do not need to know their personal details. I do what I can to protect mine and their identity. I don't need to know their name or where they live or how old they are, just as long as they are legal. (Sometimes I don't even see their face.) And all the pictures we take of our kinky time together do not reveal our faces. The people I meet are of a high calibre. We feel safe with each other. I trust them and they trust me.

You feel safe with each other and you trust them and they trust you.

And because of this exceptional bond, you feel better when you f.e. don't share how old you are.

:rolleyes:

Exactly! You are getting the picture now. Ignoring you is just going to make you yell louder and who wants that?

And "louder" is a metaphor for...?

I mean, you give me ample opportunities to write replies. What could I do that is "louder" than that?


RacyLogic said:
it just means they are ignorant or jealous.
or that they are just right or wrong.
RacyLogic said:
Eh... No...lol. You should look up what pseudo intellectualism is.

"The practice of using sophisticated terms and/or concepts incorrectly or without thorough understanding of their intricate nuances and thus resulting in a flawed body of knowledge."

And now? How does this improve your statement?


You're my boy, Primalex. I've got you coming back for more every time. Haha! You just can't help yourself, can you? Don't worry baby, I'll give you that attention you need. Just as long as you keep bending over me for me, I'll keep biting your ass.

*lick*

Nice try. :)
But unfortunately, this paragraph does neither make my arguments unsound nor does it improve the nonsense you write. It's not even good enough to stir me up. Those are really bland male stereotypes that you exploit in an attempt to attack my arguments by attacking me.

I retract my previous statement. It was actually a terrible try. :(
 
Thank you for your concern.

You're welcome.

Ok, let's get back on track. (Indulging you is getting a little boring.) I really want to hear from all the other people with experiences in findom, rather than one person all the time. A collective knowledge is more valuable to the community and is what I'm after.

:kiss:
 
You're welcome.

Ok, let's get back on track. (Indulging you is getting a little boring.) I really want to hear from all the other people with experiences in findom, rather than one person all the time. A collective knowledge is more valuable to the community and is what I'm after.

:kiss:


My guess is you've already garnered the collective knowledge our community has to offer on this particular subject.
 
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