For the men: how many times can you go in a row?
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Three orgasms per day is my maximum, it seems. I can usually achieve all three within one or two hours if I have the time, but usually they are spaced out more over the course of a day.
That's not to say I haven't tried for more, and my lovers have too.
It's been a long time since I had a chance to try for that sort of thing.
That's not to say I haven't tried for more, and my lovers have too.
It's been a long time since I had a chance to try for that sort of thing.
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the orgasm outer limits
or cum shot quotas, if you will, seem to be pretty high for me. I mean, i have had horny, rainy days in my life where i've masturbated to orgasm 10 times. In almost every case, however, the last few ejaculations don't produce much cum and also aren't nearly as pleasant.
In actual sex with a partner, it's much different. 5 times a day seems to be about my maximum before a raw penis, sore abs and/or empty balls put an end to my coupling for the day. There are probably things i could do differently with a partner is she and I were trying to see how many times she could get me off in one nigh but, to this point, 5 has been the limit (i think, may have been one day w/6 memory's fuzzy).
Many have mentioned the difference between climax and ejaculation and separating the two for men. This is something i can do quite easily when i masturbate and, therefore, if i have some time and can do it right, i am capable of building myself up to a pretty mind-blowing ejaculation, with plenty of shivering "climaxes" along the way.
One frustrating thing for me is that it is much more difficult for me to do this when i'm with a woman. If i'm between her legs, inside her, I can hold off on coming but i can't do that tantalizing build up-back off-build up-back off technique. I just don't have the degree of control like i do with my hands.
Any of you guys out there willing to give me pointers? I figure if it leads to such great orgasms flying solo it must be sensational with a woman.
One other note, ladies and gents, physical fitness DOES increase stamina. When I was running two miles a day and doing weight training religiously, i got erections like iron bars and had more stamina than the gf i had during that period could ever want. Just one more way working out builds the old self-esteem.
or cum shot quotas, if you will, seem to be pretty high for me. I mean, i have had horny, rainy days in my life where i've masturbated to orgasm 10 times. In almost every case, however, the last few ejaculations don't produce much cum and also aren't nearly as pleasant.
In actual sex with a partner, it's much different. 5 times a day seems to be about my maximum before a raw penis, sore abs and/or empty balls put an end to my coupling for the day. There are probably things i could do differently with a partner is she and I were trying to see how many times she could get me off in one nigh but, to this point, 5 has been the limit (i think, may have been one day w/6 memory's fuzzy).
Many have mentioned the difference between climax and ejaculation and separating the two for men. This is something i can do quite easily when i masturbate and, therefore, if i have some time and can do it right, i am capable of building myself up to a pretty mind-blowing ejaculation, with plenty of shivering "climaxes" along the way.
One frustrating thing for me is that it is much more difficult for me to do this when i'm with a woman. If i'm between her legs, inside her, I can hold off on coming but i can't do that tantalizing build up-back off-build up-back off technique. I just don't have the degree of control like i do with my hands.
Any of you guys out there willing to give me pointers? I figure if it leads to such great orgasms flying solo it must be sensational with a woman.
One other note, ladies and gents, physical fitness DOES increase stamina. When I was running two miles a day and doing weight training religiously, i got erections like iron bars and had more stamina than the gf i had during that period could ever want. Just one more way working out builds the old self-esteem.
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Re: the orgasm outer limits
Any of you guys out there willing to give me pointers? I figure if it leads to such great orgasms flying solo it must be sensational with a woman.
One other note, ladies and gents, physical fitness DOES increase stamina. When I was running two miles a day and doing weight training religiously, i got erections like iron bars and had more stamina than the gf i had during that period could ever want. Just one more way working out builds the old self-esteem.
[/QUOTE] I'v been working out again and yes I can see the diffrence
I think I can help a little here. Get her to change possitions a lot and while moving from one to the other sort of pinch your cock (say in the middle) for a few secounds, using your thumb and first two fingures.fanzee1 said:
Any of you guys out there willing to give me pointers? I figure if it leads to such great orgasms flying solo it must be sensational with a woman.
