Finding the second F in MFF

[carpediem376]

So not only is she willing to try it, she is actually excited about it. I will only be focused on her, the second F is not for me (it excites me, I must admit). It will be the two of us working to maximize her pleasure. It could start with just the two of them together first and then I could join later (after a few sessions between them assuming they are comfortable).

How does one go about finding that coveted second female partner? I don't know the first thing I'd do for this. Any veterans of this have any suggestions? We live near a large metro on east coast.

 

[SweetErika]

If the main point is for her to be with another woman, that's what she should look for. Your next best bet is a swinging-type situation with another couple, where there is no swapping and it's only same-partner and FF sex (or some couples don't mind the females alone together and/or the men alternating watching every once in awhile).

Or, join the massive number of other couples searching for another female via personal ads, bars, groups, etc., and be prepared for a very long wait unless you just get incredibly lucky. It's not easy for me to find kind, intelligent, sane, attractive, honest, healthy women who like me and are ready, willing and able to have a friendship and sex just for myself (and I've heard the same from nearly every woman I've talked to). I'd probably do a bit better if I was open to one night stands, but that's just not my thing. So, my options would be greatly reduced if Hubby being there were a criteria (as it is now, we just agree that if I find someone who invites him to watch or participate, that's great, but it's not something I'm going to look for).

Whatever you do, make sure your gf places all ads and communicates with the prospects. She should be clear about what she wants, and aware she's unlikely to find a woman who wants to please her without getting anything in return if she's not interested in mutual pleasure (so your idea about you and the chick pleasing your gf is not a good thing to advertise unless your gf actually doesn't intend on reciprocating).

In other words, be as flexible as possible and willing to wait on watching. Sometimes being told in detail is hotter anyway because you still have the great mix of fantasy and reality (the reality of threesomes usually isn't as good as the fantasy).

 

[girlygirl_76]

We just found ours... and this one is very very promising

We searched and searched on just about everything, came across a few chics but they were flakey and it was kinda like, not something to look forward too and the plans fell through. We were getting alot of replies but nobody serious. And then I tried Craigslist.

Fewer people replyed but it seemed to be more genuine people, and I met the coolest chic ever, who I am now very good friends with online. She lives a few hours away (live in a rural area... two hours is very cool) and were going to hook up for New Years. She'll be my first.

As always, make your profile positive (don't start off picky), post a pic (hers preferably),smile when you type, and send out messages to everyone that remotely qualifies. Also, chics seem to think that if your looking for a threesome, it's your hubby's idea and you have no interest in it. Posting an ad for a FF with the option for a "wife" swap if they're a couple, or a threesome will get you alot fruther. All were options for us, although the threesome was definately prefered.

Good Luck!