So I have no idea where people congregate online anymore lol I am just looking for some direction as to where I can find people interested in chatting with online.
Literotica Chat (linked from the Literotica front page) is pretty good for meeting people, but unfortunately very laggy and unstable. It's best used as a place to meet people who you're interested in talking to, and then exchanging contact information for Yahoo or MSN IM so you can chat somewhere more stable.
Since it's frequented by people who read and write stories, the class of people you meet there tends to be a little better than what you find in a lot of other places.