One other note, ladies and gents, physical fitness DOES increase stamina. When I was running two miles a day and doing weight training religiously, i got erections like iron bars and had more stamina than the gf i had during that period could ever want. Just one more way working out builds the old self-esteem.
[/QUOTE] I'v been working out again and yes I can see the diffrence
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Here are a couple of things you might try. Vary the depth and speed of your stroke. When you are just barely inside her, move only an inch or so, and then back till you nearly fall out. Do this ever so slowly, for 5 or 6 thrusts, then take a deep one, but again enter her slowly.
Vary the number of short strokes, so she doesn't know when to expect the longer one; after awhile, start to increase the number of longer strokes, as well as the speed. Just before you're ready to come, return to the short slow strokes, while breathing deeply, and pause, with the head of your cock just inside her. At this point, rhythmically tighten and relax your PC muscles. This will make your cock change diameter, and further stimulate her.
If you're on top, try sitting up, and massaging her vaginal lips and clitoris as you do this. Focusing on her will let you regain control. See how many times you can get her to come, for each time you let yourself go.
Good Luck and have fun.
Vary the number of short strokes, so she doesn't know when to expect the longer one; after awhile, start to increase the number of longer strokes, as well as the speed. Just before you're ready to come, return to the short slow strokes, while breathing deeply, and pause, with the head of your cock just inside her. At this point, rhythmically tighten and relax your PC muscles. This will make your cock change diameter, and further stimulate her.
If you're on top, try sitting up, and massaging her vaginal lips and clitoris as you do this. Focusing on her will let you regain control. See how many times you can get her to come, for each time you let yourself go.
Good Luck and have fun.
Pdxmwm
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Stamina
T, most of the material in the stamina thread was the same as what I posted here earlier. I looked for the orginal site, but it's dropped off the radar.
The best printed material I've found is in Barbara's book. It's a very good read, especially with an interested partner. Make Love All Nigh Long
It will take several weeks to go through all the exercises, but it will be a very memorable time.
When I have a new partner one of the first things we'll do together is called a Yoni Massage
It builds trust, relaxes you partner, and lays the foundation for a very pleasing relationship. There is a corrosponding activity, called the Lingum Massage for a Male partner. These are great ways to help your partner learn how to separate ejaculation and climax, and to build the stamina to "Make Love All Night Long"
Here is the Yoni... Take your time, and enjoy the process; it should take at least 1-2 hours.
The goal of the Yoni massage is not orgasm. Orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is simply to pleasure and massage the Yoni/vagina. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and not have to worry about achieving something. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm is allowed to happen or not happen. It is also helpful for the giver to not expect anything in return. Just allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself afterwards. Of course, other sexual activity may follow but it should be entirely the receiver's choice. This perspective will build greater intimacy and trust, and will greatly expand your sexual horizons. PREPARATION: Bathing is always helpful as it relaxes both the receiver and giver. A quiet space is desirable with pleasing music, candles, pillows, etc., or whatever makes the participants relax and feel safe. Allow yourself enough time and do not hurry through the process. Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results will occur when the bowels and bladder are empty and you will avoid the unnecessary experience of interrupting the massage to go to the bathroom. Connect with your partner by hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other's eyes for an extended time), or whatever brings you to a place of safety and relaxation. PROCEDURE: Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers' legs. The giver may wish to sit on a pillow or cushion. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or takes shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is very important here.
Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to get the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching the Yoni.
Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. (Several excellent sexual lubricants are available for this. Many lingerie shops, sex toy shops, sex magazines, etc., offer these safe lubricants. My favourite is Yoni Play from Looking Good Enterprises.)
CAVEAT - Do not mix oil-based products with latex.
Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. Spend some time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving the massage. Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Do the same thing to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. Take your time.
