First time sex--shave?

[janas]

i'm getting married in a couple of months and will have my first experience with penis/vagina sex (i say that because we've done everything else ). i want to know how i should shave my pussy because the fiance isn't telling me a thing and i want to be the sexiest i've ever been. what is the consensus among most men? and no, i won't go totally bare because that makes me feel like a little girl.
and for the ladies, don't most of you go into a salon or something for the nice waxings? i tried waxing myself once...ouch.
thanks for the thoughts!

 

[digger39]

shaving is good but waxed is better if you dont want totally bare just leave a small strip ,but make sure your labia region is smooth and around the top it makes for more sensative and wetter sex

 

[boobwitched]

Matter of taste ...

It is certainly a matter of taste and also - in a way - "fashion."

These days it is probably preferred (especially among those under 30) to be at least partially shaved. There are certainly still many who prefer 'au naturel'.

Although I'm certain your beloved will be happy either way, I would suggest to you that you go with whatever option makes YOU *feel* the most sexy ... because when you *feel* sexy, you will *be* sexy to him.

Just MHO.

By the way, congratulations and best wishes to you both! It is a cliche but true nonetheless: honest communication is the most important thing!

 

[eyeretinaeye]

to shave or not to shave

From the point of view of just myself, half and half is the best of both worlds. Shaved/waxed smooth below and thick patch of hair above your clit - but trimmed really nicely. This makes for one, a really sexy look, while going down no more short hairs and while exploring your clit there is this patch to browse your nose and mouth into just above where some of the action is.

 

[Chato32784]

Shaved

I have always liked the shaved look myself.And by getting your partner to do the shaving could lead to much more than just a close shave

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I shave my janey from time to time, along with dannell, leaving them a "racing stripe" above the clit... *grins* Sharp razors and quivering slaves... YUM!