My first male encounter was during a MFM 3 way....and I really enjoyed, but I was also pretty drunk! However, my first time with just a guy, and sober, was nerve wracking....to say the least....and I felt really guilty afterwards......but that did soon pass. I found that I'm not good with "one nighters"......and want, no, ......need, more than just a release.
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lots of terrific advice here, and other posts. obviously a real guru here that i appreciate immensely. Thank u so much. i really aappreciate ur hot shows, too. u r a real plzr
lots of terrific advice here, and other posts. obviously a real guru here that i appreciate immensely. Thank u so much. i really aappreciate ur hot shows, too. u r a real plzr
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So I reached out to him on the day we were to meet, and it was actually him who was unable to get together. We have continued to talk and he says that he has no change of heart. I asked him if he could go a few days without cumming prior to our meeting. Tonight he told me that it had been a few days, and he does not know how much longer he can go without. I asked him to meet tomorrow.
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Ok its tomorrow already, did it happen was what you wanted or expected hummmmm
tell us. 
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There is some great advice in this thread. MN, you seem to be handling it okay. Trusting your instincts is always the way to go, and beyond that, it is never too late to back out of a situation.
I can't really offer too much else, and I understand why some of you married guys like to "socialize" (I guess I could say "hookup") with other married guys…for the perceived discretion. But be aware that there is always another party involved (the wife) and should things end up badly on that end you potentially could find yourself drawn into it. Just food for thought. I know I'm not much help, as my situation is very different, but that is one of several main reasons why I don't "play" with married men on the DL.
I can't really offer too much else, and I understand why some of you married guys like to "socialize" (I guess I could say "hookup") with other married guys…for the perceived discretion. But be aware that there is always another party involved (the wife) and should things end up badly on that end you potentially could find yourself drawn into it. Just food for thought. I know I'm not much help, as my situation is very different, but that is one of several main reasons why I don't "play" with married men on the DL.
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This is a very interesting thread. It has given me some useful information for If and when I try m2m. And I do believe I would really like to try sucking a guy off and possibly even having him in my ass. But it would have to be someone I am truly comfortable with
make up your mind...
and then do it. But remember, if you cannot talk with a guy for fifteen or twenty minutes before getting into action, it may not be meant to be. So, that being said, when you agree to meet, get an understanding that if there is not chemistry, no attraction...then you will leave....and no harm, no foul.
Other wise, talk about what you want and do not want...and then go with the flow
and then do it. But remember, if you cannot talk with a guy for fifteen or twenty minutes before getting into action, it may not be meant to be. So, that being said, when you agree to meet, get an understanding that if there is not chemistry, no attraction...then you will leave....and no harm, no foul.
Other wise, talk about what you want and do not want...and then go with the flow
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Bi MN 76,
Although I have yet to experience my first encounter, just in reading your story I almost feel as if I AM experiencing it. Hell, just in writing on this board I am acting out on something that I never figured I would do before. Like I've said in a couple of other posts, I'm a straight, married guy in my 30's. Never once did I ever think proactively about sucking cock, swallowing another man's load, or taking it deep in my ass, however, not only am I now proactively talking about it in a forum of like-minded individuals, I am WANTING it, I'm wanting it more and more.
I've always loved the feeling of anal penetration. I started anal play in my teens, and looking back on it now, I had the chance to probably act on some of the very things I crave now but for whatever reason my head wasn't HERE. Up until now I've only had myself, a couple of dildo's, and some homemade sex toys. I've recently begun to try and taste my own cum but chicken out in the end. I've had my cock right at the tip of my mouth, and right as it begins to swell and harden to that final step, making that final push it occurs to me that I'm about to shoot my warm load in my mouth and I end up backing out. It pisses me off because it's only a few minutes later and I'm right back where I began - craving cum. Sucking another cock would be different because I would maintain that level of horniness that would allow me - I think, to follow through.
I have a feeling that it's only going to be a matter of time, but sometimes I wonder what I'm doing here? What happened? When did this happen to me? I've never done drugs but I feel as though I have an addiction, I sure as hell have a greater desire, a new desire - to suck cock, and be fucked hard, damn I'm so tired of dildos and not being able to follow through on drinking my own seed. This is all so new to me and I've been posting what I've been feeling, even if some of it is quite dirty. For some reason I feel like I'm in a community of trusting, like-minded people who have been there or ARE there. There have been so many positive comments to your post and many others. Most of us are complete strangers yet I've seen some really awesome and kind words of advise, as if there are people here who actually care. There are so many risks involved in this whole new phase of my life, but I don't know, I'm finally at a loss for words I think. Anyway, I hope that you've been able to fulfill your fantasy and were finally able to take the leap, and I hope to be there myself someday. At the very least I hope to get to know some of you better and if I do then at least I can say that friendships were made, and that's a good day anyway.
- Wondering why i'm here and wanting more.