The receiver can massage her own breasts or may just relax and continue breathing deeply. It is helpful for giver and receiver to look into each other's eyes as much as possible. The receiver can tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc., needs to be increased or decreased. Limit your speaking and focus on the pleasurable sensations. (It is my experience that too much talking gets one out of their feelings and diminishes the effects.)
Gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage her to just relax and breathe.
Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your right hand into the Yoni (there is a reason for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra). Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni/ vagina with this finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. Vary the depth, speed and pressure. Remember, this is a massage and you're nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. With your palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move the middle finger in a "come here" gesture or crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, the sacred spot (there are many excellent books that go into detail about this area). Your partner may feel as if they have to urinate or it may be painful or pleasurable. Again vary the pressure, speed and pattern of movement. You can move side to side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger. You can also insert the finger that's between your middle finger and pinky. Check with your partner first before sticking two fingers into them. Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers. Take your time and be very gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well. An option to try if the receiver wants it is to insert the pinky of the right hand into her anus. Ask her first and do not insert your pinky into her Yoni/vagina after it has been in her anus. Use lubrication and be very gentle. (In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is in her anus, the next finger and middle finger in her Yoni/vagina, and your thumb on her clitoris, "You are holding one of the mysteries of the universe in your hand.") So, what is your left hand doing all this time? You can use it to massage the breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. If you massage the clitoris it's usually best to use your thumb in an up down motion, with the rest of your hand resting on and massaging the mound. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the receiver. I do not recommend using your left hand to touch your own genitals because it may take your focus off the receiver. Remember, this massage is for her pleasure and much of the benefit comes from not only the physical stimulation but the intent as well. Continue massaging, trying different speeds, pressures and motions. Keep breathing and looking into each other's eyes. She may have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep breathing and be gentle. Many women have been sexually abused and need to be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of great value to her.
If she has an orgasm, keep her breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called "riding the wave." Many women can learn how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni Massage and a very patient partner.
Keep massaging until she tells you to stop. Very slowly, gently, and with respect, remove your hands. Allow her to just lay there and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality.
PS. Now, for a shamless personal ad: If this has generated any interest from one of our women readers, let me know.
T, most of the material in the stamina thread was the same as what I posted here earlier. I looked for the orginal site, but it's dropped off the radar.
The best printed material I've found is in Barbara's book. It's a very good read, especially with an interested partner. Make Love All Nigh Long
It will take several weeks to go through all the exercises, but it will be a very memorable time.
When I have a new partner one of the first things we'll do together is called a Yoni Massage
It builds trust, relaxes you partner, and lays the foundation for a very pleasing relationship. There is a corrosponding activity, called the Lingum Massage for a Male partner. These are great ways to help your partner learn how to separate ejaculation and climax, and to build the stamina to "Make Love All Night Long"
Here is the Yoni... Take your time, and enjoy the process; it should take at least 1-2 hours.
The goal of the Yoni massage is not orgasm. Orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is simply to pleasure and massage the Yoni/vagina. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and not have to worry about achieving something. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm is allowed to happen or not happen. It is also helpful for the giver to not expect anything in return. Just allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself afterwards. Of course, other sexual activity may follow but it should be entirely the receiver's choice. This perspective will build greater intimacy and trust, and will greatly expand your sexual horizons. PREPARATION: Bathing is always helpful as it relaxes both the receiver and giver. A quiet space is desirable with pleasing music, candles, pillows, etc., or whatever makes the participants relax and feel safe. Allow yourself enough time and do not hurry through the process. Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results will occur when the bowels and bladder are empty and you will avoid the unnecessary experience of interrupting the massage to go to the bathroom. Connect with your partner by hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other's eyes for an extended time), or whatever brings you to a place of safety and relaxation. PROCEDURE: Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers' legs. The giver may wish to sit on a pillow or cushion. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or takes shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is very important here.
Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to get the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching the Yoni.
Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. (Several excellent sexual lubricants are available for this. Many lingerie shops, sex toy shops, sex magazines, etc., offer these safe lubricants. My favourite is Yoni Play from Looking Good Enterprises.)
CAVEAT - Do not mix oil-based products with latex.
Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. Spend some time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving the massage. Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Do the same thing to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. Take your time.
The receiver can massage her own breasts or may just relax and continue breathing deeply. It is helpful for giver and receiver to look into each other's eyes as much as possible. The receiver can tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc., needs to be increased or decreased. Limit your speaking and focus on the pleasurable sensations. (It is my experience that too much talking gets one out of their feelings and diminishes the effects.)
Gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage her to just relax and breathe.
Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your right hand into the Yoni (there is a reason for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra). Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni/ vagina with this finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. Vary the depth, speed and pressure. Remember, this is a massage and you're nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. With your palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move the middle finger in a "come here" gesture or crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, the sacred spot (there are many excellent books that go into detail about this area). Your partner may feel as if they have to urinate or it may be painful or pleasurable. Again vary the pressure, speed and pattern of movement. You can move side to side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger. You can also insert the finger that's between your middle finger and pinky. Check with your partner first before sticking two fingers into them. Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers. Take your time and be very gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well. An option to try if the receiver wants it is to insert the pinky of the right hand into her anus. Ask her first and do not insert your pinky into her Yoni/vagina after it has been in her anus. Use lubrication and be very gentle. (In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is in her anus, the next finger and middle finger in her Yoni/vagina, and your thumb on her clitoris, "You are holding one of the mysteries of the universe in your hand.") So, what is your left hand doing all this time? You can use it to massage the breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. If you massage the clitoris it's usually best to use your thumb in an up down motion, with the rest of your hand resting on and massaging the mound. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the receiver. I do not recommend using your left hand to touch your own genitals because it may take your focus off the receiver. Remember, this massage is for her pleasure and much of the benefit comes from not only the physical stimulation but the intent as well. Continue massaging, trying different speeds, pressures and motions. Keep breathing and looking into each other's eyes. She may have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep breathing and be gentle. Many women have been sexually abused and need to be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of great value to her.
If she has an orgasm, keep her breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called "riding the wave." Many women can learn how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni Massage and a very patient partner.
Keep massaging until she tells you to stop. Very slowly, gently, and with respect, remove your hands. Allow her to just lay there and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality.
PS. Now, for a shamless personal ad: If this has generated any interest from one of our women readers, let me know.
YosemiteSam
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Howdy guys,
here's my 2 cents....
I'm the orginal horndog. I masturbate alot, weather I am getting any or not. 2 or 3 stress relievers during the day are not uncommon for me at all. How long it takes varies on how rushed I am feeling, and how high my T level is, if I'm aroused, or feeling agressive, it usually dosen't take long a couple min or so.
Other times, like when I spen the night here reading stories, I can and do get off 5 or 6 times in a a short time, an hour or 2. The volume lesses with every one, but the pleasure dosen't, and they only seem a lil harder to get to each time.
With a female it's different. A long time ago I started looking at my first as kinda part of the foreplay, it dosen't even count as far as I am concerned. I'm just trying to get it out of the way, and it may take only 15 min or so to reach. The second, is much easier for me to maintain and control. I can usually sustain it for an hr or more before the urge to cum gets to strong to resist.
I have had as manny as 10 in a single day with a partner (when I was younger and in great physical condition), but 4 or 5 is as far as I ever push myself these days. (I'm 31 BTW) Each one is progressively harder to get to, and by 3 I really working at it. 4 and 5 when i try them seem to be pushing the limits of my physical endurance, as can get kinda scary ina erotic sort of way. While dieing in bed during sex may be a great fantasy way to go, I'm not ready to take that adventure yet so I usually stop there. However (don't give up ladies) I may not be the 17yr old superman I was, I took a page from the batman play book an got myself some really cool toys to make up for what my body can't handle.
Not sure how typical I am or not, but thats my answer.
here's my 2 cents....