Although I have yet to experience my first encounter, just in reading your story I almost feel as if I AM experiencing it. Hell, just in writing on this board I am acting out on something that I never figured I would do before. Like I've said in a couple of other posts, I'm a straight, married guy in my 30's. Never once did I ever think proactively about sucking cock, swallowing another man's load, or taking it deep in my ass, however, not only am I now proactively talking about it in a forum of like-minded individuals, I am WANTING it, I'm wanting it more and more.
I've always loved the feeling of anal penetration. I started anal play in my teens, and looking back on it now, I had the chance to probably act on some of the very things I crave now but for whatever reason my head wasn't HERE. Up until now I've only had myself, a couple of dildo's, and some homemade sex toys. I've recently begun to try and taste my own cum but chicken out in the end. I've had my cock right at the tip of my mouth, and right as it begins to swell and harden to that final step, making that final push it occurs to me that I'm about to shoot my warm load in my mouth and I end up backing out. It pisses me off because it's only a few minutes later and I'm right back where I began - craving cum. Sucking another cock would be different because I would maintain that level of horniness that would allow me - I think, to follow through.
I have a feeling that it's only going to be a matter of time, but sometimes I wonder what I'm doing here? What happened? When did this happen to me? I've never done drugs but I feel as though I have an addiction, I sure as hell have a greater desire, a new desire - to suck cock, and be fucked hard, damn I'm so tired of dildos and not being able to follow through on drinking my own seed. This is all so new to me and I've been posting what I've been feeling, even if some of it is quite dirty. For some reason I feel like I'm in a community of trusting, like-minded people who have been there or ARE there. There have been so many positive comments to your post and many others. Most of us are complete strangers yet I've seen some really awesome and kind words of advise, as if there are people here who actually care. There are so many risks involved in this whole new phase of my life, but I don't know, I'm finally at a loss for words I think. Anyway, I hope that you've been able to fulfill your fantasy and were finally able to take the leap, and I hope to be there myself someday. At the very least I hope to get to know some of you better and if I do then at least I can say that friendships were made, and that's a good day anyway.
- Wondering why i'm here and wanting more.
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Thanks, howbo. Kind words, and it's my pleasure to help out. It's not always an easy situation when you're new to it, but the urges are so strong sometimes, we all could use some help.
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I was pretty keyed up for a few days to go through with it, and the day he was going to come over he wouldn't respond to me, the next day he said he would like to get together but I was unable so that's how it is going Really not sure if this is going to happen with this dude and if it is doesn't I am just going to shelf the idea of finding a dude on the internet and just let life take its course, if it is meant to be it will be.
As to swallowing my own, at first I struggled with that. I would get really turned on by the idea but after I came I lost interest. Until one day I did like most others on here, laying on my back I just put my legs over my head and opened my mouth wide and let the cum shoot straight into it. In doing so I just wished I could get closer, from that point on the desire to have a cock in my mouth has grown. I want desperately to feel a mans cock in mouth when it jettisons its' warm seed.
Really not sure if this is going to happen with this dude and if it is doesn't I am just going to shelf the idea of finding a dude on the internet and just let life take its course, if it is meant to be it will be.As to swallowing my own, at first I struggled with that. I would get really turned on by the idea but after I came I lost interest. Until one day I did like most others on here, laying on my back I just put my legs over my head and opened my mouth wide and let the cum shoot straight into it. In doing so I just wished I could get closer, from that point on the desire to have a cock in my mouth has grown. I want desperately to feel a mans cock in mouth when it jettisons its' warm seed.
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Take your time, when you are ready you will know, you wont be able to hold back when you are ready.
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I might just have to.
Hoping to have another personal go at it tomorrow as I have some free time to myself.bicurious19
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I was so nervous my first time. Felt really really overwhelmed with the situation I was in, UNTILL....I just threw caution to the wind, closed my eyes, grabbed the cock and put it in my mouth. Within 30 seconds I was hooked, I now love sucking cock just as much as gettin It up the ass, and I like it balls deep A LOT! get on it! Suck it, ride it, swallow it's lovely juices!
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I am in the same boat, I have fantasized about taking a load but the one time I had a chance I chickened out. I just finished reading a thread about cock on cock and I think I am ready.
I had one encounter arranged through craigslist. It was so impulsive and I was so uncomfortable that this awkward experience never led to any others. I did get a load of cum in my mouth and I recommend it to everyone. 
You want to be building a foundation for the future. This depends on the friendships or relationships you form. You want to be sucking cock regularly without hassles and be swallowing cum for years to come.
I will be waiting for any updates on your situation. I hope everything turns out well.
You want to be building a foundation for the future. This depends on the friendships or relationships you form. You want to be sucking cock regularly without hassles and be swallowing cum for years to come.
I will be waiting for any updates on your situation. I hope everything turns out well.