I'm the orginal horndog. I masturbate alot, weather I am getting any or not. 2 or 3 stress relievers during the day are not uncommon for me at all. How long it takes varies on how rushed I am feeling, and how high my T level is, if I'm aroused, or feeling agressive, it usually dosen't take long a couple min or so.
Other times, like when I spen the night here reading stories, I can and do get off 5 or 6 times in a a short time, an hour or 2. The volume lesses with every one, but the pleasure dosen't, and they only seem a lil harder to get to each time.
With a female it's different. A long time ago I started looking at my first as kinda part of the foreplay, it dosen't even count as far as I am concerned. I'm just trying to get it out of the way, and it may take only 15 min or so to reach. The second, is much easier for me to maintain and control. I can usually sustain it for an hr or more before the urge to cum gets to strong to resist.
I have had as manny as 10 in a single day with a partner (when I was younger and in great physical condition), but 4 or 5 is as far as I ever push myself these days. (I'm 31 BTW) Each one is progressively harder to get to, and by 3 I really working at it. 4 and 5 when i try them seem to be pushing the limits of my physical endurance, as can get kinda scary ina erotic sort of way. While dieing in bed during sex may be a great fantasy way to go, I'm not ready to take that adventure yet so I usually stop there. However (don't give up ladies) I may not be the 17yr old superman I was, I took a page from the batman play book an got myself some really cool toys to make up for what my body can't handle.
Not sure how typical I am or not, but thats my answer.
fanzee1
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Well thanks for the advice
The pinching thing i have done. It works for stamina but not for that long slow burn feeling of going up to the edge without falling off, at least not for me.
I'll work more with the varied strokes, something i do now but without an eye to building up to the edge. Hope i can focus on that without being too clinical.
Thanks dudes.
Also, note to jewel, who mentioned her bf being unreceptive to her advice, that's kind of to be expected from most men because it's just one of those touchy areas that he's not likely to enjoy having his woman give him pointers on. Rightly or wrongly, it will often feel like a challenge to his manhood. Somewhat similar, i would guess, to the way your mom would feel if your dad challenged her on how she organizes her kitchen. Approach with caution.
The pinching thing i have done. It works for stamina but not for that long slow burn feeling of going up to the edge without falling off, at least not for me.
I'll work more with the varied strokes, something i do now but without an eye to building up to the edge. Hope i can focus on that without being too clinical.
Thanks dudes.
Also, note to jewel, who mentioned her bf being unreceptive to her advice, that's kind of to be expected from most men because it's just one of those touchy areas that he's not likely to enjoy having his woman give him pointers on. Rightly or wrongly, it will often feel like a challenge to his manhood. Somewhat similar, i would guess, to the way your mom would feel if your dad challenged her on how she organizes her kitchen. Approach with caution.
A Kilted Rogue
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Volume
I've read the posts on stamina and staying hard for a long time. What I'm wondering is if anyone here knows how to increase the amount of fluid produced, or is it pretty much controlled by the body?
I'm also an admitted quick shot...anything besides the pinching technique that might help me while continuing to pleasure her?
I've read the posts on stamina and staying hard for a long time. What I'm wondering is if anyone here knows how to increase the amount of fluid produced, or is it pretty much controlled by the body?
I'm also an admitted quick shot...anything besides the pinching technique that might help me while continuing to pleasure her?
The Gimp
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That's the key to premature ejaculation. The second cumming invariably takes much more effort than the first but the resulting pleasure doesn't get much if any better. The third time takes a hell of alot more effort than the second but it's never as intense as 1 or 2. On a rare occasion I'll go at it like a marathon to satisfy her but on an average night I don't bother.
JigglyJoan
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my bf is very conservative and would never read a board like this!
is there anything pointers you guys could give me to help him orgasm with ejaculating? i feel real selfish cumming several times to his one
is there anything pointers you guys could give me to help him orgasm with ejaculating? i feel real selfish cumming several times to his one
Carnus
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I am a bit larger than average (look for me in thick veiny cocks thread) and have found over the years that while I normally only cum once masturbating (it is a wonderful stress relief) I can keep going and go a second round 10 or so minutes later. During sex I can always go a second or third time but I also usually tend to last about 20 miinutes the first time 30 or 40 the second and if I go for the third time I tend to just go until I (or who I am with) is ready to stop I must admit as I have gotten older (37 now) it now takes a bit longer between rounds, where when I was younger it was 5 minutes, now it is usually 10 or so. Also, most of the women may not know this, but you don't have to be hard to have an orgasm, girl I used to date always wanted to take all of me in her mouth, but never could when fully hard, so one evening just after I 'finished' she took me in her mouth and kept stimulating me until I came in 3 or so minutes, I was only firm, not hard and still came with quite a load. I have been doing PC excersizes for years and they do wonders for you, hehe, you can put your own eye out if your not careful.
Patrick
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For birds wife/pc excercises
birds wife
Pc excercises are good for both men and women.
In a man its help to be able to control ejaculations and i have found longer lasting errections
I found many spots with info, but a good one is mensforte.com is the penile fitness section..( they have good instructions)
also as mentioned in a previous thread "how to make love all night" is a good read....
I'm not where I want to be in my control and lasting but i'm making progess...
good luck
Phil N lusty
birds wife
Pc excercises are good for both men and women.
In a man its help to be able to control ejaculations and i have found longer lasting errections
I found many spots with info, but a good one is mensforte.com is the penile fitness section..( they have good instructions)
also as mentioned in a previous thread "how to make love all night" is a good read....
I'm not where I want to be in my control and lasting but i'm making progess...
good luck
Phil N lusty
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After reading this entire thread I fear I've been jerking off wrong for years.
Since I was 14 or 15 years old I would:
1. Get horny
2. Spend 10 minutes or so jerking off.
3. Clean up.
4. Get on with my life.
It was all so simple until I read this thread. Now my mind is full of questions about technique, frequency, yada, yada, yada.
Damn you all! Damn you all to hell!!
Since I was 14 or 15 years old I would:
1. Get horny
2. Spend 10 minutes or so jerking off.
3. Clean up.
4. Get on with my life.
It was all so simple until I read this thread. Now my mind is full of questions about technique, frequency, yada, yada, yada.
Damn you all! Damn you all to hell!!
for me,it depends on the person i'm with,also what we do.I can have many dry orgasms,and then i 'let myself have a wet one.I've had about five orgasms in about 6 hours(wet ones),while having intercourse.The dry ones can be added at will(mine or her's).One key is also tryn' to release tension in the area,usually trhough breathing,then i reach some kind of plateau where i can be on for hours,so usually coming just spoils the fun,at least for me.
I've read the other posts and the the book mentioned,i need to add this:
PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO RELEASE TENSION AND LET YOURSELF COME,WITH EJACULATION,otherwise you damage your organs,if you are doing the pc muscle trick.
Also the thread was about orgasm through cock,otherwise the list can get longer......
I wish you many happy orgasms
Isshogai7
.One key is also tryn' to release tension in the area,usually trhough breathing,then i reach some kind of plateau where i can be on for hours,so usually coming just spoils the fun,at least for me.I've read the other posts and the the book mentioned,i need to add this:
PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO RELEASE TENSION AND LET YOURSELF COME,WITH EJACULATION,otherwise you damage your organs,if you are doing the pc muscle trick.
Also the thread was about orgasm through cock,otherwise the list can get longer......
I wish you many happy orgasms
Isshogai7
JigglyJoan
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i've hear that pulling down on a guy's testicals can prevent ejaculation. is this true? if so how do u do this properly and without injuring you partner?
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a picture/diagram would be great!
edit:
a picture/diagram would be great!
JigglyJoan
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isshogai7 said:
the flux? but re the method, u mean on the bottom? does it actually work or would the guy still cum but it gets trapped lower down? like stepping on a hose?
the man should be aware of the point of no return(when stopping ejaculation is becoming impossible);you can try that during a handjob;at the right moment(just before no return)you pull the scrotum down,gently pinching on the bottom,or use two fingers in the perineum area,pressing them against the skin;the pinch method is when you put a thumb on the underside of the shaft and the index on the top and press;i don't use those method myself,something else works for me;anyway it depends very much on the individual response;like they say,different strokes for different folks ......................
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isshogai7 said:
so u pull on the scrotum only not the testes as well??
any diagrams? - no i'm not blonde!
and what would that be?
waterkemist
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Pull down the scrotum
Hi Jiggly,
Right before a man cums, his sack draws up tight to his body. If his testes are pulled down in time, one will delay his orgasm. Be careful here, despite what you may read in stories, a firm grasp and forceful tug may NOT have the effect desired. He probably won't cum then either. Get a copy of some of the books from the "Joy of Sex" series. Maybe you won't find them at the local library, but they are worth seeking out. There is a manual technique described where you massage his cock until just before the point of no return and then encircle his cock with a finger and thumb at the very base next to his groin. The next move is to squeeze...ask him about the pressure. This prevents him from cumming. It may not work the first time, but practice.
I never could get a partner to try this with me, but it sounds like a lot of fun. If you need someone to practice on, I could do a favor for a literotica member.
Something else that will play heavily in your man's satisfaction is the length of time he recieves stimulation. If he gets about twenty minutes of direct satisfaction, then he may not care if he cums more that once. Try to keep your hand, or your mouth, or maybe other body parts; hey, I try to be tolerant here...use what you want, on his penis or genital area. Don't just pump up and down. Feel along his member, cup his balls for a while if he lets you, lightly scratch his ass cheeks right where he sits. The important part is to maintain the stimulation with getting him close to cumming at all. Breaking up any repeated motion to be almost ramdom will work the best, just keep touching him.
Darn, now I'm horny again. You sure you don't need a coach?
Unfortunately, the older one gets the more one respects the saying, "Once a Knight is enough."
--Waterkemist
Hi Jiggly,
Right before a man cums, his sack draws up tight to his body. If his testes are pulled down in time, one will delay his orgasm. Be careful here, despite what you may read in stories, a firm grasp and forceful tug may NOT have the effect desired. He probably won't cum then either. Get a copy of some of the books from the "Joy of Sex" series. Maybe you won't find them at the local library, but they are worth seeking out. There is a manual technique described where you massage his cock until just before the point of no return and then encircle his cock with a finger and thumb at the very base next to his groin. The next move is to squeeze...ask him about the pressure. This prevents him from cumming. It may not work the first time, but practice.
I never could get a partner to try this with me, but it sounds like a lot of fun. If you need someone to practice on, I could do a favor for a literotica member.
Something else that will play heavily in your man's satisfaction is the length of time he recieves stimulation. If he gets about twenty minutes of direct satisfaction, then he may not care if he cums more that once. Try to keep your hand, or your mouth, or maybe other body parts; hey, I try to be tolerant here...use what you want, on his penis or genital area. Don't just pump up and down. Feel along his member, cup his balls for a while if he lets you, lightly scratch his ass cheeks right where he sits. The important part is to maintain the stimulation with getting him close to cumming at all. Breaking up any repeated motion to be almost ramdom will work the best, just keep touching him.
Darn, now I'm horny again. You sure you don't need a coach?
Unfortunately, the older one gets the more one respects the saying, "Once a Knight is enough."
--Waterkemist
Originally posted by JigglyJoan
and what would that be?
I can have many dry orgasms,without losing erection:read my previous post here.Also,using breathing and relaxing the whole area ,you can go on without feeling the urge to come: that way you just enjoy things more; it seems that
i become more sensitive,more in touch with the partner ,like we become one,then we can make love for hours and i enjoy what i like most,the act of making love,more than worryng about coming.
I hope that answers to your question.
isshogai7
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